Sam Smith fears they will be misgendered 'to the day I die'

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In March 2019, British singer Sam Smith publically revealed for the first time that they "float[ed] somewhere in between" male and female. And the following September, they confirmed on Instagram that their pronouns were "they/them/their".

Smith, 27, is now opening up about the way in which people in their life have adapted to their coming out, admitting that it has been "very difficult".

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"What’s hard is people changing their vocabulary; that’s very, very difficult,’ they told Zane Lowe on Apple Music’s Beats 1. "It takes time. Everyone messes up. I’m going to be misgendered to the day I die. This is going to take a long, long time for people to not use gender in their vocabulary."

Last March, Smith told The Good Place actress Jameela Jamil in an episode of her I Weigh Instagram series that “I am not male or female. I think I float somewhere in between.”

Watch the candid interview below:
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“I've always been very free in terms of thinking about sexuality, so I’ve just tried to change that into my thoughts on gender as well," they said, adding: “Non-binary/genderqueer is that you do not identify in a gender. You are a mixture of all different things. You are your own special creation.”

Learn more about the Florida mother who says she is raising a gender-neutral baby:
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“I’ve sometimes sat and questioned, do I want a sex change? It’s something I still think about: ‘Do I want to?’ I don’t think it is,” Smith told Jamil. “When I saw the word non-binary, genderqueer, and I read into it, and I heard these people speaking, I was like, ‘F**k, that is me.’”

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In September 2019, the How Do You Sleep singer wrote the following in a heartfelt caption explaining their pronouns:

"Today is a good day so here goes. I’ve decided I am changing my pronouns to THEY/THEM after a lifetime of being at war with my gender I’ve decided to embrace myself for who I am, inside and out. I’m so excited and privileged to be surrounded by people that support me in this decision but I’ve been very nervous about announcing this because I care too much about what people think but f**k it! I understand there will be many mistakes and mis gendering but all I ask is you please please try. I hope you can see me like I see myself now. Thank you.

P.s. I am at no stage just yet to eloquently speak at length about what it means to be non binary but I can’t wait for the day that I am. So for now I just want to be VISIBLE and open. If you have questions and are wondering what this all means I’ll try my best to explain but I have also tagged below the human beings who are fighting the good fight everyday. These are activists and leaders of the non binary/trans community that have helped me and given me so much clarity and understanding. [sic]"

Sam Smith fears they will be misgendered 'to the day I die'

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By VT

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In March 2019, British singer Sam Smith publically revealed for the first time that they "float[ed] somewhere in between" male and female. And the following September, they confirmed on Instagram that their pronouns were "they/them/their".

Smith, 27, is now opening up about the way in which people in their life have adapted to their coming out, admitting that it has been "very difficult".

[[instagramwidget||https://www.instagram.com/p/B2WpiusAc6h/]]

"What’s hard is people changing their vocabulary; that’s very, very difficult,’ they told Zane Lowe on Apple Music’s Beats 1. "It takes time. Everyone messes up. I’m going to be misgendered to the day I die. This is going to take a long, long time for people to not use gender in their vocabulary."

Last March, Smith told The Good Place actress Jameela Jamil in an episode of her I Weigh Instagram series that “I am not male or female. I think I float somewhere in between.”

Watch the candid interview below:
[[instagramwidget||https://www.instagram.com/tv/BvBXv4FF5sq/]]

“I've always been very free in terms of thinking about sexuality, so I’ve just tried to change that into my thoughts on gender as well," they said, adding: “Non-binary/genderqueer is that you do not identify in a gender. You are a mixture of all different things. You are your own special creation.”

Learn more about the Florida mother who says she is raising a gender-neutral baby:
[[jwplayerwidget||https://content.jwplatform.com/videos/3ysnYxB7-dkXnENEs.mp4||3ysnYxB7]]

“I’ve sometimes sat and questioned, do I want a sex change? It’s something I still think about: ‘Do I want to?’ I don’t think it is,” Smith told Jamil. “When I saw the word non-binary, genderqueer, and I read into it, and I heard these people speaking, I was like, ‘F**k, that is me.’”

[[instagramwidget||https://www.instagram.com/p/B8gqJxFAbKk/]]

In September 2019, the How Do You Sleep singer wrote the following in a heartfelt caption explaining their pronouns:

"Today is a good day so here goes. I’ve decided I am changing my pronouns to THEY/THEM after a lifetime of being at war with my gender I’ve decided to embrace myself for who I am, inside and out. I’m so excited and privileged to be surrounded by people that support me in this decision but I’ve been very nervous about announcing this because I care too much about what people think but f**k it! I understand there will be many mistakes and mis gendering but all I ask is you please please try. I hope you can see me like I see myself now. Thank you.

P.s. I am at no stage just yet to eloquently speak at length about what it means to be non binary but I can’t wait for the day that I am. So for now I just want to be VISIBLE and open. If you have questions and are wondering what this all means I’ll try my best to explain but I have also tagged below the human beings who are fighting the good fight everyday. These are activists and leaders of the non binary/trans community that have helped me and given me so much clarity and understanding. [sic]"