Elon Musk's 'baby mama' reveals three words he allegedly said to her after the first time they slept together

Elon Musk's "baby mama" has shared the three words he allegedly said to her after their first time sleeping together.

Ashley St. Clair has opened up about her relationship with the tech billionaire in a string of candid TikTok videos.

The former MAGA influencer, who shares a one-year-old son, Romulus, with Musk, spoke about being pulled into what she called the "Elon orbit" when she was just 23 years old.

St. Clair, now 27, said she met the 54-year-old while working as a conservative influencer and admitted she was drawn to the idea of building a larger family with someone who openly encouraged having children.

"At that point in my life, because I'm involved in MAGA and the right wing and I'm already a single mom, the chances of me getting married and the white picket fence and the white dress, I believed that was out the window for me because I was already ‘stained' as a single mom," she said in a clip uploaded on May 15.

"But, I wanted nothing more than to be a mom. I wanted more kids," she added.

St. Clair says Musk told her to 'pick a name'

In one of the videos, St. Clair described the surreal experience of flying with the world's richest man and recalled Musk serving her wine onboard his jet.

"I don't know how to explain how surreal it is in that moment, you're like 23, I'm a single mom, and all of a sudden I'm on the jet of the richest guy in the world, and he's pouring me red wine and telling me how nice the wine is."

She joked that she couldn't really tell the difference between the expensive wine and "a box of Franzia," but assumed it had to be high-end because it was being served on his plane.

St. Clair then revealed the comment she says the Tesla founder made after they became intimate for the first time.

"I slept with him on this plane, joined the mile high club, and the first time engaged in coitus, do you know what he says to me? He literally says, 'pick a name'. This man did not know me from Adam, ok?"

The alleged remark sparked strong reactions online, with one commenter calling it "diabolical" while another wrote that it "made my skin crawl".

Musk allegedly encouraged her to have more children

St. Clair said one of the biggest appeals of being with the father of thirteen was his openness about wanting a big family.

She explained that financial security naturally plays a role in family planning for most people and admitted his wealth made the idea of having more children less intimidating.

"So, when Elon was like, ‘You should have kids, my only limited resource is time,' of course, it is appealing to do what I always wanted to be a mom and not have to worry about the (expletive) going on in this economy," she said. "I don't think that's a crazy position to take, I don't think that's crazy reasoning."

The former conservative activist pushed back against accusations that she pursued the billionaire for luxury or status.

"No, it's more like, my kids are always going to be taken care of," she said, adding that if marrying for money had been her goal, she "would have done so a long time ago."

Relationship allegedly changed after pregnancy

According to St. Clair, things changed dramatically once she became pregnant.

"No one's going to believe me, but I swear he was so much more normal before I got pregnant," she said. "His demeanor was normal. I know I'm going to get roasted for this, but in private, he was funny."

St. Clair publicly revealed in February 2025 that Musk was the father of her child, months after giving birth.

"Five months ago, I welcomed a new baby into the world. Elon Musk is the father," she wrote on X at the time. "I have not previously disclosed this to protect our child's privacy and safety, but in recent days it has become clear that tabloid media intends to do so, regardless of the harm it will cause."

Musk later addressed the claims publicly in March 2025 after responding to allegations from St. Clair that he had reduced child support payments by 60%.

"I don’t know if the child is mine or not, but I am not against finding out. No court order is needed. Despite not knowing for sure, I have given Ashley $2.5M and am sending her $500k/year," he wrote in a March 31, 2025, post on X.

St. Clair later claimed the alleged father of her baby refused a paternity test and cut back most child support payments as punishment for "disobedience".

Custody battle and legal drama continue

In January, Musk announced he was seeking custody of Romulus following a social media post from St. Clair supporting the transgender community.

In a since-deleted X post, he reportedly penned that he "will be filing for full custody, given her statements implying she might transition a one-year-old boy," per USA Today.

St. Clair claimed the legal pressure surrounding the situation has become overwhelming.

"I'm in three different courts," she said. "I'm just so sick of this and being painted as like I'm the one who's like combative and chaotic when I'm in three different courts and I have people following me all the time."

She also claimed that everything she does "is like watched by eight attorneys, four different law firms".

St. Clair said she finally decided to speak publicly because she wants to move on and does not want to be known as just "Elon Musk's baby mama".

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