As with most things in life,
requires a certain level of teamwork in order for you to both enjoy it. While we have plenty of resources telling us the new positions and experiences we should all try, some things still get swept under the carpet. If you asked literally anyone who is having regular sex if they have a
that is still unfulfilled, the likelihood is that they would say yes.
The truth is, we all have things that we would like to explore in sex but are too afraid to ask for, due to feeling like we will make our partner feel like they are not giving us what we require and are inadequate in the sack. Luckily, the men of the internet have been speaking out about what they would like more of in the bedroom and we've compiled it into the handy list below.
Nobody wants to do all the work when it comes to getting jiggy with it. Men like it when a woman takes control in the bed and gets on top. Of course, don't do all the work yourself; boss him around and tell him what you want - you're meant to get something out of this as well.
While no one wants someone who screams the house down, let your partner know what they're doing is working for you. Sex is all about communication and if something isn't working, you need to let your partner know. Likewise, if something feels great, tell them - it will boost their ego and they will continue to get you off.
A large part of sex is about getting intimate with your partner and that involves exploring their body. Be sure to use your hands to maximum effect - scratch their back, pull their hair and grab them - let them know that you want them.
4. Don't forget about yourself
Yes, sex is about you as well as your partner. Be sure to make sure that you are getting your fill or enjoyment throughout the sesh. If your partner has any respect for you, they will get a thrill out of you having a good time because of their anatomy. Enjoy yourself!
Everyone wants oral. This may seem obvious, but it's surprisingly overlooked by a lot of couples in the sack. Plenty of women don't get off through penetrative sex, with oral being the most likely route to the big O. But, like all things, you need to give in order to receive so make sure you're dishing out a fair amount of the good stuff as well.
6. Step outside your comfort zone
If you're in a long-term relationship, it is easy for sex to become stale. Oral, missionary, then doggy is undoubtedly a recipe for success but like everything, it can become boring. Try something sex somewhere you shouldn't be, or use toys - the possibilities are endless.
While sex is meant to be enjoyable for everyone involved, there are still plenty of people who aren't fully content with their sex lives. These six things that men are too afraid to ask for more of should hopefully go some way to spicing up your sex life.
