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An escort has opened up about the mortifying moment a family member tried to book her services - and how she handled the awkward situation.
Jade Blair, a sex worker from Australia, shares details about her line of work on TikTok to her over 136,000 followers, including how she handled the one situation no escort would like to face.
Answering a follower's question on what she'd do if a family member tried to book her services, she revealed that she'd actually tackled that particular horrifying scenario in the past.
She explained: "When it happened, I was a lot younger and I was working in Sydney in a brothel.
"Now these are completely legal there and I originally live in Brisbane, so I had to fly to Sydney and I'd stay there for a week and then fly back and stay at home and have a rest for a week.
"I did this specifically so it would be less likely for people in my real life to stumble across me, because I don't know anyone in Sydney."
She revealed that in the brothel she worked in, the men would be taken into a room where the ladies would come out one by one and introduce themselves, and then the man would be able to "pick whichever lady he'd like to see."
Jade explained: "Now, there are cameras so when the clients come in we can see them in the ladies' room to decide if we want to go out or not.
"However, unfortunately in most places these cameras don't work. And I wasn't too worried, because again, I was in Sydney - I didn't really know anyone there.
"But this guy came in, I went out, I introduced myself and he looks just like my uncle."
She admitted: "Now, I'm not 100 percent sure because this uncle I had only met a handful of times in my life when I was a kid, and I've only seen a handful of photos of him from when he was a lot younger as well, so I don't have any common reference for what he looks like, but I did look him up on Facebook and he was actually in Sydney."
Jade revealed that her co-workers were divided on whether the client did indeed look like her uncle in the photos, but she refused to see him regardless.
She added: "And you bet, he wanted to book me. Of course I said no, he looked so close to my uncle that even if it wasn't my uncle, I wouldn't feel comfortable booking him, like it would just be so awkward.
"This guy was also very, very intoxicated so I don't think he would have recognized me at all. If it was him, I don't think he had any clue, so I just said I am not seeing him and I think the management just made up a lie saying that I felt sick, I was tired and went home.
"So that was the end of it, he decided he didn't want to book someone else and he just left."
She revealed that she has put further precautions in place to prevent a similarly uncomfortable situation from happening again, explaining: "Now I work for and by myself, I do require that clients send me a recent and clear face photo before they book me so I can see them before I ever give out any details of my address.
"And if it was someone I knew - I have had friends from university and even from high school try to book me - I usually just simply decline.
"It is obviously less awkward when it is a friend versus a potential family member, but even then it's just - I don't feel comfortable with it, there's too much history, they probably feel like I can give them some freebies.
"They just know too much about me, I don't feel like I could give them a proper professional service - I'd get too awkward, so I've always just politely declined and recommended one of my friends instead."
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Sex workers often find themselves in unique positions of trust, acting as accidental confidants for their clients.
For Jade Blair, a sex worker and adult content creator on OnlyFans, this dynamic has led to some deeply unsettling conversations. Through her social media presence, Blair frequently shares insights into her profession, but a recent video highlighted a much darker side of the intimacy people buy.
Blair took to TikTok to open up about the most disturbing admissions she has received during her work. She noted that the combination of a financial transaction and physical vulnerability creates an environment where men feel unusually comfortable sharing their darkest secrets.
The nature of her job means clients expect a judgment-free zone, which sometimes opens the floodgates for unexpected honesty.
In her video, Blair analyzed why these men choose to share such heavy secrets with her. She explained that men tend to feel "safe" when they're "paying for an experience" as they know she will not be rude to them.
She also noted that when they've been intimate, clients often feel like they can open up in other ways, including mentally and emotionally.
In any case, this unique psychological comfort level has led to disturbing admissions, as Blair revealed, "I've had a lot of men confess murder."
The majority of these chilling admissions came from individuals with ties to the armed forces. Blair recounted that these clients "typically were army or ex-army people who were overseas in a developing country that was quite corrupt."
Due to the corrupt nature of these countries, there were essentially "no repercussions" for their actions.
These men detailed instances where taking a life was entirely outside the scope of their official responsibilities, often describing situations that fell into "a very gray area" where they should not have acted. Blair explained that superiors often chose to ignore the behavior.
Clients told her stories about how "their sergeant or their captain found out" and "turned a blind eye" to avoid dealing with the "paperwork."
Blair said that some ex-military clients transitioned into private security roles for wealthy families abroad, where they would kill people who were attempting to steal without facing any local legal ramifications.
Military personnel were not the only clients sharing dark secrets in these private spaces. Blair also recalled encounters with individuals working in the healthcare sector.
She heard accounts from people who were doctors or nurses who admitted to taking matters into their own hands regarding end-of-life care.
These medical professionals would deliberately give their patients an excessive amount of pain medication to end their suffering or at least hasten their death.
While Blair acknowledged that in the medical cases, "their heart was in the right place," the ethical ramifications remain deeply disturbing.
Ultimately, Blair clarified that she does not have enough specific details, such as names or exact locations, "where this information would be at all helpful to the police."
Because these killings took place decades ago in corrupt regions, legal action is highly unlikely, leaving Blair with the alarming realization that murderers are walking among us.
An Australian escort who says she has slept with thousands of clients has opened up about whether size really matters in the bedroom.
Jade Blair, who posts on X under the handle JadeBlairxox, has built a following of 69.5K followers where she regularly talks about her experiences working in the adult industry.
According to Daily Mail, the Queensland native began her career after deciding that university wasn’t the right path for her. She spent three years working with an established company to learn the industry, and then later went independent.
Over the years, she says she has been with several clients, giving her a unique perspective on intimacy and what actually makes encounters enjoyable.
In a recent video shared on her X profile, Blair addressed a question she says comes up constantly: whether size really matters.
"I sleep with men for money. I've been with thousands of men, and I definitely have a favorite size and shape. I'm going to be honest, so please don't cancel me," she said.
She explained that she isn’t particularly fond of the "super bent one," explaining: "It's totally normal and actually kind of weird when you see a completely straight one. I'm not talking about like a little to the side or a little bit like this. That's normal. I'm talking like this."
Blair also said extremely large sizes can actually make intimacy uncomfortable.
"Look, I am small. I am four foot eleven. There's just not that much room down there," she said. "And even for like an average-sized lady, they usually only have three to five inches, maybe a tiny bit more if they're like super excited in the bedroom before you're just gonna hit a wall."
"And yes, I know some women really love having that wall pushed and stretched, but I'm just not one of them. If you have a super, long one, you're just going to have to accept we're not gonna get it all the way without causing me immense pain. And I do not want to be punched in the cervix."
"So sorry, I just, I don't like it. Don't understand the love of the super, big ones. I have taken them that are longer than my forearm and thicker than my wrist," she added. "These guys were professionals, though; they knew what they were doing. They knew how to get me really excited before we went at it."
"So it wasn't too bad, but I can't say they're my favorite."
Blair said that from her experience, smaller sizes can often lead to better results because it allows for more precise movement.
"But honestly, I'm a sucker for just using your hands or mouth," she concluded.
An escort has opened up about whether sex workers fake orgasms with clients.
YouTuber and adult worker Lilith Lodge is known for creating content around her job, from vlogs to Q&As.
She truly leaves no stone unturned, delving into great detail about all things sexual as she answers some of her viewers' burning questions about the industry.
We may be living in the age of OnlyFans and mass adult content online, but there are a lot of questions that many may not know the answers to.
She has previously explained what the most commonly requested sex position is from her, and now she has opened up on orgasms.
Despite p**n being a click away, a lot of the behind-the-scenes has been left to the interpretation of viewers - though when it comes to being an escort, things can be a bit different.
Lodge took to YouTube to explain the reality of orgasms while she's with clients.
Lodge pointed out that she is "constantly asked" by fans about whether escorts "really c*m" during an appointment, and if they enjoy bookings with clients.
She admitted to wondering the same thing early on in her career, adding: "If I was to come online and say to you guys that every single booking I come, that would probably be the biggest f***ing lie I'd ever tell. And I don't think anyone would really believe that."
Lodge also called out some claims she's spotted online, claiming: "I've seen videos where they make TikTok responses to these kinds of questions and they're like, 'Yeah, it's so easy to make me come. I come multiple times in every booking.'
"No. Uh, I'm telling you right now, it's just not happening. It's not happening that frequently. And it is certainly not happening in every single booking."
The escort acknowledged that each person has a different way of climaxing, and that for her, she isn't one to orgasm every time she's with a client.
Lodge warned: "If you are somebody thinking of starting to be an escort because you've seen TikToks of these girls saying this, I'm sorry to break it to you, but not everybody knows what they're doing in bed.
"So, to answer your question, do I ever really come? Yes. Yes, sometimes I do. Unfortunately, the majority of bookings I don't," she revealed.
The experienced escort said that the experience is about "the client getting what they want and they need out of the session," not her own enjoyment.
"There is certainly a subsection of men that will not progress with the booking, cannot enjoy the booking without you also finishing or at least pretending to," Lodge added.
The Brisbane-based sex worker revealed that only regulars were able to get her to orgasm, even recalling the first time it happened during a booking with a client she hadn't seen multiple times.
She explained: "We do really come. Probably not as often as we are pretending to. Let's talk a little bit about pretending to orgasm because this is something that gets a lot of backlash, but it's a conversation that I want to have.
"I try not to pretend to orgasm. I do try not to. I try not to have that as an expectation for the booking that they will really make me finish. And if I can get away with not ever pretending to orgasm or really orgasming in the booking, then that's ideal.
"But there is a certain group of men that they will not finish unless I finish or they will not feel good about that booking unless I've finished," the sex worker revealed.
She looked back at the time a client got her to orgasm during their first meeting, explaining to him that it "was completely real and it really did happen."
"He didn't believe me and thought that I was pretending it had happened, which does sometimes happen. The guys think we're just trying to be nice. But he really knew what he was doing.
"It happens more frequently. And when I say more frequently, that doesn't mean every day, and it doesn't mean every week. It is a rarity that I will have two different clients make me finish in the same day." Lodge admitted.
The escort added: "It's happened literally once and I have a vlog up of that day. That is the only time that has happened in my career."
Though we may not talk about it often, sex work is a very common profession all over the world. Some folks are totally fine with the concept; others are a little prudish about it. Either way, it does go on - and probably a lot more than you think.
What surprises a lot of people, too, is that women are not the only people to engage in sex work. In fact, men have been involved in prostitution for thousands of years and, when there's so much money to be made from the practice, there's no real reason why it wouldn't still be going on today.
Ryan James, a 31-year-old man from Sydney, Australia, recently went on The Morning Show in order to discuss his life as an escort, and revealed which of his "services" is most popular amongst his female clientele.
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James, who used to work in finance, said that he got into the industry through a girlfriend who engaged in sex work. Though he adapted pretty quickly, it took his family a while to adjust to the idea.
"I didn't tell them [my family] at first. When I did get started I told my friends pretty quickly. My family found out a little later," he said. "It was a bit of a mixed reaction. They don't treat me any differently because of it. It's probably not the kind of thing parents would choose for their children but they still treat me well."
His clients, meanwhile, are more than happy that James provides the services he does, with the most popular option being his "dinner dates".
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James charges between $400 and $6,000 for various options, with the dinner date coming with a hefty price tag of $3,500 - $4,500.
For that price, James treats his companion to a luxurious meal in a date setting, followed by a trip to a hotel. For the lower price tag, women can expect six hours of "pampering and pleasure", but the extra grand gets them an overnight stay (*wink wink*) followed by breakfast in the morning.
But, according to the escort, it isn't all about sex.
"Pretty much every single client that I see there's some companionship element to the booking," he said in an interview with Femail. "From what I see, men are more focused on the sexual side of things. Women are focused on the sex too, they wouldn't come to see me without it, but we spend a lot of time talking as well."
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He continued:
"Many of the women I see could easily go to a bar and pick a guy up and have sex that way. But they want a different experience.
"Sometimes it's that they've been recently divorced, or they're still married but haven't been intimate in a long time. I've had clients who are couples who want a threesome and women who are virgins."
As it turns out, then, there's a lot more to sex work than many might think. It's not the sleazy business it's often painted as, but rather a service provided by one person to another - just like eating at a restaurant, or taking the car to be cleaned.
Of course, every escort provides a different experience for their clients, but James, at least, really seems to care about his.
For so many people across the country, COVID-19 has had a devastating effect on their livelihoods.
Due to the nation-wide lockdown, industries like retail, hospitality, and travel have all been hit hard, with thousands of people losing their jobs, and many others having their income slashed after being placed on furlough.
However, after months of lockdown and ongoing social distancing rules, very few people have considered the impact the pandemic has had on sex workers.
Now, a professional escort has spoken to VT about the impact COVID-19 has had on sex workers, what has been her most unusual requests in the bedroom, and what needs to change for the stigma around the industry to finally be removed.
India Rose, an escort and camgirl from England, has been left unable to see her regular clients for months.
"Officially, I started doing sex work about two-and-a-half years ago. I started off as a camgirl and you naturally build up relationships with regular clients and that led to meeting them, " she explained.
Prior to working as a camgirl, India Rose started seeing sugar daddies at the age of 18. Explaining that she was about to go traveling at the time, she said she purely got into the job after a friend said it was an easy way to make money.
However, after returning home and starting a Monday-Friday, 9-5 job, India Rose soon started to miss the excitement of her former life. Then, after seen an ad on Instagram, she decided to join a webcam agency.
While working as a camgirl, India Rose started to speak to regular clients on a daily basis. She explained to VT how this soon developed into her meeting one of them for sex:
"I had been talking to [a guy] for about three-to-six months, so quite a while. And then he said, 'Look, I'm in London, do you want to do something?' And I thought, 'Do you know what, yeah!'"
And despite what many people may think, India Rose has never been in a situation where she has felt unsafe - making sure to research each client before she meets them.
In fact, she points out that "it is no different to meeting a guy on Tinder or at a bar on a night out." But for extra precaution, India Rose does allow her close friends to track her phone.
When I asked how her friends responded to her career choice, India Rose said they have been 100% supportive, and they have said that "as long as your safe, then you're fine."
I then asked if her family knew about her life as a sex worker, to which India Rose told me:
"I've never fully said to [my family] that I do this. But I'm pretty sure that they've put two and two together [...] I don't know what they think I do otherwise because I've never had a proper job and I'm always in designer clothes.
"We've never openly spoken about it. Over lockdown, I went to stay with them for a bit. So I came to their house with a suitcase full of props and wigs and all sorts for webcamming - which I'm pretty sure they came across, but they've not said anything."
And when it comes to dating, India Rose told me that she has recently started talking to a guy, but is yet to come up with the best possible way to tell him about her life as an escort.
When I asked India Rose to talk me through a normal working week, she revealed that she will usually work as a camgirl from Monday to Friday - of which her clients pay per minute in either group or one-on-one chats.
Once a month, she will set a weekend aside for her escort work - booking out an Airbnb where she meets her clients.
Talking me through the process, India Rose reveals that she does not do random meets, and makes sure she has built a relationship with the client beforehand.
Prior to meeting, they will discuss any specific requirements, what they are expecting, anything in particular they like, or what they would like her to wear.
She then takes the money on arrival and ensures that they take a shower - joining them if they would like.
"I'll get ready - if they've brought me a toy or a costume to put on. Then yeah, then we just get on with it and do it."
Sometimes the clients then suggest going for a meal - continuing to pay for India Rose's time.
Asking how much each session costs, India Rose revealed that she charges £350 ($460) per hour, and will see roughly for regulars over a weekend in two-to-three-hour slots.
With her webcam work included, she told me she can earn anywhere between £5,000-£6,000 ($6,590 - $7,910) per month.
However, India Rose did explain that her decision to see all of her clients over one weekend per month is down to two reasons; the fact that "it is quite draining, emotionally" and that she is admittedly "lazy".
When asked if she would encourage somebody else to become a sex worker, India Rose said "for sure", but offered the following advice:
"Just trust your gut and have a bit of common sense. Whether it is with a safety situation or you're truly thinking 'I want to do this/I don't want to do this' - don't do it for the wrong reasons. You have to do it because you enjoy it.
"Of course you're going to have days where you think, 'Oh, what a day!' But you get that with every job.
"It is hard work - especially with social media and advertising and photography - you have to wear a lot of hats. Don't think you can just jump on and do it. It is hard work. But I do think it is worth it.
"And I think if you're thick-skinned enough and I think if you really don't care and enjoy it, then go for it."
India Rose then stressed that you cannot survive in the business if you are "constantly anxious and constantly worried".
"So many girls get into it for the wrong reasons. Obviously the money is amazing, but you do need to enjoy it, she explained, adding: "Don't do it and always be looking over your shoulder. Don't drain yourself over it."
The 21-year-old then explained that even the webcamming comes with its risks: "You do have to be prepared, even on camera. Some [people] do want to be nasty and troll you for no reason - just because they can. And I just think, 'You're paying for this?!'
"But some girls get so upset over it - it sets them back weeks. It's just your mindset."
I then became curious enough to ask India Rose what her strangest request had been from a client, to which she gave me two answers which were poles apart:
"I always find the ones that are quite - not boring - but, mediocre the strangest. Because, in a way, I can see why the fetishes and why the odd requests... why you'd pay for it. Because it is a service at the end of the day, and it is something that you can't ask your girlfriend because you're embarrassed.
"So when guys just want to... I had one session before that was an hour and half, that was just kissing. I found that a bit odd."
"But also I've had weird ones before. One guy - there's this thing called sploshing - which is food fights and getting really messy with food. And it was a mixture between that and a foot fetish.
"So, he was basically pouring custard and squishing cake into my toes for about an hour. And that was a bit odd - but, again, easy to do."
However, like so many of us, India Rose's livelihood was left with a question mark over it when the UK was placed in lockdown back in March.
Unable to meet up with clients, India Rose told me she was able to concentrate more on webcamming and her content sites.
With more people at home, I assumed that her webcam work would have increased, to which she responded:
"Yes and no" - there was fewer men online during the day, because their wives and families were home. So most of the late night and early in the morning were busier. But throughout the day, not so much.
"Lunchtimes were busy, when people were on their lunch breaks - working from home."
Yes, people are logging on to cam sites in their lunch breaks - who'd have thought it??
But as the UK's lockdown measures began to ease, it still took India Rose a while before she started meeting clients in the flesh.
"Personally, I didn't do any [meets] - just for personal preference, I didn't want to risk it," she explained, telling me that she had only her first client since lockdown at the end of July.
"I'm not sure I want to be meeting random people all the time - and even in hotels - it's all a lot harder. You never know what they've been doing or what they've been up to," she told me.
However, with many of her regulars out of the country, she admits that she still cannot "fully get back into it", even if she wants to.
And with so many people being out of work and cashstrapped, I asked India Rose if she'd seen more people turning to sex work, to which she replied:
"There has been a massive influx of girls working - it has jumped up dramatically. A crazy number of girls have signed up.
"I don't know if that's because they're out of work so they're more desperate for money, or they're at home and have more time on their hands, or if it is because it is more spoken about in the media and word of mouth. People are a lot more open about it."
When I asked her feelings on more women working in the business, she told me: "It is a bit more competition - but at the same time, it creates more conversation about it and makes it more open in society."
India Rose is currently a brand ambassador for the escort site Ennvy.com - a new website that she describes as "easy" and "user-friendly".
"It's made by workers for sex workers," she explained, adding that the company also works to support charities that are striving to change society's attitudes toward the industry.
Discussing what needs to be done to help remove the stigma around sex workers, India Rose told me: It is 100% about education - just sex in general.
"There's such a shame around it and embarrassment - but when you think about it, it's one of the oldest industries in the book, but it's always had a stigma around it.
"I think you need better education, starting in schools. But also for adults to be more open about it - not discuss fetishes more, because that'll put us out of a job [laughs] - but to be more knowledgable on it. There's so many girls and women who still don't talk or discuss it.
"[Sex] education is not just about: 'You get your period, guys have wet dreams, you have sex, and here's how to put a condom on. Don't get a disease.'
"You need to talk about different relationships. You need to talk about LGBT sex. You need to talk about a much broader range of what is out there - because everybody is going to experience it."
However, despite the stigma surrounding the industry spanning generations, India Rose is confident that the conversation around sex work is growing, thanks to celebrities like Cardi B and Bella Thorne joining platforms like OnlyFans.
"I think with sites like OnlyFans - where it is so much more accessible and you've got influencers and celebrities doing it - it's all a form of sex work," India Rose explained, "so it does open up the conversation more and it is slowly being drip-fed into society."
India Rose also highlighted that there is also a generational gap when it comes to attitudes toward sex workers. She said:
"There's a lot of older women who will look down on girls for going out wearing a short skirt or low cut top - and then we get into blame culture.
"But in 20 years' time, I think it will be completely different yet again. With the internet and with everything being so accessible - [the industry] does just continue to grow."
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