Your wedding is supposed to be the happiest day of your life. And yet, for one woman, it's been the source of stress more than anything else.
And that's because she's questioning her decision to uninvite one of her fiancé's closest friends from their wedding.
The reason? Well, the close friend in question apparently called the bride-to-be a gold-digger behind her back. Ouch!
"My fiancé has a really close friend - we will call her Amanda, Amanda has been friends with my partner for 12 years," the bride explains. "Meanwhile I met him when I was 22 and he asked me to marry him last Christmas."
"Amanda and my fiancé talk everyday and hang out regularly (they hung out everyday when we first met but when we became bf and gf he has obviously prioritized me over her)," she continues.
The soon-to-be bride then goes on to say that she doesn't mind her partner being friends with a woman and understands that Amanda is important to him.
She's even tried to get to know Amanda and and become friends with her. However, she's always gotten the vibe that her partner's friend doesn't like her very much.
"I guess this was confirmed when I heard from a mutual friend that shortly after my fiancé and I got engaged Amanda called me a gold digger behind my back," she explains. "I told my partner about this, hoping that it was just a rumour or something."
"But he told me that she DID ask him if he can 'truly trust me' because I come from a poor family and she encouraged him to get a prenup - which by the way I am not against but I don't see how it's her business."
"I don't understand why she thinks I'm after money when I literally make my own money and have NEVER asked for anything from my partner. I'm completely offended that she's basically slandering me."
In an attempt to rectify the situation, she invited Amanda over to discuss any negative feelings between them. However, Amanda was not at all apologetic and even defended the comments she made about the bride-to-be.
"I ended up getting pretty pi**ed off and told her not to expect an invitation to our wedding," she adds.
"So now she's upset and badmouthing me to my partner and my partner said that she is completely in the wrong but he's not okay with her not attending our wedding. I don't like her and don't see why someone who hates me should be allowed at the wedding."
So, who exactly is the a**hole in this not-so-little predicament - the bride, the groom, or Amanda? Let us know in the comments.
