A bride has revealed her heartbreak after spending a huge amount of money curating a vegan menu for her wedding guests, only for them to pull a disrespectful stunt.
Organizing a wedding can be pretty stressful, from deciding who does - and doesn't - make the guest list, to picking out flowers, and of course the all-important menu to feed your guests, too.
All of which also comes with a hefty price tag, but hopefully the happy couple ends up with a day that is perfect for them.
One bride revealed that things went a bit wrong for their big day when their vegan menu - which had cost them $15,000 - was about to be served up to their friends and family.
The bride was left in tears after seeing the guests' response to her vegan menu. Credit: FG Trade/Getty Images
Taking to Reddit's famous Am I The A**hole? forum, the bride asked: "AITA [Am I The A**hole] for serving only vegan food at my wedding without telling anyone, then getting upset when my family ordered 20 pizzas during the reception?"
The 28-year-old bride revealed that she and her 30-year-old husband have been vegan for the past three years and decided not to include animal products in their menu for their big day.
She explained: "We spent months working with an amazing chef to create a gourmet 5-course meal that just happened to be vegan - think mushroom wellington, truffle risotto, roasted vegetable tarts, etc. We spent nearly $15,000 on the food alone.
"We deliberately didn't mention the food was vegan on the invitations because we wanted people to enjoy it without prejudice. Every dish was designed to be delicious and satisfying, regardless of dietary preference."
The bride had spent $15,000 on a carefully curated vegan menu, but some of her guests refused to try it. Credit: RK Studio/Dean Sanderson/Getty Images
She revealed that their "beautiful" wedding ceremony went off without a hitch, but she spotted that her older brother Tom wasn't at his table during the reception.
The bride then revealed: "Twenty minutes later, I watched in horror as he and my cousins walked in carrying 20 large pizzas. They started distributing them to guests, announcing 'Real food for anyone who wants it!'"
She said the stunt left her "mortified" and the caterers were left looking "so embarrassed" as several of the guests hadn't even tried the "carefully planned" menu yet.
When she confronted Tom, he told her that their aunt had texted him that "all the food is just vegetables" and they "couldn't let people go hungry at a wedding."
She added: "The pizza completely upstaged our expensive gourmet meal. People were taking photos and treating it like a joke.
"My mother-in-law posted on Facebook about how her son's wedding was 'saved by pizza' because the bride tried to 'force everyone to eat rabbit food.'"
The bride's brother and cousins ordered pizzas to feed the guests. Credit: Patricia Marroquin/Getty Images
The shock of the unexpected pizza delivery left the bride upset, as she revealed: "I ended up crying in the bathroom, and my husband asked Tom and the cousins to leave.
"This caused a scene, and now half the family is calling us stuck-up and saying we ruined our own wedding by 'pushing our beliefs' on everyone. They're saying we should have warned people about the vegan menu."
People in the comments were left divided, writing: "Be honest, you didn’t tell anyone about the menu because you knew they wouldn’t like it/come if you did. This doesn’t make you an AH [a**hole], but people could have eaten beforehand if they knew the menus weren’t to their liking."
Another added: "ESH [everyone sucks here]. I mean ordering pizzas was out of line but you hid it on purpose knowing people wouldn't like the idea of it. Yes it's your special day but being deceptive doesn't help anyone."
Someone else commented: "ESH. Listen, I'm a vegan, but this is classic self-righteous noob vegan bulls**t that you tried to pull. I wouldn't eat most of that rancid s**t you served.
"When you're catering to a crowd you actually have to cater to them. You don't treat it like some kind of gastronomic lecture. It was a d**k move of your brother to do that, but I am not surprised at all. Edit: I'll just point out that it sounds like people were pretty f**king delighted to see the pizza. Am I wrong?"
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Others added: "You tried to trick them, they tricked you. But how hard is it to eat a vegan meal once in your life!?!? And $15.000 on food? How many people did you invite? 200? ESH," and: "I've always been under the impression that the wedding is about the bride and groom. But the reception is for your guests. Just saying."
A wedding guest has caused a stir on social media after sharing the vegan option they were provided during their meal.
The original photo of the depressing plate of food was shared by Brooklyn-based photographer, Gigi - who also goes by the handle '@nerdzrope' on Twitter.
Now, as a vegan myself, I understand that I'm going to be limited on options whenever I'm dining out. However, the plate of food Gigi was served at a recent wedding has left many people online astonished... for all the wrong reasons.
Gigi shared a photo of the course to Twitter, along with the caption: "Vegan option at a wedding [rolling eyes emoji]".
It is literally a plate of nondescript leaves, three small wedges of melon, and a drizzle of nonsense.
Unsurprisingly, the cheek/nerve/gall/audacity/gumption of the caterers quickly became a topic of conversation on the social media platform, with people slamming the 'meh' meal.
"Man I'd have just left. When you consider how much weddings cost, venues are really lazy at catering for the guests with specific requirements," one Twitter user replied. "It's not hard to make amazing vegan food, as was proven by the last wedding I attended. Was made to feel very special."
A second added: "Oh my god [...] Fire the caterers! Thats...No."
Other Twitter users branded the plate of food a "disgrace", "embarrassing", and "pathetic".
The post even made its way over to the Wedding Shamers Reddit thread, along with the title: "Please be considerate about people's choices at your wedding."
Over on Reddit, one person responded to the photo saying: "As a chef - that’s not the couple, that’s a poorly run kitchen. No self-respecting chef would serve this."
A second Redditor added: "I don't know, this looks more like an insult rather than a meal. I've got relatives that would pull something like this. My whole life they f***ed with me because I'm a veggie."
Another added: "I've worked as a cook. This is f***ing ridiculous. It is not hard to make tasty, lovely vegetarian or vegan dishes. Had this been my caterer at my wedding, I'd go bridezilla as f**k on their a**es."
Since posting the snap, Gigi has revealed in two separate tweets that she did order a takeout to eat while she was getting ready, and to make matters worse:
A vegan bride has sparked furious debate on the internet after revealing that she banned all meat eaters from attending her wedding, branding them "murderers".
"This lady banned all non-vegans from her wedding, including family and bridal party," is a Reddit thread that has gone viral after featuring a post from the Facebook group entitled "VEGAN REVOLUTION". In that group, a bride told us all about the plans for her wedding.
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In the post, the bride in question slammed her family for allegedly trying to "guilt trip" her into inviting them to her wedding, even though they were omnivores and the occasion was set to be "fully vegan". "Some family members were told they were not invited to my wedding because we don't want to host murderers," a part of the initial post read, while the Reddit thread has generated around 55,000 upvotes.
Unsurprisingly, the thread quickly devolved into mayhem, with a moderator revealing they had to shut the thread down to clean up all the comments. "Locking while we clean up all the personal attacks. What a big surprise that a post about veganism has devolved to name calling," explained moderator maybesaydie.
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There were, however, other vegans who explained what they tried to do at their wedding, including user LordMitchimus. Responding to a comment that asked why the bride had to serve vegan food, the Redditor replied:
"Got married in November and it was completely vegan. We had candy, pie, coffee, tea, and non-dairy creamer. At the rehearsal we had an all vegan spread of middle-eastern food.
Nobody complained. It's good food. We wanted to celebrate our marriage while remaining true to our lifestyle. Banning non-vegans is insane and belongs on this sub [subReddit]. I just wanted to clarify the person is insane and not the ideology."
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"A lot of people don't seem to realize how many great foods just happen to be vegan," added another user. "I am not vegan but I can quite easily go days without eating any meat, dairy or eggs. They think vegan food is all poor soy based meat imitations. No. That's just sh*tty vegan food."
But before long, an update was added to the post. The original poster went into further detail about the drama unfolding at the hands of her lifestyle, claiming she's been "attacked" for being vegan.
"They have consistently attacked me and my partner just for being vegan but when it comes to my wedding, they want to be all buddy buddy with me again. I don't want the weight of having people that still kill animals (the very beings we are trying to protect) at my wedding on my conscience."
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Although the identity of the bride in question cannot be verified, the situation brings the joy of a wedding on a fascinating collision course with the conflict of different dietary lifestyles.
A bride has revealed she is considering canceling her wedding after a dispute with her husband-to-be over their wedding dinner options.
The unnamed woman revealed that while her fiancé is a vegan she is a meat eater, but the issue has never caused a problem between them before.
However, when it came to deciding on what to serve their guests at their wedding, he refused to back down on it being vegan food only so as not to "offend" his family at having to even be around others eating meat.
The bride-to-be wrote into an advice column, explaining: "My wedding is coming up in a few months… but during the planning, my fiancé and I have become involved in such furious arguments, over the food of all things, that I’m not sure I actually want to go through with it."
The wedding dinner menu could be make or break for this couple. Credit: DianaHirsch/Getty Images
She added in the letter, shared by the Daily Mail, that the pair had met on the dating app Hinge and the fact he was a vegan had "actually put [her] off him" when they first matched as she is "a gal with a big appetite for burgers and steak".
However, once their relationship got more serious she found it wasn't a big deal and it never caused any arguments when the two of them were cooking together at home.
Things started to change when they began planning their wedding as she added: "However, when he proposed and we started planning our wedding, he told me that he wouldn’t feel comfortable serving any meat at the reception. A lot of his family is vegan and he said that they’d be offended to even be around meat."
She admitted it had been a "bone of contention for months now", and things got so heated that they'd even had "screaming matches in front of the caterer" because the groom was so upset she'd asked to sample a meat dish, adding: "He allows meat in our home so it makes no sense to me that he would want to ban it from our wedding."
The bride continued: "I know my friends and family are going to be miserable at the idea of attending a vegan dinner – but when I raised that, he made it seem like his family is the only one that matters."
The pair have even had a screaming row in front of their caterer. Credit: Credit: PixelsEffect/Getty Images
She confessed that her fiancé's stubbornness around the issue was giving her "really cold feet" as she'd seen "another side to him" that she "didn't realize existed before", adding: "I’m terrified that I’ve made a huge mistake and agreed to marry the wrong guy. But is it stupid to call off my wedding over a steak!?"
The columnist advised her that it wasn't just about the steak but "bigger issues" that were beginning to come to light within the relationship, as marriages are about compromise rather than one person getting their own way with the big decisions.
Others in the comments added: "Run girl run......he doesn't have a problem at home but now does due to family at the wedding.....guarantee 100% is his mom....YOUR FUTURE MOTHER IN LAW. And he's putting her first and only listening to mom......run, this will be your life."
Another wrote: "Certainly this conflict won't just be the issue at the Reception, it will arise at every family get-together, birthday, anniversary, Sunday dinner ... whatever, given the perspective of the non-vegan and her family versus the potential husband and his family. It she doesn't realise this,and act accordingly, ie, leave the relationship , well she' is accepting a lifetime of divisive misery. Marriage is challenging enough without radical belief issues. And this is one of those."
The groom had never had an issue with her cooking meat at home but kicked off about it being served at their wedding. Credit: Alvaro Medina Jurado/Getty Images
Someone else commented: "Remember the person you married is the person you married. If you are expecting a different person after the vows, you are going to be surely disappointed," while another added: "Definitely postpone the wedding and talk about the way you want to raise any kids you may have. Also, what if, at some point he decides he does not want to allow meat in the house? So much to consider..."
One reader pointed out: "I think alarm bells are ringing loudly here. He has no right to impose his wishes in both families on a day which should be about both of you. If they have children, would he insist that they are brought up vegan? I can see trouble ahead unless he backs down. If he doesn't, she might have to face facts and call it off. Better to find out now than after they've married."
A bride has been slammed after revealing her plans to charge guests $99 to eat at her wedding reception.
Taking to the Wedding Shaming subreddit, a friend of the bride said that she read on the wedding invite that the husband-and-wife-to-be "are unable to afford the food, so it will be $99 per head banquet style".
The Reddit user explained: "Oh it’s also a 4 hour drive away from us and kid free so we need to pay for petrol, accommodation, outfits, baby sitter and our food to eat at the wedding lol.
"They’re still having a wishing well, no open bar. A wishing well is a box or literal mini well that guests can put a 'money gift' in to go towards their 'future, honeymoon or new house'. They have 3 kids and a house already and not planning on a honeymoon so."
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Needless to say, plenty of the commenters agreed that the Redditor's friend was taking liberties by asking her guests to shell out $99 - despite it being her wedding.
One person wrote: "I wouldn’t even let the ink dry on the 'unfortunately we are unable to attend' reply before I mailed that off."
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Another added: "Would love to know your reply. Mine would be a kind but hard, not going to be there. Why do people always think that a wedding is a valid reason to go over budget? There is no way any food is good enough to justify $99 a person at a wedding (assuming it's no open bar - but who knows).
"If someone asked me to pay for my own wedding meal, I would deduct that from their wedding gift. It's just tacky. People need to start getting real and only planing for what they can afford. It's one day. Why start off your marriage in debt?"
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A third speculated: "It likely is to pay for the venue as well. You can get decent food for $20 a plate so they're trying to get people to pay for the entire wedding."
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What do you think? Was it unreasonable of the bride and groom to charge such a hefty amount for food and drink at their own wedding? Let us know in the comments!
Your wedding day is supposed to be the happiest of your life. Gone forever are your days of swiping through Tinder, now you've found "the one" and can take comfort in the knowledge that whatever life throws at you, you'll have your partner and best friend by your side. But, as we all know, for many, weddings result in more stress than happiness.
This is the result of a phenomenon known as the "Bridezilla". Having grown up with picture perfect fairy tales and dreams, women often fly off the handle at the slightest hint their big day won't be a direct reflection of their dream.
So, without further ado, here's a list of the most jaw-dropping Bridezilla stories Reddit has to offer.
One bride may have taken this concept too far when she announced to Facebook that she intends to ban any friend or family member who eats meat from her big day.
The bride, who has chosen to be anonymous, asserted that she was tired of people trying to "guilt trip" her into inviting them to her nuptials, after she had made the no-omnivores rule clear when she started planning the wedding.
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"When your ‘family’ tries to guilt trip you into letting them come to your fully vegan wedding, even though they’re omnivores," the bride wrote in a Facebook group for vegans, according to News.com.au. "Just for some context, some family members were told they are not invited to my wedding because we don’t want to host murderers. Our wedding is supposed to be one of the happiest days of our lives," she continued.
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Although members of the Facebook group were supportive of the fact the woman had opted for an all-vegan menu, they weren't wholly behind her decision to ban meat-eaters from the ceremony entirely.
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"As a vegan, wouldn’t this be a prime opportunity to prove that vegan food can be just as delicious as omnivore food anyway?" commented one social media user, while another corroborated "I totally understand serving vegan food exclusively, that makes sense … but banning people and calling them murderers is just ridiculous."
After taking note of the backlash, the bride elaborated on how her vegan diet had been an ongoing problem with her family. "They have consistently attacked me and my partner just for being vegan," she detailed.
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"When I broke the news to them, all I got was attacked because I don’t want the weight of having people that still kill animals (the very beings we are trying to protect) at my wedding on my conscience. I’m sorry if that makes me 'rude' or a 'b*tch' because I’m not compromising the ethics that I share with everyone here."
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[post_page_title]This Is What A Family Member Had To Say[/post_page_title]
Shortly after the bride's outburst, another Facebook user - whom people believe to be a member of the family - announced that despite being a bridesmaid, she had also been uninvited from the women's nuptials.
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"I just got uninvited to a wedding that I was meant to be a bridesmaid for because I'm not vegan," she wrote. "To make matters worse, this girl is FAMILY who I've grown up with my whole life."
That's gotta hurt.
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[post_page_title]The Bridezilla Who Was Upstaged By The Reaper[/post_page_title]
Births and deaths often happen at the most inconvenient of times. However, this is something which all reasonable people have come to accept. But not this bridezilla. Most definitely not this bridezilla.
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"I had a friend that threw a temper tantrum, complete with screaming and foot stomping, because her grandmother had the audacity to die a few hours before her wedding," one Reddit user revealed. "She said it would throw off the seating arrangements, because now there would be a big empty space."
Sure, it's only natural to imagine what your wedding guests will look like in your pictures long before they've been taken, but people change. Whether it's through choice, an accident, or something as natural as pregnancy.
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But incredibly, one bridezilla wasn't standing for having a pregnant relative in her wedding pictures. "The bridezilla got furious and kicked her [relative] out of the wedding because she would be pregnant in the pictures," a Reddit user revealed.
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[post_page_title]The Bridesmaid Who Dared Get A Haircut[/post_page_title]
Similarly, another bridezilla flew off the handle after one of her bridesmaids got a haircut without her consent... because apparently, that's a thing.
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"So a few weeks before the actually ceremony I decided to knuckle cut off all of my hair because the heat was unbearable. When my friend, the bride, saw it, she was really upset with me because she envisioned all of the bridesmaids with updos (which I never knew about)," wrote a Reddit user.
Many brides try to save money on their big days by cutting back costs wherever possible. However, the key word in this sentence is "their". It's no one's responsibility to create your dream day apart from, well, you.
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"[The bride] planned on making all sorts of things for her wedding to save money (aisle runner, center pieces, arch, veil). I came into town the night before the wedding, and she says to me: 'I didn't have time to get anything made, so I need you to do it.' I stayed up all night sewing and arranging flowers while she slept."
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[post_page_title]The Bride With A Big Request[/post_page_title]
Some brides put so much thought into how their pictures are going to look that they go as far as to ask their bridesmaids to change their appearance. Case in point...
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"[The bride] demanded that all the girls dye their hair because she could be the only blonde one there," one Reddit user revealed.
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[post_page_title]The Bride Who Flipped At An Interupption[/post_page_title]
While it's annoying when phones go off unexpectedly, it's simply a part of life in the modern world. Heck, it must even happen in funerals! And when it happened at this wedding, there was Hell to pay...
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"My boyfriend's brother got married, and in the middle of the ceremony, the groom's phone alarm went off in his pocket," a Reddit user revealed. "The bride flipped out, interrupting the pastor, to reach into his pocket for his phone, that he had already silenced. She started bitching about how 'I can't believe you let your phone go off in the middle of our wedding.' Hands it to the maid of honor and says, 'Remind me to smash that later,' in the middle of her wedding."
Sometimes the people we attend weddings with, particularly as plus ones, aren't in our lives for as long as we imagined, but that usually doesn't stop any reasonable person from banning them from pictures.
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"I was in a wedding party and attended with my fiancée," a Reddit user wrote. "The bride refused to allow her to be in any of the informal friend and family photos, because, 'Well, these things don't always work out, and I don't want to have to guess who this person is 10 years from now.'"
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[post_page_title]The Unreasonable Bachelorette Party Request[/post_page_title]
Aside from the wedding itself, one of the most anticipated events surrounding a person's nuptials is their bachelorette/bachelor party, and for some, this can be as extravagant as their wedding itself.
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"My cousin had a screaming hissy fit because none of her bridesmaids could afford to attend her 'dream bachelorette party' in Vegas. (We're on the East Coast.)," a Reddit user revealed.
Often the flowers chosen for a person's wedding have a special meaning. When I eventually make it down the aisle, I want a wildflower bouquet similar to the one my best friend had, but I won't throw a hissy fit if it's not possible.
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"A girl I went to high school with threw a fit and nearly called off her wedding - because her florist couldn't find flowers that perfectly matched her lipstick," a Reddit user wrote.
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[post_page_title]The Mother Of The Bride[/post_page_title]
If it's not a bride kicking off, it's likely to be their mother. After all, they've also spent a lot of time fantasizing about what their baby's big day will look like - and can have a worryingly astute eye for detail.
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"Caterer. Mother of bride found a single spot on a knife on a single setting," a Redditor revealed. "Demanded that the entire reception ($60,000) be free. She was not writing the check so she was shot down pretty quickly. But there was much rage."
While you might think that the bridezilla exposed on Reddit for flipping out over an unexpected death was a one-off, it turns out that this has happened a worrying number of times before...
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"I was my sister's maid of honor. During a peak planning time, our aunt - her godmother - passed away. I kept trying to get in touch with my sister all day that day. When I finally reached her, I explained I had been trying to speak with her all day to let her our aunt had died," a Redditor wrote. "I got blasted about how busy she is, and then she ripped into me about where I stood with my tasks."
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[post_page_title]The Bride Who Couldn't Walk Down The Aisle Without Her Shoes[/post_page_title]
Every aspect of a bride's outfit is typically well thought out. From her underwear to her veil. However, there are some details which aren't exactly that noticeable... Like shoes, which usually aren't visible under her dress. But when this bride discovered that hers had gone walkabout, she point blank refused to get hitched.
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"I sometimes work for a wedding planner at the event the day of. There was one wedding that I was working at that was humming along right on schedule. But about 45 minutes before the ceremony was supposed to begin, a bridesmaid grabbed me in a panic and told me the bride forgot her shoes. She told me that the bride absolutely needed her shoes," a Redditor wrote.
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[post_page_title]The Entire Party Was Forced To Wait[/post_page_title]
So I asked where they were, she told me they were about an hour away," they continued. "The wedding planner talked to the bride and told her that no one would notice if she didn’t wear her shoes. The bride pitched a fit and made an uncle drive and get them. It took him about 2.5 hours to get them. The whole time, we were trying to convince the bride to start the ceremony and she refused.
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"The worst part was that her family came from another Country and didn't really speak English so they had no idea what was going on at first. They got super restless and some people even left. We told the bride that people were leaving and she didn’t care, she just wanted her shoes. Everything was delayed by about an hour and half. People were pissed. By the time the reception rolled around about 50% of the people left the venue," the post concluded.
While the unexpected death of an elderly family member can be difficult to deal with, what's even more traumatic is the death of an infant - something which surely even the most callous of bridezillas would make a concession for. Right? RIGHT?!
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"I'm a wedding planner. We had an unexpected death in the family. Our 6-month-old nephew had passed away in his sleep. I knew the funeral was going to be the day my client's upcoming wedding. I gave her a call to explain the situation. She's clearly not paying attention to the call or the words I'm speaking because I hear her laughing with friends in the background. I get irritated and tell her I’ll call her later. I call back that night and again tell her what has happened and that I'd be sending an assistant to cover for me so I can attend the funeral," a Redditor revealed.
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[post_page_title]What The Bride Did Next Is Disgusting[/post_page_title]
As if not paying attention to this devastating news wasn't bad enough, the bride went one step further even when she realized that her planner had lost a close and very young family member.
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"She tells me that I need to send my assistant to the funeral and that I better be at her wedding," the Redditor continued. "It took me a few seconds, but I calmly stated that I’d be sending her money back and that no one would be covering for me. Nicest way I’ve ever said f*ck off. I really wanted to bitch slap her."
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[post_page_title]The Bride With Very Specific Requirements[/post_page_title]
As we've seen, there's a lot of controlling bridezillas out there, and while some we've seen so far have had specifications about their bridesmaid's hair, this one wanted to control their hair and their weight.
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"My friend was a bridesmaid at a wedding where the Bride demanded that nobody cut their hair or gain any weight before the big day," a Redditor revealed. "All their hairstyles had to be the exact same length. She had to control every aspect of what they did. The maid of honor had enough of her behavior and dropped out of the bridal party a few weeks before the event. My friend only stayed because she felt sorry for her. The Bride didn't have any real female friends. I wonder why?"
We know from the vegan bridezilla that some couples insist on imposing their values on other people. However, as the old saying goes, you should always practice what you preach...
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"Went to a wedding that was a dry wedding only," a Redditor revealed. "She refused to let anyone bring alcohol and the wedding was in the middle of nowhere. The wedding was several hours before the reception and there was absolutely nothing to do. There was no entertainment, no food, no drinks, etc. We had to wait for 4+ hours for them. Then the bridal party shows up and they had alcohol for themselves. Our entire group left."
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[post_page_title]The Bridezilla With An Outrageous Question[/post_page_title]
A person's wedding might be the most important thing to them in the world at a particular time, but their guests have other fish to fry... Like, y'know, their own lives and dreams.
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"More mother of the bridezilla but my sister in law and I were in a wedding (at the time I was her brothers gf)," a Redditor wrote. "SIL was considering getting pregnant around the time of wedding. MOB asks her, 'what's more important to you [her daughter’s wedding] or your pregnancy'. Bride did not stand up for her best friend her mom was being awful to. Various other terrible things happened during that wedding planning but that stands out the most. We’re not friends anymore [sic]."
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[post_page_title]This Very Cheeky Couple[/post_page_title]
"Couple gets engaged right before New Years," a Redditor wrote. "Immediately had planned a wedding in Cancun for November. At the beginning of January, demanded to know not IF you'd be coming to their wedding, but the exact dates of your travel to/from Cancun. She texted EVERY SINGLE DAY for a week asking 'if we'd figured out our travel schedule yet.'"
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"Turns out, it's a timeshare resort, excuse me 'vacation club' and they get a free night stay for everyone they con into going to their terrible wedding," the post continued. "So, all of their guests have to pay to go to Cancun, for their rooms at an all-inclusive resort and the couple is paying for nothing. "
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[post_page_title]This Story Actually Gets Worse[/post_page_title]
"She asked 16 girls to be bridesmaids," the Redditor wrote. "In the year and a half between the engagement and wedding, all but 6 dropped out (3 were her sisters). She wanted 16 separate shades of blue and 16 different styles of dresses for each bridesmaid then threw a fit when the store didn't have that many options."
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"She demanded everyone pay for a week-long bachelorette party in Vegas (including her share) and then got mad when some people opted out (I was a single mom/college student at the time). Her parents gave her a $20,000 budget and she ended up spending $100k and demanding they pay for it- they took out a loan they are still paying off," the unbelievable post concluded.
If there's one thing to be learned from these bridezillas, it's this: they seriously need to reassess their priorities when it comes to having a go at people for losing family members.
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"My dad had the audacity to die 6 weeks before the wedding," a Redditor wrote, "and she couldn't understand why that superseded her wedding details for me. I met my husband at her wedding, haven't spoken to her since."
Oh well. Every cloud has a silver lining and all that.
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[post_page_title]The Bride Who Wanted People To Risk An Accident[/post_page_title]
If someone has a physical disability of any kind, no one is within their rights to tell them not to use whatever aids they need. But yes, a bridezilla actually went there.
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"My ex-best friend was a trip. This story is just one of the many, many reasons I no longer speak to her," a Redditor explained.
"She tried to make me and another bridesmaid walk down her outdoor, uneven, tulle-covered aisle WITHOUT GLASSES. She told us the morning of the event, so we didn't have any time to get contacts or anything. She threw a near-hysterics fit because she was convinced that we would 'ruin the aesthetic of her wedding'."
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[post_page_title]This Crazy Concession Was Then Made[/post_page_title]
"I told her that she would have a single groomsman walking that aisle if she made me walk without them," the Redditor continued.
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"She started bawling but her mom was able to get her calmed down enough for her to agree to let us wear our glasses so we could actually make it down the aisle in one piece. (Her mom essentially said that she's more skinny and beautiful than either of us and no one would be glancing at her bridesmaids anyways because we aren't important)."
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[post_page_title]The Bridesmaid Shouldn't Have Lost Weight[/post_page_title]
While most of the bridezillas on this list so far have been angry when their bridesmaids have changed their appearance for the worse, in their opinion, this bridezilla was actually annoyed when one of her bridesmaids adopted a healthier lifestyle and lost some weight.
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"A friend of mine in college was getting married at 19 because she was super conservative Christian and she wanted to have sex," a Redditor revealed. "Between the time I agreed to be a bridesmaid and a couple of months before the wedding I lost some weight. She got super pissed at me because she wanted to be the skinny one on the stage and threw me out of the wedding party."
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[post_page_title]The Worst One Yet[/post_page_title]
If you thought the brides who had no sympathy for guests who were recently bereaved, I'm afraid to say that this tale of monsters is far from over. In fact, it's about to get worse.
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"Not a bridesmaid, but my mom was a wedding photographer for many years. Long story short, the father of the bride had a heart attack and as he was being carried out on the stretcher the sobbing bride yells, 'How could you ruin my wedding like this?!!!?'"
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[post_page_title]The Photographer Who Thought They Were Being Kind[/post_page_title]
"The last wedding I ever did, the bride had a huge zit on her forehead, which was just ruining everything. It was the end of the world. So, thinking I was being generous, I zapped it off in all of the photos in photoshop," a photographer wrote on Reddit.
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"Cut to a few weeks later after I delivered them, I get an irate phone call saying that she couldn't believe I would edit off a zit. She wanted to remember the day as it was, not how it should have been. So I went through and restored all the zits..." they continued. "Weddings are too emotionally fraught to mix with business."
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[post_page_title]The Frugal Bride With The Extravagant Wedding[/post_page_title]
"It was a best friend of mine who was very frugal, so I figured she was going to have a reasonable wedding and bachelorette party. I had shared my monetary concerns with her too - that I worked and went to school and couldn't take off much time. She didn't have that many friends so it was only me and one other girl as bridesmaids," a Redditor wrote.
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"She asked us to hand-make ALL her decorations for the wedding (I put in 15 hours a week hand-making decorations, all outside of working and going to school full time)," the post continued.
Yikes! Like I've said, if you want a dream wedding on a budget, you have to work for it - not your guests.
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[post_page_title]The Bride Who Didn't Care About Her Friends[/post_page_title]
"Then she planned a week-long bachelorette party out of town, also asking us to foot the bill, not to mention our dresses," a Redditor wrote of yet another bridezilla. "I wanted to find something affordable, but she picked designer dresses that we had to pay for...never worn it again."
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"I spent nearly $1K on the whole ordeal, not to mention I did her hair and makeup for free for the wedding," they concluded.
Unless you're extremely wealthy, chances are that your guests will at the very least have to pay for transport and new outfits to your weddings, but this wasn't something this bridezilla considered when selecting her bridesmaids...
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"My sister had 10 bridesmaids. Most of them were her sorority sisters from college," a Reddit user revealed. "They wanted to plan an elaborate weekend for the summer, but most of them were still in school and unemployed. When I asked 'Hey, who will pay for this?' my sister got annoyed that I even asked."
We've seen a lot of bridezillas and their unreasonable mothers, so it's only appropriate to end this article on an egalitarian note by sharing a story about a groomzilla!
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"A drunk, screaming groomzilla screamed and pointed in my face (while his poor bride cowered behind him) because the venue ran out of Grey Goose at 11:45 pm," a Redditor revealed. "The wedding ended at midnight. I filled up an empty bottle with water are served it to him and his douchey friends."