J.K. Rowling reveals secret letter Emma Watson sent her containing one sentence that shattered their relationship

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By Michelle H

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J.K. Rowling has addressed the growing divide between herself and Emma Watson in a recent post on X (formerly Twitter). The author of the Harry Potter series unleashed her frustration on the actress, accusing her of “ignorance” regarding transgender issues. In the post, Rowling not only criticized Watson's stance but also shared a private letter from Watson that she claims ultimately fractured their friendship.

The post follows a podcast appearance by Watson, where the actress expressed both gratitude for her role as Hermione Granger and dismay over the current debates on gender identity.

Watson’s comments prompted Rowling to speak out, voicing her displeasure with how Watson and other Harry Potter stars, like Daniel Radcliffe, have taken up what she sees as an unwarranted public role as spokespeople for her literary universe. Rowling stated that their remarks, often critical of her, feel disconnected from her intentions or the life experiences she has shared.

Rowling detailed that their relationship took a hit in March 2022 when Watson made a public statement at the BAFTA Film Awards, declaring, “I’m here for all of the witches.” At that time, Rowling was facing intense threats due to her views on gender, and Watson’s comment, according to Rowling, added fuel to the fire.

This was when Watson reportedly sent a handwritten note of sympathy to Rowling, a gesture that the author now describes as insufficient, given the context.

The letter that changed everything

According to Rowling, after Watson’s BAFTA comments, the actress wrote a short note to express her sympathy for the author’s difficult situation. The note simply read, “I’m so sorry for what you’re going through.”

However, Rowling found the gesture problematic, particularly given the public nature of Watson's remarks that were, in Rowling’s eyes, at odds with the private concern she was expressing. Rowling went on to say that this was a turning point in their relationship, pointing out the disconnect between Watson’s public stance and private message.


Rowling’s frustration doesn’t just stem from Watson’s comments but also from her belief that the actress’s wealth and fame have sheltered her from the realities faced by many women.

Rowling argued that Watson’s experiences - such as having private security and not needing to navigate spaces like changing rooms - give her a unique, privileged perspective that doesn't fully reflect the lives of women struggling with issues like the erosion of women’s rights.

A public rift with personal consequences

While Rowling acknowledged Watson’s right to hold differing views and discuss them publicly, she also emphasized her own right to speak candidly about their fractured relationship.

She made it clear that Watson’s recent attempt to publicly express affection for her, seemingly in an effort to regain favor, did not sit well. Rowling described this as a reflection of a broader social shift, suggesting that condemnation of her views is no longer as widespread as it once was.

This confrontation between two figures once linked by the global Harry Potter franchise highlights the complexities of celebrity friendships in the age of social media.

With public opinions shifting on sensitive issues like transgender rights, the personal fallout between Rowling and Watson serves as a reminder of how deeply personal and professional lives can intertwine, often leading to irreversible rifts.

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