1. Communication has gone
Communication is the key to all good relationships, and if you are not communicating effectively and openly, it's time to pull the trigger. A huge part of being with someone is feeling like you can tell them anything, from having diarrhoea to serious family issues: you need to be able to talk about everything with them, and if you can't – say your farewells.
2. You don't want to have sex
While as you get older, personality becomes a larger factor in who you want to settle down with, you still want to be sexually attracted to them. The days of banging any old person you find in the bar may be gone, but if you don't want to get freaky with your significant other then is something wrong. Sex is an important part of all relationships, and if the temperature in the bedroom resembles a fridge more than an oven, you know what to do.
3. It's all got a bit boring
4. You pick fights
5. Future? What future?
In the early stages of your relationship, you would talk about the cool things you want to do together, now you can't even commit to going to dinner next week. Talking about the future is representative that you want to spend time with that person, if you can't picture yourself with them in a couple of days, why be with them now?
6. You are no longer affectionate
Remember the good old days, the days when you would wake up and just cuddle all day in bed? They were nice. Now, you can't get of bed quick enough. When was the last time you missed you partner? How often do you say "I love you"? If these feelings and expressions are now absent from your relationship, then it's not good news. You should miss your S/O and you should make them feel appreciated, if you don't, give the relationship the chop.
7. Daydreaming about life outside of the relationship
We're not talking about wondering whether cows can swim here, we're talking about full on imagining your life if you weren't in a relationship. Would you get frisky with that colleague you've always had the hots for? How about that barista you see every morning, you could ask for their number? If you're thinking about your life outside of your current partner, your relationship is over, so make it official.
8. You're not interested
You literally have no interest in what they're saying. It's going in one ear and out of the other. While you used to be interested in what they did at work, or the funny stories they had on nights out, now you couldn't care less if you tried. You have outgrown each other and in doing so, you have out grown the relationship – it's time to move on.
9. One of you has cheated
This is the ultimate sign that you are no longer interested in the relationship. If you, or your partner, has cheated, then it's more than likely because you don't want to be with each other. Yes, we all have our head our heads turned from time-to-time, but there's a difference between being tempted, and actually going through with it.
10. They have broken up with you
Yeah, I mean it's over, get over it.