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'Spicy’ cruise worker reveals exactly what goes on in the 'red room'
A woman who works on “spicy” cruises has revealed what really happens behind the closed doors of the mysterious red rooms.
Adult-only cruises like these have become increasingly popular among travelers curious about the swinging lifestyle, where couples can openly explore their sexuality with other consenting adults while at sea.
Inside the world of spicy cruises
Kate Shelor, a Las Vegas-based intimacy coach and hypnotherapist, has worked for the spicy cruise company Temptation, which buys out entire cruise ship routes exclusively for its adult clientele.
Her expertise in sex and relationships has made her a popular presence aboard the cruises, where she has worked on multiple trips.
One of her most intriguing roles takes place inside the ship’s infamous “red room”.
What exactly is the "red room"?
The red room is one of the most talked-about areas on spicy cruise ships.
Phones and cameras are strictly banned, and the entrance is monitored by staff members to maintain privacy.
Access is generally limited to couples, though single guests may enter if they are invited by a couple.
Depending on the ship, the room can be located in different parts of the vessel, but it is usually placed in one of the larger spaces due to its popularity.
The area is advertised as a “friendly space for those looking to experiment with their sexuality in a space where freedom reigns," per The Sun.
What actually happens inside the red room
According to Shelor, the setup alone is enough to make the room stand out.
“They bring all their own people, and they will choose a large space on the cruise ship for this, and they bring in brand new mattresses,” she told LADbible. “You'll see them loaded onto the ship as you're boarding. As well as tonnes of clean sheets.”
She explained that the room is transformed every night before guests arrive. “They will make this room up every night with tonnes of mattresses on the floor, plastic covers, and then sheets on top. There's towels and water. It looks sexy with sexy lighting.”
Guests can use the mattresses to spend time with their partner - or someone else - depending on what they are comfortable with.
However, participation is entirely optional as some people can choose to watch, socialize, or relax while enjoying a drink.
A different perspective from cruise guests
Social media creators Bella and Jase, a married couple who openly share insights into the swinging lifestyle with their followers through their YouTube channel, 4OURPLAY, recently offered viewers a rare look inside a similar space on one of the cruises, known as the “playroom".
In an April YouTube video, they were given access to the room before it opened for the night.
Bella explained that it contains roughly 40 beds lined with curtains that can be drawn for privacy. Each area includes towels, water, and protection for guests.
The couple also found a BDSM-themed section of the room equipped with restraints, padded furniture, and other accessories designed for guests who want to “take things to the next level".
One unexpected feature even caught the pair off-guard - two bowling lanes inside the playroom itself.
Rules and safety on board
Despite the room’s provocative reputation, the couple stressed that the environment is carefully monitored.
Attendants and security staff patrol the area regularly to ensure all interactions remain safe and consensual. “No drinks are allowed inside the playroom,” Jase explained.
Guests must leave drinks at a designated table outside the room where staff members keep watch over belongings.
Clear rules and guidelines are also displayed outside the entrance to ensure guests understand the expectations and safety protocols.