Dad puts passive aggressive note in daughter's lunch box for teachers to see

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By Michelle H

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A UK father took to TikTok to share his lighthearted response to his daughter's teachers, who had raised concerns about her food choices.

For parents, keeping up with what is considered a healthy diet for kids can be tricky. Add the challenge of getting them to eat their veggies, and it’s no easy feat.

When teachers start scrutinizing lunchboxes, things can get even more complicated. A British dad found himself in this exact situation and decided to vent his frustration in a humorous way.

Ross Hunt shared his playful annoyance with the school’s interference, which had made his daughter hesitant about bringing her lunch to school.


In the TikTok, Ross remarked: "It's alright if you eat the chocolate cake the school gives you, but if you put one in their lunchbox, they go, 'oh no, you shouldn't have that!'"

Taking a proactive approach, Ross made a label for his daughter's lunchbox that read: "Welcome to my daughter's lunchbox! We are aware of the contents of this box and are happy for her to eat whatever she wants."

His partner stepped in to prevent him from adding a more blunt message, which would have jokingly read: "Step away from the lunch box, you nosey f***ing a bandit."

Ross wrapped up his TikTok by stressing that parents should decide what their kids eat. "In short, stop telling kids what they should and shouldn't eat, let the f***ing parents decide," he emphasized.

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The video received a flood of positive feedback, with many parents echoing Ross's sentiments.

One commenter, who works at a school, admitted: "I would rather a child ate and was full than lots of 'healthy' foods they won't eat."

Another person shared: "I’m told not to comment on 'non healthy' food at my work because we’d rather the kids be full than not wanting to eat anything due to our comments."

A third commenter added: "The work I had to do to convince my daughter she could eat a KitKat with her lunch of salad and ham wrap, cucumber sticks and a satsuma was unreal."

While it's ideal for kids to eat the healthiest foods possible, various challenges can make this difficult. Some children have food aversions or sensory issues, making mealtime a complex task for parents.

Do you think teachers should have a say in what kids eat at school? Share your thoughts in the comments.

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