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Published 11:04 30 Apr 2026 GMT
A 73-year-old escort has opened up about one of the main reasons why married men seek out her services - and what their wives should be doing instead.
Caroline Vee, a former Christian who had been celibate for 40 years from the age of 17 after turning to religion, first entered the world of sex work when she was 57 and has fast made a name for herself with those that prefer a more mature lady.
She has since made a lucrative career in sex work, and is now sharing her best X-rated advice for callers on Tea at Four's OnlyGrans hotline.
One caller asked her: "My boyfriend is considering breaking up with me after learning about my past sexual kinks. Just because I had a few wild years exploring my BDSM kink, he thinks we’re no longer compatible. What should I do?"
Caroline joked: "Just going to put you on hold and I’ll come back shortly - after I’ve killed him."
She then added: "I mean the fact that she’s admitted to it is good, because she’s being honest. If he doesn’t like it, then ditch!
"I mean, have a conversation by all means, but maybe try to find out why he doesn’t like it. Has he got a problem with it or are you hoping that he will participate and join in with it? Or is it something that you’ve done, experimented with it and you’re done with that now and want to move on. There’s all kinds of reasons why somebody would feel insecure about it.”
If he agrees to give some light BDSM a try, Caroline advised: "Find out what he likes and maybe try one of those, because he’s the one that’s insecure.
"And communicate and ask if they enjoyed it. If they say no then maybe you’re not compatible and shouldn’t be together."
Caroline also revealed that unfulfilled fantasies and kinks are one of the main reasons her married clientele seek out her services, as they are unable to explore their proclivities with their partners.
She confirmed: "Very common. And unfortunately, it’s the other way around - it’s the men that want to explore, but the women don’t want to. The women are stuck with missionary - they don’t want to do any other positions.
“I’ll never forget when I mentioned to my sister about a 69, and she’d never heard of it. And I’m thinking ‘but you’ve been married for 40 years, have you only done missionary?! Isn’t it boring to keep doing the same position night after night, week after week?'"
Caroline also advised that communication with your lover is key, to find out what works for each individual - and that likely won't be the same with every partner.
She explained: "You've got to find what works for you. Guys say to me, 'what's your favorite position?' And I don't really have one because it depends on the shape of the man and his penis. Because different positions work differently on those two factors."
If you have a burning sex question you'd like Caroline's advice on, you can reach out via the Tea at Four Instagram or email us on [email protected].
Catch the full episode of OnlyGrans hotline with Caroline Vee on YouTube now.