Everybody in life has their own unique set of preferences. Whether it's how much milk and sugar they want in their coffee, or whether they prefer cats to dogs, or which type of movies they most like to watch - all of us have different opinions. And, unsurprisingly, that is true
in the bedroom, too.
Some folks are happy with conventional, vanilla stuff, whereas others aren't satisfied unless their bedroom looks like some sort of dungeon scene from Fifty Shades of Grey. Some people like to dress up. Some like to listen to music. Some take their time. Others are quick. The point is - everyone has a different way of approaching the carnal activity commonly referred to as "doing it", and sometimes the something that one person enjoys is not the same something that their partner likes.
However, it is also possible to simply just be
bad in bed - usually because you're inexperienced, inattentive, or basically, just
unfit - and there are people who have to put up with it.
Either way, whether you're dealing with someone incompetent, or just someone who hasn't got the same sort of preferences as you, it doesn't sound fun. Here are 15 people who know all too well about the struggle of having a poorly-performing significant other...
1. Two words: pace yourself
2. Dry spells can be difficult
3. You should always say something
4. Up your game, dude
5. Teach the guy some new moves - he'll appreciate it
6. Make sure to only give as much as you get
7. Tell her what you want her to do
8. Have you asked him?
9. One-sided relationships suck
10. To each their own
11. Only kind of?
12. Let him take his time
13. Tell him!
14. You'll have plenty of time in the future, don't worry
15. This person wanted tutti frutti and they got vanilla
The main problem here is definitely that people aren't telling one another what they want, and it's kinda dumb when you think about it. Really, if you're able to be
physically intimate with someone, you should be capable of having a conversation with them, too.
