Irrespective of gender, I think we can all agree that people are at their sexiest when they're feeling sexy. But while the horizontal jog is a wholly natural thing, and an integral part of being in a healthy, fulfilling relationship, it can be tricky. From miscommunication to those dreaded awkward moments, it's much easier to inadvertently have bad sex, rather than the good kind that leaves you begging for more.
As such, we can all benefit from doing a little more research when it comes to matters of the bedroom. With this in mind, one wise Reddit user asked the following question: "Women of reddit, what does your man do that makes you feel like a goddess in bed?" And the responses were seriously enlightening...
1. Look into her eyes"Do this during any sexual act and it will build a connection and make them feel special."
2. Don't hold back"You don't have to say anything, just breathing heavily and moaning slightly can drive a girl wild and make them feel like they are pleasuring you well. They like the recognition that what they are doing makes you feel good, so let them know."
3. Be agressive (within reason!)"A lot of women like to be dominated in bed. Push her around, tell her what to do; basically control her while you are having sex with her."
4. But be gentle at times, too"While being rough and aggressive is a great tip, sometimes letting up and being gentle can really spice things up."
5. Let her be on top"This can give her a feeling of control and empowerment. She can control all of the pleasure experienced in a sexual activity and you can just sit back and let it happen."
6. Always make sure she gets off"If she has a hard time getting to the climax, just keep going until she is finished. If you can, try to get her to finish before you do that way she feels really special."
7. Give her oral sex without her having to ask"She will appreciate the gesture and this can bring about good results for you in return."
8. Give her compliments"Tell her how beautiful she is and how sexy she is. Most women like the confidence boost and quite a few will even appreciate the fact that you get a boner just by kissing or looking at her."
9. Listen to her"When she asks for something or when she suggests something, it makes her feels special, especially if you are willing to try something new with her."
"Run your fingers and tongue up and down her body. This can turn on many women and can really set the mood later. You don't have to rush straight into sex. Take your time and enjoy the journey and the destination will be better for both of you."
Well, there you have it - ten ways to spice up your time in the bedroom. Have a good weekend, folks.
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