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Lily Phillips comes out as she reveals she is not straight despite sex with over 1,000 men in 12 hours
Adult‑content creator Lily Phillips has spoken publicly about her sexuality for the first time — and said she can envision a future with a woman. In a candid interview, the star, previously best known for on‑screen relationships with men, described how dating women has opened her eyes to a different kind of connection.
The change in her outlook comes as she appears on the dating show Blind Matchmakers. Rather than basing chemistry on looks, contestants rely solely on personality, voice, and attraction beyond physical appearance. Phillips said being on the show felt “super fun” and gave her a fresh perspective.
She also admitted that love is not a priority right now. With her focus firmly on her career, she said she does not want to start dating until she can devote herself completely to a relationship.
She opens up about bisexuality and dating women
Phillips told The Mirror that “in the year 2025, it’s not that much different to dating straight people.” She added: “I think around bisexuality, people are more open these days. I’ve never felt any judgment from that, so to me, it’s just like dating boys.”
Lily Phillips has made a name for herself in the adult industry. Credit: Lily Phillips/Instagram
Talking about meeting women on Blind Matchmakers, she said: “I think women’s relationships are amazing, you just won’t ever find a connection like that with a man. Women, we understand each other more, I think.” She went on: “You’re best friends, but you’re also sexually attracted, and you have sex – that is my ideal relationship.”
Friendship, chemistry and no pressure for commitment
On the show, Lily was matched with social‑media influencer Lani, and the two shared noticeable chemistry. However, Phillips revealed their relationship did not progress beyond friendly messages. She described Lani as “a powerful woman” who knows herself, but acknowledged: “We have exchanged a few messages, but it’s been niceties, not anything more.”
Despite that, Lily admitted to being open to a same‑sex relationship in the future. She said: “I do consider a high chance it might be a woman,” but clarified she is not ready to date for now. Instead, she wants to remain “selfish” and focus on building her career before committing to a relationship.
Credit: Instagram/Lily Phillips
She knows what she wants — but not yet
Phillips said the dating show let her approach relationships differently than through mainstream apps where appearance is often everything. She reflected that many people "filter out" potential dates based purely on looks or a few photos before even meeting.
For her, personality and connection matter more. Even though her past relationships — both on‑ and off‑screen — have been mostly with men, she signalled that could change when the time is right.
Her message was clear: she is exploring, open‑minded, and realistic. She is not rushing into anything but remains open to love if the right person — woman or man — shows up.