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Swinging couple reveal bizarre rule they were made to follow at 'Killing Kittens sex party'
A swinging couple has revealed the bizarre rule they were forced to follow at a "Killing Kittens" sex party.
Jem and Daz are intimacy and relationship coaches who use their YouTube channel to share content about the "spicier side of life" and help other couples build deeper connections.
The polymanous pair, who are based in the UK, have regularly shared insights into their unconventional relationship from adults-only cruises to exclusive sex parties.
In January, the couple was invited to a Killing Kittens party pre-New Year’s Eve Masquerade Ball.
Described by its founder, Emma Sayle, as "the ultimate female empowerment brand," the company hosts private parties and intimate social experiences.
According to the website, the parties are held at luxury venues, with strict dress codes and an emphasis on discretion, so that it is "a safe and welcoming environment for everyone to explore their deepest desires".
"Whether you're new to the scene or a seasoned pro, our parties are the perfect place to indulge in your fantasies and connect with open-minded individuals," they added.
Couple reveals bizarre rule at exclusive party
The couple discovered that guests have to follow several rules throughout the night, including one particularly strange requirement.
Speaking in their vlog about their experience, they revealed that attendees were mandated to wear a mask until around half 10, which both Jem and Daz admitted they were not thrilled about.
"You have to wear a mask. It's not our favorite thing," they said.
Jem explained that she doesn't like wearing it because it "squishes the makeup".
"I get the whole mystery thing, but yes, if you turn up without your mask, you are not getting in," she added.
The couple also mentioned that filming inside is not allowed as most people who attend the party "want to remain anonymous," and they were also forbidden from publicly revealing the nightclub hosting the party.
While the party encouraged guests to explore their desires, Jem and Daz found that certain areas were off-limits for sexual activity.
"We spent quite a bit of time upstairs on these nice velvet seats. A lot of people were playing there. I don't think there was space to...We had a little play then. Later on when we went back there, we got told off," they said.
Couple explains why they attend sex parties with "no expectation"
Although Jem and Daz are no strangers to the swinging lifestyles, they explained that attending those events doesn't necessarily mean they're looking to become intimate with other people.
"But you want to be prepared that if the vibe takes you that way, then you've got the stuff you need. So, always pack it even if you're not intending to use it," Daz said.
Jem shared that the experience was ultimately about spending time with each other.
"To make it clear, as this is part of our alternative dating experiences, as Daz has just said, this is for us. We're going for us," she said. "The main objective is about the two of us. If anything else happens, that's a bonus, but we're going to enjoy it together."