'Never judge a book by its cover' is a principle that many of us have been told and tell one another, but not many of us actually follow the rule. Think about it - how many times have you got to know someone and realised that they aren't the sort of person you expected them to be?
All of us are guilty of it in some respects, but some will make the broadest assumptions of someone just because of what they look like or what they do for a living. However, when Andy Ross, from Vancouver, was met with limited expectations, he ended up absolutely schooling the woman who assumed the worst of him.
Andy, a construction worker, went to the supermarket at the end of his workday, when he noticed a little girl looking at him. With tattoos on his arms, and his face dirty from a long day's work, he knew why she was looking. But what he wasn't expecting was how dismissively he was treated by the child's mother.
As the mother and daughter finished what they were doing and walked away, he heard the mother quietly tell her child, "that is why you need to stay in school". That's when Andy decided to educate both of them on the truth of the matter. He later made a Facebook post about the conversation, which has now gone viral.
In the post, he wrote:
"First, I happen to be a very educated dirty man. I not only have a high school diploma, I also have a college degree and many medical certifications. So assuming that I am uneducated because of my appearance is actually quite ignorant in itself.
"Secondly, if you are telling your daughter to stay in school because I have tattoos up and down my arms, that will actually suppress her creativity and potentially hinder her imagination as she develops.
"I am proud of my tattoos and artwork that Forrest Bateman put on my body. It’s a representation of my pride in my country and my service over multiple combat tours as a special operations medic."
He then went on to describe how - despite the fact she seems to think he got where he is because of a lack of education - he actually chose his current line of work. He is proud of his work, believes that it matters to the world, and simply found that working in an office environment wasn't for him.
"I enjoy working with my hands and being outdoors. Subsequently, it comes with being dirty some days. I make good money, have benefits, and am able to provide for my family without issue. So my appearance reflects nothing to do with my level of intelligence or pursuing a higher level of education.
"I left the two with a simple final statement of 'have a good day and try not to judge people before you know anything about them'. Good luck with her little girl."
He ends his message with a lesson for us all, describing how we shouldn't "judge people at first glance". Andy explains that doing what you love and enjoy will make sure each day never feels like work, and while education is important, college doesn't guarantee you anything.
And, perhaps most importantly, "when attempting to insult someone’s intelligence and education level, don’t allow yourself to be out educated by said dirty man". Well said.
I'm off the opinion that people should be taught dating etiquette in school, because frankly there are a hell of a lot of people out there who just don't seem to get it. They don't have a clue about how to behave, and exhibit the kind of behaviour that would be spoilt and obnoxious even in a four-year-old-child, let alone a fully grown adult.
Something about dating just seems to bring out the worst in people, and I'm sure we can all remember a date that we went on with good intentions that turned out to be a total car crash. But if you want an example of some serious entitlement, then look no further.
Recently, a young woman named Amanda Burnett, a nurse who hails from Chicago, Illinois, took to Twitter to share her story of a cringeworthy encounter with a guy who was either very offended or else, just super-stingy. Amanda had been on a dinner date with this dude a few days previously, but unfortunately for her, the sparks just weren't flying.
However, rather than reject him straight away, Amanda elected to simply ghost him instead. She stopped answering his calls, and hoped that he would take a hint and cease with the unwarranted advances. Big mistake.
On April 3. Amanda received an invoice (that's right, an invoice: you read that correctly) from the dude in the mail, which charged her in full for her portion of the meal. As you can see from the image above, which she posted to Twitter, the letter did indeed look very official, and all told, he believed that Amanda owed him around $40.
Yup, I think this guy thinks he's entitled to sex, and that now he's missing out on it he wants his money back. Sorry man; I'm afraid it doesn't work that way.
In her initial tweet, Amanda stated: "I’m posting this on Twitter bc it can prob go viral honestly. Got this in the mail from a guy I went on a date with a few weeks back because I didn’t text him back." But that wasn't the end of the story.
The hapless suitor then texted Amanda, and like some kind of loan shark, asked her to pay him back immediately so she would incur "penalty fines." Wow; way to make yourself look even less attractive. As you can see below, Amanda was having none of it, and told him exactly where he could stick his invoice.
However, I think there is a lesson to be learned here, which is that being ghosted sucks for everyone involved. I'm not saying that it excuses this kind of behaviour, but maybe Amanda should have thought about letting her amorous date down gently, instead of giving him the cold shoulder. Still, I'm pretty confident that she's never going to fork over that $40. I'm not sure I would either.
Regret. The great maker of people and teachers of lessons worth heeding. It is said that it helps us to move on and achieve what we need to in life with the stark reminder of how a wandering path or action can affect our own lives. However, when it comes to the decisions that affect us physically, such as when I had a mohawk or turning up to a job interview wearing nothing but crotchless chaps, being aware is key. But some people make decisions and remain completely unaware of the ramifications. Enter the most common one of these unaware decisions: tattoos.
[post_page_title]#1 'Close, But Not Close Enough' [/post_page_title]
"Everyone, we've been walking around this rainforest for hours! Steve! Didn't you say Sarah has that on-board compass?'
Sarah:
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No. Shredded. Wheat. Ever?
[post_page_title]#2 'This Guy Got A Sunglasses Tattoo On His Face' [/post_page_title]
Now, like many, I often lose my sunnies. As I'm writing this, I still have a small portion of my brain in a constant state of wonder onto their exact whereabouts.
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However, then I found this life hack. Problem? Solved? No? But - Ok.
[post_page_title]#3 'I Don't Even Have The Words To Explain This' [/post_page_title]
I was born in 1991 (I know poor me, right?) So it's quite easy to say that The Simpsons was a huge part of my life and with it apparently predicting most of the most important international developments these past few years, maybe this next one should be our iconographical savior.
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Why would you need the words, this is perfect is it not?
[post_page_title]#4 'I'm Speechless' [/post_page_title]
Famous iconography or famous faces/characters make tattoo artists a huge amount of revenue each year. It's one-way to immortalize the people who have influenced the world or even your world, but sometimes, sometimes it can go a little wrong.
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Marilyn Monroe, HALLOWEEN EDITION.
[post_page_title]#5 'Oh My God' [/post_page_title]
Fun fact, sort of, my mother is utterly terrified of snakes. It's a common phobia. Another fun fact, she also hates my 18-odd tattoos.
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She would scream in terror is she saw this approaching her or in the corner of her eye. I have to say though, this is excellent and must have taken many skilled hours.
[post_page_title]#6 'Roar' [/post_page_title]
Tigers, beautiful creatures that are apart of many an ancient and contemporary culture. They are also endangered and often find their way inked on the skin of those unlove with the magnificent big cats. M-A-G-N-I-F-C-E-N-T.
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I lOvE tIgErs. Is it just me or does this rendition (if you can call it that) look like a tiger that was caught in Kronenberg timeline from Rick and Morty?
[post_page_title]#7 'El Señor Nippleriño' [/post_page_title]
As I compile this list, it is readily obvious and unfortunate that I am restricted to a modest 30 images. I have over a hundred to choose from and yet sometimes, I feel stopping way short of the magic thirty would be fine. Just fine.
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I won't lie, this possibly the best "ridiculously bad" tattoo I have ever seen.
[post_page_title]#8 'For Real, Man?' [/post_page_title]
"I like sports and I don't care who knows" once sung The Lonely Island.
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Many people aren't happy with their bodies and this man although a minor case has owned such doubt on his physical appearance. That sir is a three-pointer.
[post_page_title]#9 'Today I Learned That My Friend's Chinese Tattoo Literally Means "Turkey Sandwich"' [/post_page_title]
Western people adorning their skin with permanent east-Asian iconography is nothing new and in our lives, many will have seen countless Chinese symbols inked-in the skin of many globetrotters or wannabes. In short, it's often somewhat of a running joke.
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I actually saw the image for this way before any of the text associated with it and somehow I just knew it would be something like that.
[post_page_title]#10 'This Guy's Haircut' [/post_page_title]
I really have no idea why this one is even included in a collection of "ridiculously bad" tattoos.
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Now, initially, I can imagine this being a fright when this man sat down or perhaps if you were asleep and woke to see this maniacal visage staring back at you. It may be a little scary but bad? I disagree, it has earned its place on this list for being simply brilliant. Hat's off the barber also!
[post_page_title]#11 'Nice Tattoo, Dave' [/post_page_title]
We all know a Dave, a Dave that through his ridiculousness is just a treat. In this modern world where inhibitions are thrown far away and people really don't care too much about their outward appearance, tattoos exist.
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Why not, eh?
[post_page_title]#12 'Some Guy Tried To Copy My Tattoo Artist's Work - Tattooed A Nipple On His Arm' [/post_page_title]
Christopher Lee (RIP) once played the James Bond villain Francisco Scaramanga in 'The Man With The Golden Gun'. Despite his deadly golden tool, the man had, for some likely innate reason, a superfluous third nipple.
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There are so many things wrong with this image. So, many, many things.
[post_page_title]#13 'Eminem Or M&M?' [/post_page_title]
Sometimes the word "bad" is often used in pseudo-sense and actually referring to the absolute genius of whatever item in question. Are you ready for this one?
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I really, really hope the CEO of Mars and Slim Shady himself have seen this. Utter, utter excellent-badness here.
[post_page_title]#14 'Back Of The Head Tattoo' [/post_page_title]
And we're back, for today's episode of - heads up, it's tat-time!
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To be completely honest, yes, this would startle anyone but to further my honesty, the detail on this one is insanely good. There's a lot to be said for monkeying around in the modern age.
[post_page_title]#15 'Incredible Angelina's Jolie Portrait' [/post_page_title]
As a tattooed person, I'm not knocking anyone for wanting anything on their skin, it's a personal choice at the end of the day but actual thought is often required prior to the session, or at least it should be.
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We all have idols but bloody hell this is a bad rendition. Marilyn Monroe isn't the only option for an All Hallows Eve tattoo it seems! I wouldn't want to follow this Lara into the catacombs.
[post_page_title]#16 'A Facebook Friend Wanted A Very Specific Tattoo, I Think The Artist Really Nailed It' [/post_page_title]
Variations of this all black and sometimes black and grey tattoo design are quite common these days It's a beautiful design and even if it is over-done, it's still an impressive piece of work that many artists have perfected. Many, not all.
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"Nailed it". More like used a nail.
[post_page_title]#17 'So My Buddy's Step Sister Got A Tattoo Of Her Mother' [/post_page_title]
Honestly, the image-pool I am choosing from is timeless and if I find anymore as shocking as this I may have to change the focus and title of this list entirely.
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"30 Tattoos that may not anything to do with Halloween but almost certainly should" next week's article!
[post_page_title]#18 'So My Buddy's Step Sister Got A Tattoo Of Her Mother' [/post_page_title]
Many of us nearing our 30s (sighhhhhh) will have been and may still be big fans of the Pokémon series and franchise. Reddit user SaggyBeaver is definitely one of these people and one intoxicated night decided to take the quest to catch them all, one step further.
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Pika-Pika-Pika - GURN.
[post_page_title]#19 'My Uncle's New Tattoo. Christmas Will Be Awkward This Year' [/post_page_title]
As we age, many of us will worry if we will have the (not-so) fabled mid-life crisis and is so, how will it manifest itself?
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I feel it is safe to say here that in this case, excusing the hair cut, this main focal point of this mid-life mishap is best seen from a bird's-eye view.
[post_page_title]#20 'Not Sure If It's Genius Or Just Horrible' [/post_page_title]
Now, one of the most minor, but still annoying things about being a biological male is sporadic body hair. Sometimes a tuft here and there grows a little out of control and something MUST be done. Tattoos to the rescue, again!
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Genius? Horrible? Both? Hori-genius? Geni-orrible? I think it's funny, whatever.
[post_page_title]#21 'Found This Gem Browsing Facebook ' [/post_page_title]
SERIOUSLY IN ALL SERIOUSNESS, I MAY NEED TO CHANGE THE NAME OF THIS LIST.
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The fact that IntheDarkoftheNight has that very username makes this all the more deserving of A) the list name change and B) standing as the absolute benchmark for entry to this collection.
[post_page_title]#22 'Impressive Dot Work, But Why?' [/post_page_title]
To be completely fair, from the perspective of the artist this must have been a considerable task and from the eyes of the beholder, it's very impressive.
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But why indeed? What I would be interesting to see, if what it would look like if the human-canvas in question here actually achieved hench-status and if it would all align. Come back next week for the next episode of body transformations.
[post_page_title]#23 'Please Kill Me ' [/post_page_title]
You know what I'm going to say.
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Family tattoos as we have seen are common, but this is something else horrifyingly.
[post_page_title]#24 'Tiger Anatomy Continues To Baffle Artists, Survey Says' [/post_page_title]
Here we are again! It Tiger time and they're greeeeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa-
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-awful. They are awful. A later survey promoted the discover that dinosaurs evolved not into birds, but tigers.
[post_page_title]#25 'Instagram Find. I Never Laughed So Hard At A Tattoo' [/post_page_title]
Religious iconography is another common one in the ink world. In many cases, people can't think of another a better way to honor their savior, in theory, that is.
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Now, I'm not a religious person, but I'm relatively sure this would qualify as blasphemy.
[post_page_title]#26 'Erm... A Lion?' [/post_page_title]
After the proof that dinosaurs evolved into tigers, other studies were soon formed via evidence found underneath rocks and through designs found on the skins of humanity.
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Once the big cats had evolved from dinosaurs, it was found that early man, specifically upright apes, could be traced back through their genealogy to the fearsome tigers and lions of ancient times. We will report the news as it happens.
[post_page_title]#27 'If Only Their Familey Had Warned Them' [/post_page_title]
Rules and regulations. In this ever-expanding society, new rules are birthed every second. Some you need to follow, others aren't relevant at all but some, some carry ancient wisdom.
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Remember 'C with an arrow pointing od' upwards and 'Familey' are the key to life. Or are they? 'Familey' didn't warn this person against this tattoo, so maybe, just maybe, they don't know best. I'll ask my FAMILY and see.
[post_page_title]#28 '"It's Is My Life" - Jon Bovi' [/post_page_title]
Now, I had to include this one. It was likely 50% of the reason you're here two from the end anyway, let's be honest.
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Also, I know, I know, you've likely seen this EVERYWHERE on the interwebs these past few years but what may have failed to hit you, is that this could actually a person adoration of tribute band. No? Yeah ok, it is just a f*** up.
[post_page_title]#29 'Maximum Facepalm' - Jon Bovi' [/post_page_title]
"Maximum Facepalm" really, really is the best title for this but I feel I have the best caption. So do YOURSELF a favor and scroll down.
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I want to spin you Hula-wan-Kenobi, you're my only hoop. Thank you, my new hope is to be here all week.
[post_page_title]#30 'I've Got A Hunch That He Isn't, "Wrongfully Convicted." Call Me Crazy, But' - Jon Bovi' [/post_page_title]
Now this list isn't in any particular order but here we are. The end, the end of all things, the end of these crimes against tattooing, some true convictions, some not and some, some not for the crimes initially thought.
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The judge decided that the crime the accused had initially been brought in for was a farce and he was acquitted and then re-arrested for the travesty he now has for eyebrows.
A dad whose body is 85% covered in tattoos has opened up about the abuse he receives because of how he looks, with some going as far as to call him a "monster".
Tattoos can often be a divisive subject, especially between the different generations as generally speaking, they are becoming more acceptable amongst younger people.
That being said, the stigma around those who cover the majority of their body in permanent ink still remains, as one 51-year-old man has found out.
Richard Huff is covered in body art, with around 85% of himself being taken up with ink - and some people use this as an excuse to attack him.
Richard is married to 29-year-old Marita and the pair have seven children - which includes two from Richard's former relationship, three from Marita's past relationship, and two twins that they share together.
Richard was 17 when he got his first tattoo, and things quickly developed. Speaking to Truly, he said: "It became an addiction, I started with my legs and worked my way up because then you could not have any on your arm or anywhere that could be seen at that point."
Explaining the extent of his tattoos, Richard said: "I approximately have 85% to 90% of my body covered, I probably have over 240 tattoos. I want to be 100% covered in tattoos probably within the next four years."
The 51-year-old's nine-year-old daughter, Amyah, said that children at her school find her dad "scary" but she insists that he isn't, he just loves tattoos.
Discussing how they first met, Marita expressed that she was also a bit intimidated by Richard's appearance, but that soon vanished and their love blossomed.
"I thought I was going to get robbed. I did judge Richard based on his looks at first but as I got to know him a little bit, he is actually a big-hearted person," Marita said.
The 29-year-old is no stranger to tattoos, having quite a few herself - including having "Richard" tattooed across her neck - and she insists that she will "catch up to Richard" in the future.
Though she might have a tricky time doing that, as she said: "The face is off limits, this beautiful face can't be covered."
Sadly, online trolls target Richard for his appearance as the couple read a few of the hateful comments out. One read: "How did you choose a monster to be your child's father?"
Though Richard believes this isn't the only reason that people call the couple out, as he said: "The age gap has a lot to do with it online because Marita is 29 years old and I'm 51 so people take that into consideration why she would want to be with somebody like me."
Though he defiantly added: "If somebody can make negative comments like that, there's something wrong with them themselves that they would have to judge somebody else.
"This is what we did and we're happy. We've been together six years our kids are happy and to us, that's all that matters."
Though he said that he gets more positive reactions than negative, and even believes it has a positive impact on his kids as they "get a different perspective on life".
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A mother who is covered in tattoos is having a hard time finding a job, as she claims businesses aren't willing to hire her due to how she looks.
Tattoos have long been a subject of disagreement, particularly between generations, but as time progresses people are becoming more open to body art.
Increasingly, tattoo art is now understood to be an expression of one's self in the form of permanent ink.
Though one mother in the UK has found it pretty hard to convince employers to give her a chance, as she has over 800 tattoos covering her from head to toe.
As reported by the Daily Star, 46-year-old Melissa Sloan from Wales has at least three new designs applied to herself every week.
The majority of the tattoos are applied "prison style" by her partner Luke in the comfort of their own home.
Discussing her employment options, Sloan said: "I can’t get a job. They won’t have me. I applied for a job cleaning toilets where I live and they won’t have me because of my tattoos.
"The first job I had was cleaning ages ago, cleaning toilets. People have said I have never had a job in my life, I have had one once and it didn’t last long. But, if someone offered me a job tomorrow I would go and work - I would take that offer."
Sloan remains unemployed and is currently living off of government allowances to get by - but she has been making a clear effort to gain employment.
This isn't the only environment where the mother is judged for her looks, as she sadly revealed that she is unable to attend her children's school plays.
Exclusively speaking to the Daily Star, Sloan revealed that Christmas is a particularly hard time as her children's school makes her stand outside and watch the annual nativity performance through the window.
"No Christmas parties and when I go to my child's school I don't get invited," Sloan revealed. "They said once for me to go to the back garden and look through the class window."
Due to the treatment she receives, the tattoo "addict" stopped going to the school plays completely because she didn't appreciate how the teachers and other parents reacted to her.
Not only this, but Sloan revealed that she had been barred from various pubs due to her tattoos so can't partake in the Christmas tradition in the UK of spending it in the boozer with family and friends.
To add to her woes, tattoo shops will no longer let her in and that's why she's had to resort to her partner Luke giving her the weekly dose of ink.
Sloan said: "Tattoo shops shut the door on me - tattooists won't let me in. When I had this done [my face], there's one about five miles up the road and they won't do it."
She finished off by joking: "They won't do it because I'm beyond help because I've gone too far."
Despite all of this, Sloan is proud of her body art and has no intention of slowing down.
Featured image credit: seksan Mongkhonkhamsao / Getty
If you've dreamed about quitting your job on the spot - without bothering with a notice period or a formal resignation letter - then join the club!
Unfortunately, absolutely hating your job is something that we all go through. You may hate everything about the job or just certain aspects - but eventually, you get to the point where enough is enough.
But while many of us would love to quit abruptly, give our boss a piece of our mind and then not turn up for work ever again - unfortunately, it's not really feasible for the average Joe.
But one woman was brave enough to share a briefly-written note with her boss, telling him she wouldn't be turning up for work ever again, citing the boss' supposed "rudeness" as the reason.
The woman, who quit her job at a Target store in the US, shared the note to Reddit, with the caption: "the note I left on my TL desk after my shift" alongside a relieved emoji.
It read: "Hey Jordan! Just wanted to let you know that I will not be returning to work tomorrow or next week! Thx hun! – M."
The note continued: "P.S. I will never understand why you were so rude to me!"
And she ended the note with a drawing of an (ironic) smiley face.
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The response the woman got was divisive, with some praising her and others telling her it was the wrong thing to do.
One person told her: "Good job! I walked out of my job at Target too. I was the only one working in the food corner (before they all turned into a starbucks) and they would just f**king leave me there, even when I would be paging for help. I hated that job.
"And I always smelled like popcorn."
However, others felt the action was only "burnt bridges" for the former Target employee.
One wrote: "Y’all may laugh and cheer on how to leave a job- but trust me, once you step foot out of retail and into a more professional career, you’ll see what we’re saying about burning bridges and about how to leave a job."