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Published 14:33 17 Mar 2026 GMT
Professional escort reveals the most common mistake men make in the bedroom
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“What was it like?” is one of the go-to questions asked during a sexual debrief amongst nosy friends. The answer to such an intrusive inquiry frequently serves as a revealing precursor to whether the person being quizzed will see their recent lover again, but there is one big mistake men often make, claims OnlyFans star and escort Jade Blair.
In the instance of heterosexual or lesbian couples, there is one key factor that is especially vital to not just a woman’s sexual enjoyment, but their sexual health.
In a candid video shared on TikTok, sex worker and OnlyFans star Blair addresses the matter of vaginal hygiene, delving into the dos and don’ts when encountering a woman’s intimate region.
What does the OnlyFans star discuss?
The Australian adult star posts regular advice, tips, and sex stories to her 285,000 TikTok followers in a bid to normalise taboo sexual topics and dispel common misconceptions around sex.
“It’s scary how many men don’t know the basics about getting down with a lady,” Blair said. She added that things we associate with cleanliness can actually cause harm: “If you’re in the shower, do not be getting soap anywhere near her vaginal canal.
"It should not be going up in there. It actually shouldn’t be going anywhere near her vulva unless her doctor has specifically recommended it.
“Likewise, don’t really eat or drink anything other than water, or even use mouthwash seconds before going down on her, you’re just going to throw off her PH and give her either a yeast or a BV infection, or heaven forbid you leave a crumb inside of there,” she added.
Blair provides a surprising view on oral sex for women
While announcing that leaving leftovers in the vaginal introitus is ill-advised, the OnlyFans model also delivered perhaps a more surprising revelation about the receipt of oral sex for women: “Just don’t stick your tongue in there. It actually doesn’t feel that good for most women, and it is just going to push a whole lot of bacteria into a vagina that just doesn’t need it.”
She continued, “Also what is going to feel good to her, is likely going to depend on her body that day. The cervix will actually push up into the body or push down, shortening the canal, depending on the time of month.
"So, some positions may feel really good one day, and then terrible the next. She’s not lying about it. Her sensitivity can change as well, so you may need to use more or less pressure.”
In addition, Blair also discussed the menstrual cycle, and its unpredictability, and warned men not to be surprised if their partner’s period starts unexpectedly: “Also her period could start at any time. They are not always super regular, and I have actually had one start while a client was, you know.”