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An ex-Russian secret agent has opened up on some of the lewd acts they had to perfect for their jobs.
Aliia Roza was once a Russian "sex spy" before defecting from her home country after falling in love with an intelligence target.
While it may sound like a plot for an outstanding spy-thriller, it is real life, and the former operative has opened up on some of the things she needed to perfect as a "seduction agent."
Speaking on The Hidden Third podcast with Mariana van Zeller, Roza explained how she would feel about getting romantically involved with some of the world's biggest criminals.
The ex-spy spoke about her struggles with staying undercover, and how she managed to seduce men before extracting key information from them.
And when it came to the latter, there were specific techniques which she was taught.
Roza, who started studying tactics and techniques as a teenager, explained that there is a sex playbook which helps to infiltrate targets without them knowing.
While many of these involved manipulation, some were purely physical and required some learning before carrying them out.
One of these techniques was coined "the perfect spy bl*wjob," which Roza said was "one of the most important skills any woman can have."
She explained: "There are many techniques, but one of the most important is the deep-throat technique; it's one of the most desirable things that any man wants to have.
"There are certain things you have to know before actually doing it; otherwise, it will be painful for the man. Also, it can be painful for your throat."
She then advised that women in general can learn to do this themselves, though they should try it "on a banana or a plastic d***o, as performing on the body for the first time can cause pain.
"So it has to go on top of your mouth and at the same time you take a breath in, and then you swallow it," Roza began.
"Also, your head has to be at a 90-degree angle; if you do any other angle, it will be painful for you."
She compared it to adult films, adding: "In porn, women are lying on the bed and then (there's a) man on top of her, you know, this is basically doing this kind of oral sex.
"You sit and he stands, for example, this is like 90 degrees," she shared.
Roza's candid interview comes after a report from the Times of London, claiming that China and Russia were plotting to deploy attractive female agents to steal tech secrets.
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Sex workers often find themselves in unique positions of trust, acting as accidental confidants for their clients.
For Jade Blair, a sex worker and adult content creator on OnlyFans, this dynamic has led to some deeply unsettling conversations. Through her social media presence, Blair frequently shares insights into her profession, but a recent video highlighted a much darker side of the intimacy people buy.
Blair took to TikTok to open up about the most disturbing admissions she has received during her work. She noted that the combination of a financial transaction and physical vulnerability creates an environment where men feel unusually comfortable sharing their darkest secrets.
The nature of her job means clients expect a judgment-free zone, which sometimes opens the floodgates for unexpected honesty.
In her video, Blair analyzed why these men choose to share such heavy secrets with her. She explained that men tend to feel "safe" when they're "paying for an experience" as they know she will not be rude to them.
She also noted that when they've been intimate, clients often feel like they can open up in other ways, including mentally and emotionally.
In any case, this unique psychological comfort level has led to disturbing admissions, as Blair revealed, "I've had a lot of men confess murder."
The majority of these chilling admissions came from individuals with ties to the armed forces. Blair recounted that these clients "typically were army or ex-army people who were overseas in a developing country that was quite corrupt."
Due to the corrupt nature of these countries, there were essentially "no repercussions" for their actions.
These men detailed instances where taking a life was entirely outside the scope of their official responsibilities, often describing situations that fell into "a very gray area" where they should not have acted. Blair explained that superiors often chose to ignore the behavior.
Clients told her stories about how "their sergeant or their captain found out" and "turned a blind eye" to avoid dealing with the "paperwork."
Blair said that some ex-military clients transitioned into private security roles for wealthy families abroad, where they would kill people who were attempting to steal without facing any local legal ramifications.
Military personnel were not the only clients sharing dark secrets in these private spaces. Blair also recalled encounters with individuals working in the healthcare sector.
She heard accounts from people who were doctors or nurses who admitted to taking matters into their own hands regarding end-of-life care.
These medical professionals would deliberately give their patients an excessive amount of pain medication to end their suffering or at least hasten their death.
While Blair acknowledged that in the medical cases, "their heart was in the right place," the ethical ramifications remain deeply disturbing.
Ultimately, Blair clarified that she does not have enough specific details, such as names or exact locations, "where this information would be at all helpful to the police."
Because these killings took place decades ago in corrupt regions, legal action is highly unlikely, leaving Blair with the alarming realization that murderers are walking among us.
A former CIA spy has opened up about a simple trick to making just about anyone trust you.
Have you ever met a person and instantly felt at ease in their presence? Some people have a seemingly God-given ability to get people to open up to them and spill their darkest secrets within minutes of meeting.
You may have assumed that charisma is a trait they were born with - or they might be employing a CIA-backed trick to building up your trust without your knowledge.
Andrew Bustamante, a former CIA agent, entrepreneur, and author, has revealed there may be a way to become the person that everyone feels comfortable opening up to.
He revealed that there is a “scary but simple” rule the CIA operates by: “You are either in control or under control - there is no other option.”
Bustamante was 27 years old when he was recruited by the CIA, and says that prior to joining, he’d always thought he was good with women, but soon realized he was a “dumba**” because “I spent most of my time talking about me, my history, my experience, my qualifications, my ideas.”
Revealing the key thing he learned to making people trust you, Bustamante explained: “The CIA taught me that there’s a very simple process to rapidly build trust and influence in other people and that process involves asking two questions and then making one validating statement.
“After that validating statement, you repeat the same cycle again. And that the process of asking questions and validating other people’s ideas subconsciously makes the other person think that you are like them and it makes them feel like they are interesting and they are important and they are relevant, and then they have a dopamine rush that makes them feel good being around you.”
He revealed that he usually starts off with questions that are relatable to the person he is speaking to, in order to build up an instant rapport and make the person feel seen and understood by asking follow-up questions.
While he might use this for picking up women, there can be many other instances where this could be seriously useful.
And he also revealed that by using the method, he manages to learn all about the other person while giving away far less about himself by steering the conversation toward delving deeper into questions about them instead.
So if you ever find yourself divulging more than you usually do to a stranger at a bar, and wondering why and how they made you comfortable enough to do so, they might just be using CIA-approved techniques to get you to open up.
Most of us, at some point or another in our lives, have fantasized about what it would be like to have superhuman powers. Whether it be flying, invisibility, or Hulk-like strength, there's just something so tantalizing about being able to go above and beyond the normal limits of human capability.
Every now and then, of course, we do come across people who seem like they have extreme or even magical abilities. There are individuals who can hold their breath for prolonged periods of time, for example, or withstand extreme temperatures without any apparent damage. But nobody has come as close to convincing the world that supernatural abilities exist as Natasha Demkina, a woman from Saransk, Russia.
Ever since she was 10 years old, Demkina has claimed to have X-Ray vision.
"I was at home with my mother and suddenly I had a vision," she once said, recalling her first experience with the phenomenon. "I could see inside my mother's body and I started telling her about the organs I could see. Now, I have to switch from my regular vision to what I call medical vision. For a fraction of a second, I see a colorful picture inside the person and then I start to analyze it."
Initially, people thought that the young girl simply had an overactive imagination; that she was just a child playing a game. However, before long, it became clear that - quite often - what she "saw" was fairly accurate. Soon after that, she began performing "readings" for people in Russia, with many individuals relying on her medical judgement alongside (or even instead of) opinions from trained professionals.
She did not shoot to fame until 2004, however, when she was 17 years old.
14 years ago, Demkina achieved a certain degree of international notoriety after being invited on a British TV show to exhibit her abilities. While on the show, she definitely gave the impression that she could see beneath people's skin (to a "cellular level", she once claimed), and was able to tell that one of the hosts had a bad ankle.
After that, she was featured on a Discovery Channel show, The Girl With X-Ray Eyes. The show endeavoured to get to the bottom of Demkina's powers, and the then-teenager seemed only happy to oblige. She, it appeared, was utterly convinced of her X-Ray vision.
And, sure enough, when asked to prove her skills, Demkina faired rather well. She was asked to analyse a group of people and tell them what she thought (if anything) was wrong with them, and the majority said that she was correct. She was able to pick up on a migraine condition in one woman, endometriosis in another, and a heart defect in a man.
But how was she doing it?
Richard Wiseman, a professor of the Public Understanding of Psychology, observed Demkina as she analysed people, and noticed something very peculiar about how they reacted to her diagnoses.
"When I saw her do her usual readings, I couldn't believe the discrepancy between what I was hearing and how impressed the individuals were," he said. "I thought they were going to walk away saying it was embarrassing, but time and again, they said it was amazing."
This was particularly surprising, Wiseman explained, because, "Before each reading, I asked the people what was the main medical problem and Natasha never got one of those right."
The thing is, Demkina was correctly identifying some medical ailments; however, she often diagnosed a lot more that weren't there. Plus, the ones she did get right were always vague and easily interpreted in a number of ways. Because of this, scientists began to believe that Demkina was simply very good at reading outward signs of illness, and would adapt what she was saying to what she was told by patients.
In order to prove that the girl did not have any extraordinary abilities, Wiseman and a team of sceptics devised an experiment.
"We designed a simple test that would eliminate the possibility of using cold reading to fish for correct information and to prevent Natasha from making diagnoses that could not be disproved without an autopsy," wrote Andrew A. Skolnick, a researcher who took part in judging Demkina's abilities.
"We recruited six volunteers, who each had a different medical condition visible on X-rays, plus a 'normal' subject who had none of the six target conditions.
"Natasha was handed six test cards, each with a description of a target medical condition, in English and Russian. We also provided her with anatomical drawings to make sure she understood exactly what to look for and where to look."
It took her more than four hours to complete the test, and even then she only matched four conditions to seven people correctly. Some have argued that this is actually a very high score, and suggests that Demkina possesses at least some psychic ability. However, considering that - amongst other mistakes - she failed to notice a large metal plate in the skull of a man who had formerly had a brain tumour, it appeared that her high score was simply down to lucky guesswork.
Despite this, Demkina is still regarded by many as having psychic abilities even today, and continues to aid patients who are looking for a medical diagnosis.
So, ultimately, this leaves us with three possibilities about what's going on: either Demkina is convinced of her own ability enough to blag her way through life, or she knows it's fake and she's a very good liar, or - the one we all want to believe - she really does have some kind of special insight into people's bodies.
Either way, it's probably best for all of us to rely on tried and tested medical methods before paying Demkina a visit - no matter how accurate she claims to be.