We all spend so long in pursuit of "The One" to spend the rest of our lives with. But what if I told you that you might have already found your soulmate? That they're actually a big part of your life already and that you were probably in the middle of texting them just before?
A lot of women have come to learn that their best friend is actually a way better fit for their idea of a soulmate than any potential lover ever was, and you know what? It makes sense. They're probably one of few people who know you better than anyone else, plus you can count on them being there for you years and years down the line – no matter if you're still living in the same city or even country.
Here are 11 other signs that indicate that your BFFL might actually be your soulmate...
1. You're each other's greatest confidants
A lengthy tweet, a new pair of jeans, a risqué snap – everything goes through the BFF approval system first. You're not afraid to tell each other if something isn't as cute as you thought it was, and that kind of brutal honesty is just one reason why you love them.
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2. People rarely see you without your bestie
You equally enjoy spending your Sunday's slothing around at home watching movies as much as you do hitting the town and getting trolleyed – as long as your numero uno is there, it's all good. And if you turn up to a party without them, people start asking why they're not here.
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3. No news about potential love interests goes unsaid between you
You're there for each other's advice and sage counselling. You're each other's wingwomen, and the golden rule is that you NEVER fight over a guy.
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4. You can speak to each other without actually speaking
All it takes is a look from across the table and the two of you know exactly what the other is thinking.
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5. You have a very long list of in-jokes
And to be honest, no-one finds them quite as funny as you guys do. In fact, a lot of people probably think you guys are a little annoying at times.
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6. And you can also just spend a long time talking total rubbish too
And not be judged for it. You're as weird as each other.
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7. No matter how long you spend apart, it feels like nothing's changed when you're together again
If she's spent a whole year abroad, or you just missed each other while you were away with your family for the weekend, time and distance can do nothing to stop your bond.
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8. It's impossible for you to stay mad at her for too long
No matter what you did or how much you messed up, your bestie will always forgive you as long as you both have each other's interests at heart. We all make mistakes.
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9. You get weirdly possessive over her
But at least you're so open with each other that you'll bring up anything that's bothering you right away.
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10. But it's only because you want to protect her
You've got each other's backs.
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11. And when the rest of the world is going to sh*t, at least you've got each other
And that's all that matters.
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See? True love doesn't necessarily have to be romantic. Maybe it's time to give your bestie a call and thank them for all the amazing stuff they do for you. Who knows, maybe you guys should break out those old friendship bracelets you made for each other all those years ago, too?
