1. Possessive much?
"I went on a family vacation to Argentina for a two week trip to visit my sister who was studying abroad. (now ex) BF comes to pick me and my mom up from the airport, and gives both me and my mom a very obvious and awkward silent treatment on the whole car ride back to our house from the airport (45 min drive). When I asked him what was up, he said he was "punishing" me for leaving. What?"
2. What a terrible thing to say
"I used to be a long distance runner and do a bunch of local races. One of my exes didn't go with me to cheer me on/ be there because he said I looked ugly at the end of the races after running"
3. This is not ok
"He cheated on me with my best friend while I was on vacation, and then secretly started dating another friend. Girlfriend #2 was also the friend consoling me over him cheating. We had been dating for four years."
4. What a litany of crimes
"Sold my grandfathers WWII violin, pulled credit cards and loans out in my name, multiple cell-phones (Back in 2000/2001) that all ended up going to collections, cheated on me, all while I worked to put her through school. She ended up sleeping her way through "our" friends circle, accusing me of all kinds of crazy stalker shit. We were married for only about two years, stupidest mistake of my life."
5. Harsh
"I drove 2.5 hours up to where she was going to college the night before her birthday as a surprise. I called her, but she didn't pick up or respond to my texts. I figured she had fallen asleep early, which wasn't uncommon. So I slept in my car until the next morning when I finally heard from her. She wasn't exactly as thrilled with my surprise as I thought she would be, but we spent a good part of the day together, before I drove back. A few days later I got a facebook message from I guy I met and became friends with from her college. He told me I was a cool guy and deserved to know that she was cheating on me with some guy. She didn't fall asleep early that night, she was with him."
6. What?!
"My ex let my daughter play with an 8oz bottle of technical grade lye..."
7. Oh dear
"Pretended to be pregnant because she thought the relationship was dying. Told everyone we knew as well. She told one of her friends it wasn't true. Word got back to me that it was fake. I went and stayed with some friends interstate for a week. When I got back she had told everyone that she'd had a miscarriage because I had abused her. So that wasn't a lot of fun to try and explain."
8. Scary
"Installed a keylogger on my laptop when things are getting pretty rocky so he could spy on me after I left. Found out a few months late."
9. Who does stuff like this?
"My mother passed away a few years ago and this girl i had only been dating for maybe 3 months manipulated me by using my mom as a weapon against me. She would say things like "Do you think your mother would be proud of what you are doing now?" or "Is this what your mother would want of you?" She would do this whenever i would effectively mess up in her eyes. It tore me down pretty hard."
10. Ouch
"Strung me along and had me move to a new city and take a new job just in time to break up with me. She moved to a new city and wanted me to move to be near her. I took a new job when I could have stayed where I was. She waited until I had signed the lease on my new apartment before she told me it wasn't working out. Come to find out, she had been seeing someone for a while. I don't get why she didn't tell me before I moved, it seems like it would have been much easier."