We live in a world where a lot of people do things that are actually super rude on a day-to-day basis, but never give a second thought to why it's so rude.
Pregnant people, for example, have to put up with countless folk vying to touch their baby bumps without asking permission.
Then there's the problem of people who are more interested in their phone screens than the person they're supposed to be hanging out with. It has to stop.
Now, to save at least a few people from similar experiences, Redditors have been answering user u/emilychaan's question: "What is one thing that you find super rude but is very normalized in society?"
Here are 17 of the rudest things that society has sadly normalized:
1. Not letting people know their job applications have been unsuccessful "I wish they would let me know if they didn't want me so I could move on and not have hope. The ghosting kinda puts everyone in limbo and sends even more applications elsewhere." - u/MunchieMinion3
Credit: Alamy / Andriy Popov 2. Telling people to smile This one definitely speaks for itself and is something that women, in particular, will be able to relate to.
"There's literally nothing wrong with me; this is just my face." - u/sbashe5
Credit: Alamy / agefotostock 3. Forcing customer service workers to put up with bad behavior "How cashiers/customer service workers have to absorb all the hate and rudeness from customers and remain calm or else they'll get in trouble." - u/HungryBones
Credit: Alamy / Jeffrey Isaac Greenberg 4. Being late all of the time "Sure, the occasional accident can happen, but if you're habitually late, that's just disrespectful." - u/Ok-Supermarket-1414
Credit: Alamy / Frank Harms 5. Refusing to respect personal space and time "Also, stop looking at other people's phones while they're using them." - u/PickPsychological144
Credit: Alamy / Natalia Gdovskaia 6. Asking people when they're planning to get married or have children "Even more so if you are female." - u/e_l_r
Credit: Alamy / Roman Lacheev 7. Sampling fruit at the grocery store "Super f**king rude. People who steal produce like that would probably not be so eager to if they only knew the pesticides, dirt, bacteria, and mites that live on the outside of unwashed fruit." - u/Swedish-Butt-Whistle
Credit: Alamy / Kristina Blokhin 8. Commenting on people's weight and/or food choices "Making comments about someone's weight and how much or little they're eating." - u/booksoverppl
Credit: Alamy / Image Source 9. Touching strangers (or anyone for that matter) without their consent "Everyone feels like they can pat you on the back or ask to touch your hair, especially as a Black woman. Why are people so okay with it?" - u/Illustrious-Worry890
Credit: Alamy / Stefan Dahl Langstrup 10. Throwing away cigarette butts It's what it says on the tin, really. Please bin your cigarette butts! They are not only litter but a potential fire hazard too.
Credit: Alamy / jvphoto 11. Asking people what they do for a living and their salary "Asking someone you just met what their occupation is and how much money they make. And you always have to explain your answer." - u/Circles208
Credit: Alamy / Cultura RM 12. Touching pregnant women's bumps "Not sure why people think this is okay." - u/fu11h4m
Credit: Alamy / Cavan Images 13. Ignoring service people "Not responding when a cashier or employee says 'how are you today?'" - u/BooksMcGee
Credit: Alamy / Pongtorn Hiranlikit 14. Reclining on airplane seats without asking "Reclining a seat on an airplane without asking the person behind you." - u/Lkmifan1
Credit: Alamy / wassup6730 15. Asking 'Why are you so miserable?' or telling people to 'Cheer up!' "It's no one's business, and they don't know what's going on in other people's heads, but nobody ever tells them not to do that!" - u/Retrosonic82
Credit: Alamy / Artur Szczybylo 16. Assuming someone's gender "There are so many reasons this is wrong. Also, you could just be wrong about how you see someone as presenting! The norm should be to use they/them pronouns until you know. Also, NORMALIZE ASKING FOR PRONOUNS! I identify as genderfluid, so I use she/they/he, and my friends ask my pronouns regularly." - u/randomlesbian211102
Credit: Alamy / Cagkan Sayin 17. Staring at your phone while someone is talking to you "Unless you are expecting something really important, I feel like you really don't want to be talking to me." - u/notme1414
Credit: Alamy / DCPhoto So, if you happen to be guilty of any of these 17 things, you might want to reconsider your actions, as most likely, you'll have experienced the frustration that this type of rudeness causes as well!
Featured image credit: Alamy / Andriy Popov