The partner of a physically healthy Dutch woman, who made public her decision to end her life through euthanasia on her 34th birthday, has expressed his love and bid her farewell.
Jolanda Fun, who disclosed her intention to end her life earlier this month, citing relentless mental health struggles despite the support of her loved ones, aimed to become the latest individual in The Netherlands to undergo doctor-assisted death, as reported by the Daily Mail.
On April 25, the day she earmarked for her passing, her partner Peter Silvius penned an emotional message on Facebook, addressing her directly: "Sweet Jolanda... have a good last journey and see you later xx."
Responding with kissing emojis and a brief message, Jolanda didn't post anything further, leading to speculation about whether she went through with her plan.
In a recent interview with The Sunday Times, Jolanda shared insights into her relationship with a 51-year-old partner who was aware of her intentions from the outset, acknowledging the complexities of their situation.
Peter, in what seemed like another tribute, shared a poignant quote on Facebook, reading: "I've never loved anyone like I love you. I cry over you. No matter what you do, I cannot fall out of love with you. I cannot bring myself to forget you.
It went on: "I've never missed anyone as much as I miss you. No one in this world means to me as much as you do."
Jolanda, who meticulously prepared for her death, printed funeral invitations bearing the words: "Born from love, let go in love... After a hard-fought life, she chose the peace she so longed for."
Her journey towards euthanasia began two years ago when she learned about Dutch laws permitting euthanasia for psychiatric reasons, resulting in her recent approval after meeting stringent criteria.
Jolanda, who grappled with mental health issues from a young age, expressed a preference for a peaceful end over attempting suicide, citing her struggles with eating disorders, depression, autism, and learning difficulties.
Despite the presence of family, friends, and a beloved pet, Jolanda revealed the internal turmoil she endured, describing it as "dark, overstimulation, chaos in my head, loneliness."
Her decision to pursue euthanasia was also influenced by her parents' battles with illness, further motivating her desire for a dignified exit surrounded by loved ones.
The Expertisecentrum Euthanasie initially declined to handle Jolanda's case, but after securing the necessary approvals, including from a psychiatrist and a third specialist doctor, she met the criteria for assisted dying under Dutch law.
In the Netherlands, where euthanasia is legal, rights groups advocate for the humane treatment of individuals facing terminal illness or debilitating conditions, with 138 cases of euthanasia for mental health reasons reported in 2023.
Though the reasons behind the increasing trend of euthanasia remain unclear, Dutch law mandates strict conditions for those seeking euthanasia on mental health grounds, ensuring autonomy, informed consent, and thorough evaluation by independent doctors.
While the majority of euthanasia cases involve individuals over sixty with terminal illnesses, Jolanda's case shows the evolving landscape of end-of-life decisions in the Netherlands.
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