are
hard.
Not only do you need to "woo" your significant other with dates, romantic gestures and you name it, but you also have to hear them whine about everything from their nagging boss to their cat's gross habit of dragging dismembered mice through the kitchen. And while you'd think that having someone who's always there to do the dirty with would make up for all the the work it takes to make them happy, that's not necessarily the case.
In fact, you can be madly
with someone but also be deeply incompatible when it comes to doing The Deed. So if you find yourself zoning out during your mid-week session, or if you can never make it to climax no matter how hard your partner tries, you may not be the best match in the bedroom. In fact, you better take a look at the 8 signs of sexual incompatibility to judge just how dire the situation really is.
1. It's never spontaneous
There are no sudden fits of passion here, sex is normally scheduled and rather routine.
2. You don't like the same sex positions
So at any given point during sex, one of you isn't enjoying yourself. And while it's nice that you're trying to please your partner, it's important that you both enjoying the experience.
3. You find it hard to concentrate
Do you find yourself constantly zoning out when you're supposed to be in the throes of passion? I mean, the wallpaper really can't be that interesting. But I guess anything is more entrancing than your partner...
4. You regularly have sex with the TV on
And you're pretty sure your partner is watching it the whole way through...
5. You only have sex on special occasions
Sure you schedule in the sexy-time whenever there's a birthday or anniversary, but otherwise it's virtually non-existent.
6. You're never horny at the same time
Either they want it when you don't or you're feeling sexy and they make up some excuse, but either way, it's rare to find a time when you're both horny at the same time.
7. You don't believe it when your friends tell you all about the great sex that they have
You just can't imagine a world in which that happens.
8. You're just not sexually attracted to them
Sure, you wanted to rip their pants off at one point, but now the fire is well and truly out...
If you've experienced an alarming number of these tell-tale signs, it may be a time for a serious sit-down with your significant other as a fulfilling sex life is integral to a healthy relationship.
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