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Sex worker reveals why being 'tighter' than normal might mean something completely disgusting is going on in her body
A sex worker has revealed why being "tighter" than normal during sex might not be a good thing.
In fact, something pretty concerning might just be happening in your female partner's body that she needs to see to ASAP.
Jade Blair, who often posts about the realities of doing sex work on her TikTok, has now taken the time to bust a long-held myth during sex.
Namely, that when a lady is feeling "tight" the sex is more pleasurable for both her and her partner.
But this may not be the case.
Are you "tight?" Or do you just need to go to the toilet?
In a video uploaded to TikTok, Blair explains that, when working, she has had guys say to her "you are so tight."
It's a phrase you hear often, whether it's in film and TV sex scenes or porn, but Blair has uncovered another possible explanation for this feeling of tightness.
Namely, that your sexual partner might just need to go to the toilet.
As she explains, in females there is a thin membrane separating the vaginal hole and the anus.
"If she needs to use the bathroom," Blair explains, "then [the excrement] gets pushed up against that wall."
Blair goes on to say: "I had no idea about this until I heard about someone who would struggle to go to the bathroom... and they were a lady."
What sex worker Jade Blair discovered about being "tighter" than normal
Blair said that she had seen a TikTok where a female user opened up about her experience of struggling to go to the toilet.
The solution, she'd found, was to insert her hand into the vaginal hole and push against the membrane wall, helping to evacuate the waste out of her body.
But this was also something of a lightbulb moment, especially for the bodily mechanics during sex when females might be feeling "tighter" than normal.
"If the wall is that thin," Blair posits. "Then surely you can feel it."
After some first-hand investigating, Blair says that she can "definitely feel a difference between that wall" between when she needs to go to the toilet and when she doesn't.
She then brings her argument back full-circle: "I've had guys say 'oh my god, you're so tight,' when honestly I think I just needed to do a big poo."
So, the next time that your female sexual partner is feeling "tighter" than normal during sex, this might not necessarily be a good thing.
She might, honestly, just need to go to the toilet instead. The more you know, right?