Dad puts passive aggressive note in daughter's lunch box for her teachers to see

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By James Kay

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A father from the UK took to TikTok to share his humorous response to his daughter's teachers, who were concerned about her food choices.

Navigating the ever-changing landscape of what constitutes a healthy diet for children can be a challenge for parents. Add to that the task of convincing them to eat their veggies, and you've got quite the predicament.

When teachers start monitoring lunchboxes, things can get even more complicated. A British father found himself in such a situation and decided to voice his frustration in a rather amusing way.

Ross Hunt playfully expressed his annoyance with their interference, which had led to his daughter being apprehensive about bringing lunch to school.


During the TikTok, Ross said: "It's alright if you eat the chocolate cake the school gives you, but if you put one in their lunchbox, they go, 'oh no, you shouldn't have that!'"

To address the situation, Ross decided to take matters into his own hands. He created a label for his daughter's lunchbox that humorously proclaimed, "Welcome to my daughter's lunchbox! We are aware of the contents of this box and are happy for her to eat whatever she wants."

His partner intervened at one point, preventing him from adding a slightly more aggressive note, which jokingly warned: "Step away from the lunch box, you nosey f***ing a** bandit."

Ross concluded his TikTok video by asserting that parents should have the final say in what their children eat. "In short, stop telling kids what they should and shouldn't eat, let the f***ing parents decide," he emphasized.

Ross was not impressed that the teachers were interfering in his child's lunch. Credit: courtneyk/Getty Images

The response to Ross' video was overwhelmingly positive, with many parents expressing their agreement. One commenter, who works in a school, confessed: "I would rather a child ate and was full than lots of 'healthy' foods they won't eat."

A second person added: "I’m told not to comment on 'non healthy' food at my work because we’d rather the kids be full than not wanting to eat anything due to our comments."

A third said: "The work I had to do to convince my daughter she could eat a KitKat with her lunch of salad and ham wrap, cucumber sticks and a satsuma was unreal."

Credit: TikTok

Credit: TikTok

Credit: TikTokWhile it's ideal for children to consume the healthiest foods available, various factors can complicate this objective. Some kids may have aversions to certain foods or sensory issues, making it challenging for parents to navigate mealtime successfully.

Should teachers have a say in what kids eat at school? Let us know in the comments.

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