Woman reveals the shocking messages a man sent her before meeting for their blind date

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A woman has gone viral after revealing the shocking messages a man sent her prior to their blind date.

Taking to TikTok, Sydney Weise revealed how a man totally blew it with her after asking about her size prior to meeting because he was frightened that he was going to get "catfished again".

Watch the viral TikTok below: 

The man wrote in the text messages: "I honestly just want to make sure you're not big like that. I don't need a model but I just don't want to get catfished again."

"Big like what?" she asked in response, and he replied "big, big."

Catfishing occurs when a person pretends to be something they are not online, typically by using another person's identity or heavily photoshopping their photographs.

However, this woman did not like how judgemental her potential date appeared to be and decided that the time had come to end their interaction.

"It's ok that you do [have a preference]. I'm cool with it but I'm not your girl, to be honest," she responded.

He then responded: "What do you mean? I don't need a model because I'm chunky so."

It was at this point that she explicitly said she wanted nothing more to do with the man, writing: "I mean, bye bro."

The TikTok did not go unnoticed as it racked up over 17.6K likes and hundreds of comments.

Reacting to the footage, one TikTok user wrote: "Preferences are fine, but the way he talked about it was so incredibly off-putting lol. Glad you walked away."

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A second added: "She dealt with this SO NICELY. Y'all want to defend men having preferences but won't respect our preference not to date them bc of that?"

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A third wrote: "Everyone can have a preference, but it goes both ways. She was absolutely in her right to leave the convo. Nothing is obliging her to stay."

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A fourth added: "That's also red flags that if he does get into shape he won't be interested in a girl that is anything but 'model' type. so you did the right thing."

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Meanwhile, a fifth wrote: "Everyone can have a preference but that doesn't change the fact that your preferences can make you shallow."

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