Cara Delevingne says men don't have the 'right tools' to please women sexually

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By Nasima Khatun

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Cara Delevingne has already shared some pretty bold opinions about intimacy in her BBC documentary, Planet Sex, but her most recent one might be the most controversial...

The six-part series sees the 30-year-old supermodel explore all things sex. From sexual fluidity to the art of orgasm-ing, Delevingne does not leave any stoned unturned.

While a lot of her content involves delving into people's personal experiences, some conclusions are backed up with scientific evidence as well as statistics.

During one particular episode that discusses the 'orgasm gap', which is a term used to refer to the disparity in sexual satisfaction between men and women, Delevingne says that men do not have the "right tools" to pleasure women sexually.

"I do feel that generally men are not equipped with the right tools to be able to handle women, especially sexually," she says. "For me, the earliest ideas I ever got taught about sex were man plus woman, d*** plus vagina equals orgasm."

"I don't want to go into the art of making a woman c**, but it's just a lot more complicated and a lot more fun," the former Victoria's Secret model adds.

This comes after reports concluded that 95 percent of heterosexual men orgasm during sex while just 65 percent of straight women do, emphasizing the substantial gap between the genders when it comes to sexual satisfaction.

However, this inequality was not just limited to heterosexual women and men.

It was also found that lesbian and bisexual women have significantly more orgasms than heterosexual women do.

According to Forbes, this could be down to a lack of understanding from men when it comes to female anatomy and the vulva.

Despite the statistics, it seems as though some people were left a little shaken by Delevingne's comments.

"Ah, hmm, If she needs tools I’m not sure a man’s what’s she’s looking for," wrote one user.

"IM AS GOOD AS ANY WOMAN HONEY," added another.

"When you’re being hyped up as an intellectual but you’re just a feminist in 2022 and promiscuity is the norm... imagine thinking men could be the only problem but ignoring that maybe is also a female issue, failure can go both ways," said a third.

Elsewhere in the docuseries, the Life in a Year actress reflected on her own sexuality, stating that she still struggles with being open about how much she "[loves] women."

"I'm on a very personal journey into my own sexuality. You may or may not know I have had relationships with both men and women," she explained in a voiceover. "But I still struggle with being open - really open - about just how much I love women."

Delevingne then goes onto add that there was a lot of shame surrounding the topic: "I grew up with a lot of shame is thinking, this isn't normal, this isn't human.

"Sexuality is a spectrum and mine wavers, but I'm probably, definitely more on the side of women. I like having sex with men, I just don't date them. I might though, you never know."

Planet Sex with Cara Delevingne is available to watch on the UK's BBC Three.

Featured Image Credit: Everett Collection Inc / Alamy

Cara Delevingne says men don't have the 'right tools' to please women sexually

vt-author-image

By Nasima Khatun

Article saved!Article saved!

Cara Delevingne has already shared some pretty bold opinions about intimacy in her BBC documentary, Planet Sex, but her most recent one might be the most controversial...

The six-part series sees the 30-year-old supermodel explore all things sex. From sexual fluidity to the art of orgasm-ing, Delevingne does not leave any stoned unturned.

While a lot of her content involves delving into people's personal experiences, some conclusions are backed up with scientific evidence as well as statistics.

During one particular episode that discusses the 'orgasm gap', which is a term used to refer to the disparity in sexual satisfaction between men and women, Delevingne says that men do not have the "right tools" to pleasure women sexually.

"I do feel that generally men are not equipped with the right tools to be able to handle women, especially sexually," she says. "For me, the earliest ideas I ever got taught about sex were man plus woman, d*** plus vagina equals orgasm."

"I don't want to go into the art of making a woman c**, but it's just a lot more complicated and a lot more fun," the former Victoria's Secret model adds.

This comes after reports concluded that 95 percent of heterosexual men orgasm during sex while just 65 percent of straight women do, emphasizing the substantial gap between the genders when it comes to sexual satisfaction.

However, this inequality was not just limited to heterosexual women and men.

It was also found that lesbian and bisexual women have significantly more orgasms than heterosexual women do.

According to Forbes, this could be down to a lack of understanding from men when it comes to female anatomy and the vulva.

Despite the statistics, it seems as though some people were left a little shaken by Delevingne's comments.

"Ah, hmm, If she needs tools I’m not sure a man’s what’s she’s looking for," wrote one user.

"IM AS GOOD AS ANY WOMAN HONEY," added another.

"When you’re being hyped up as an intellectual but you’re just a feminist in 2022 and promiscuity is the norm... imagine thinking men could be the only problem but ignoring that maybe is also a female issue, failure can go both ways," said a third.

Elsewhere in the docuseries, the Life in a Year actress reflected on her own sexuality, stating that she still struggles with being open about how much she "[loves] women."

"I'm on a very personal journey into my own sexuality. You may or may not know I have had relationships with both men and women," she explained in a voiceover. "But I still struggle with being open - really open - about just how much I love women."

Delevingne then goes onto add that there was a lot of shame surrounding the topic: "I grew up with a lot of shame is thinking, this isn't normal, this isn't human.

"Sexuality is a spectrum and mine wavers, but I'm probably, definitely more on the side of women. I like having sex with men, I just don't date them. I might though, you never know."

Planet Sex with Cara Delevingne is available to watch on the UK's BBC Three.

Featured Image Credit: Everett Collection Inc / Alamy