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'Warming' sex trend explained - it's increasing in popularity among couples
While many are familiar with the traditional ways of cuddling up with a partner, a less conventional practice has recently been gaining attention: cock warming.
The concept involves intimate physical closeness but without the typical expectations tied to sexual activity. It is, in essence, a variation of spooning, albeit with a more intense focus on physical and emotional connection.
Rather than engaging in intercourse or foreplay, cock warming is about remaining still with a partner's body part in place - without thrusting or movement. For those unfamiliar, this might sound unusual, but it's actually a well-known kink that many find comforting and emotionally grounding.
Lovehoney’s expert Annabelle Knight explained to Metro that cock warming "isn't about intercourse or foreplay, nor is it a temporary pause before sex resumes. Instead, it’s focused on closeness, comfort, and emotional connection."
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The appeal of cock warming
For both partners, the act can foster a sense of reassurance. Knight explains that for the receiving partner, the physical closeness can "heighten feelings of emotional connection and affection."
Meanwhile, the penetrating partner might find the experience "soothing and grounding" as the warmth provides comfort without the usual pressures of performance. There’s no rush or expectation - just a quiet moment to share intimacy.
Interestingly, cock warming shares some similarities with the practice of "soaking," which is popular among certain religious groups as a way of simulating sex without technically breaking doctrinal rules. However, unlike soaking, cock warming is not connected to religious practice but is instead a specific kink focused entirely on intimacy and bonding.
How to try cock warming
If you and your partner are interested in giving cock warming a try, consent is key. An open and honest conversation about boundaries and comfort levels is essential before exploring this practice.
Knight recommends finding a relaxed position that feels natural for both partners, such as spooning or lying face-to-face. Gentle lubrication can be helpful, given that there’s no movement involved. Once settled, the focus should be on staying still and enjoying the physical closeness.
Knight concludes, "The key is finding a position that feels natural and restful," adding that the experience can be enjoyed as a form of post-sex relaxation or even as a way to fall asleep together. The essence of cock warming is about shared warmth and connection, without any pressure or expectations.