Sam Smith fans criticize news outlets for using the singer's old pronouns

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By VT

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Last week it was reported that British singer, Sam Smith, requested to be referred to as "they" not "he", six months after confirming a non-binary identity.

According to The Sun, the 27-year-old asked family and friends to make the change, as Smith thanked Hits Radio presenter James Barr on Twitter for referring to the performer as "they".

"Just interviewed @samsmith and they sounded so happy and free and more themselves than ever. it’s made me feel like the world is a good place again," Barr tweeted Smith.

"You’re one of the first people to use these pronouns with me. Thank you. That feels really beautiful," the singer replied. 

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Smith later confirmed the change on Twitter. "Today is a good day so here goes. I’ve decided I am changing my pronouns to THEY/THEM [...] after a lifetime of being at war with my gender I’ve decided to embrace myself for who I am, inside and out..." they wrote.

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"I’m so excited and privileged to be surrounded by people that support me in this decision but I’ve been very nervous about announcing this because I care too much about what people think but f*ck it!" they continued.

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"I understand there will be many mistakes and mis gendering but all I ask is you please please try. I hope you can see me like I see myself now. Thank you.

P.s. I am at no stage just yet to eloquently speak at length about what it means to be non binary but I can’t wait for the day that I am. So for now I just want to be VISIBLE and open. If you have questions and are wondering what this all means I’ll try my best to explain..."

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However, the Associated Press apparently misgendered Smith when reporting their pronoun change. In a screengrab posted to Twitter by non-binary journalist, @ashleycdye, the publication refers to the singer using male pronouns seven times in three paragraphs.

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"And now @AP finally corrects (without a clarification/correction line) ... by writing around it and waiting until the last paragraphs to use they for Sam Smith. OK, still bad!" the journalist captioned a follow-up tweet. 

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Smith has previously spoken of "the war" of finding their identity. In an interview with GQ they elaborated;

"Ever since I was a little boy, ever since I was a little human, I didn’t feel comfortable being a man really. I never really did.

Some days I’ve got my manly side and some days I’ve got my womanly side, but it’s when I’m in the middle of that switch that I get really, really depressed and sad. Because I don’t know who I am or where I am or what I’m doing, and I feel very misunderstood by myself. I realised that’s because I don’t fit into either.

I was with my mum last night and she said something so beautiful: ‘I’m so relieved that you and me and your whole family have a way to explain this, because it’s also been eating me up your whole life.’

Because my mum could see it and that it was a torture going on in my mind."

Sam Smith fans criticize news outlets for using the singer's old pronouns

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By VT

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Last week it was reported that British singer, Sam Smith, requested to be referred to as "they" not "he", six months after confirming a non-binary identity.

According to The Sun, the 27-year-old asked family and friends to make the change, as Smith thanked Hits Radio presenter James Barr on Twitter for referring to the performer as "they".

"Just interviewed @samsmith and they sounded so happy and free and more themselves than ever. it’s made me feel like the world is a good place again," Barr tweeted Smith.

"You’re one of the first people to use these pronouns with me. Thank you. That feels really beautiful," the singer replied. 

[[twitterwidget||https://twitter.com/samsmith/status/1171366400058908672?s=20]]

Smith later confirmed the change on Twitter. "Today is a good day so here goes. I’ve decided I am changing my pronouns to THEY/THEM [...] after a lifetime of being at war with my gender I’ve decided to embrace myself for who I am, inside and out..." they wrote.

[[twitterwidget||https://twitter.com/samsmith/status/1172519872464662530?s=20]]

"I’m so excited and privileged to be surrounded by people that support me in this decision but I’ve been very nervous about announcing this because I care too much about what people think but f*ck it!" they continued.

[[twitterwidget||https://twitter.com/samsmith/status/1172519968468025346?s=20]]

"I understand there will be many mistakes and mis gendering but all I ask is you please please try. I hope you can see me like I see myself now. Thank you.

P.s. I am at no stage just yet to eloquently speak at length about what it means to be non binary but I can’t wait for the day that I am. So for now I just want to be VISIBLE and open. If you have questions and are wondering what this all means I’ll try my best to explain..."

[[twitterwidget||https://twitter.com/samsmith/status/1172520007609307139?s=20]]
[[twitterwidget||https://twitter.com/samsmith/status/1172520169618452481?s=20]]

However, the Associated Press apparently misgendered Smith when reporting their pronoun change. In a screengrab posted to Twitter by non-binary journalist, @ashleycdye, the publication refers to the singer using male pronouns seven times in three paragraphs.

[[twitterwidget||https://twitter.com/ashleycdye/status/1172599810601472000?s=20]]

"And now @AP finally corrects (without a clarification/correction line) ... by writing around it and waiting until the last paragraphs to use they for Sam Smith. OK, still bad!" the journalist captioned a follow-up tweet. 

[[twitterwidget||https://twitter.com/ashleycdye/status/1172606942725988353?s=20]]
Smith has previously spoken of "the war" of finding their identity. In an interview with GQ they elaborated;

"Ever since I was a little boy, ever since I was a little human, I didn’t feel comfortable being a man really. I never really did.

Some days I’ve got my manly side and some days I’ve got my womanly side, but it’s when I’m in the middle of that switch that I get really, really depressed and sad. Because I don’t know who I am or where I am or what I’m doing, and I feel very misunderstood by myself. I realised that’s because I don’t fit into either.

I was with my mum last night and she said something so beautiful: ‘I’m so relieved that you and me and your whole family have a way to explain this, because it’s also been eating me up your whole life.’

Because my mum could see it and that it was a torture going on in my mind."