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Published 14:58 23 Jun 2026 GMT
Kristi Noem’s husband Bryon allegedly contacted a dominatrix even after his secret life as a cross-dresser was exposed.
The new claim comes months after reports revealed Bryon had allegedly used the alias Jason Jackson while communicating with women in the online "bimbofication" community, where performers transform themselves into real-life Barbie dolls through extreme cosmetic enhancements.
The allegation was initially reported by the Daily Mail.
Shy Sotomayor, who claims she had a nine-year relationship with Bryon, made the new allegation during an appearance on the podcast Uncloseted with Spencer Macnaughton.
“How recently has he DM'd you and what is he saying to you?” Spencer Macnaughton asked.
“May 17th, he texted me on iMessage. He's like, 'I've been a really bad boy.' I'm like, 'Oh, I know. I know you've been a bad boy,'” Sotomayor replied.
“I feel like this is truly a sick man. I feel like he has a sex addiction and that is not something I would want to take advantage of.”
Sotomayor said she sent Bryon a long message after he allegedly contacted her.
“I sent him a very long message saying, 'You know, Bryon, I thought really hard on this. You obviously are very sick. You need help. If it's not clear by now or after being America's joke, I truly don't know what is.”
“But I've come forward with my story about you. This is just kind of me saying goodbye. If you find another girl who does want to talk to you during this, I'm like, shame on both of you. You need to get better.'”
Sotomayor also said Bryon did not respond, so she sent him an invoice for $4,500, which she claims remains unpaid.
She called him a “loose cannon” and claimed he brushed off fears about being exposed.
“Any time I talked to him and was like, 'Hey, you know, people could find us out,' you know, because he was talking about meeting in person. He was like, 'I don’t care,'" she said.
“He just did not care about the consequences.”