In a world where porn is never more than a finger tip away, sexual experimentation has become increasingly exotic. While your favorite sex position is (thankfully) yet to feature in a standard “Get to know” section on your company biography page, the most-requested sexual position men ask an escort for has been revealed.

Despite there being an online archive, a copulative catalog, if you will, of raunchy coital positions, vanilla prevails, according to Australian escort Lilith Lodge.

The plainness of vanilla is preferred

The seasoned, Brisbane-based sex worker confirmed that the position many consider sexual bread and butter remains the firm favorite, with missionary still the most requested position from her horny clients.

"Most clients are very basic and standard in what they want," Lodge said to Metro. "It's not super common, definitely not a weekly event, to have clients ask for something outside of what I feel is 'normal'. It's pretty much just missionary."

She added: "It can be very uncomfortable and not enjoyable for my clients to do crazy positions, unless they're a really young guy. Sometimes they'll ask for missionary with my feet up behind my head, (which not everyone is flexible enough to do), but that's about it."

This lovemaking crowd-pleaser, where the woman lies flat on her back with her legs spread eagle, allows the two participants to stare lovingly at each other, arguably in the most intensely intimate of positions.

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What makes missionary such a sexual staple?

According to Bodyjoys, a website that specialises in relationship and intimacy advice, the position is a go-to for first-time couples in particular, who are still ascertaining mutual enjoyment. Its simplicity allows partners to focus on forming connection, rather than deploying flexibility-testing movements that can be both challenging and exposing.

The site explains: "Missionary position is the go-to for many first-time couples as it allows them to create a greater connection. Eye contact enhances the emotional connection and makes for a much more sensual experience.

"The close proximity of both partners also makes missionary position a winner when it comes to communication. You can adequately communicate what you like and dislike through noises, faces and movements while still enjoying a sensual experience."

However, Dr. Louise Goddard-Crawley told Metro that the position isn't for everyone. She claimed that while it offers emotional advantages, it may not suit some people physically.

"It also may feel more restrictive compared to other positions that allow for greater movement and range of motion," the psychologist declared. "For some, the missionary position may place pressure on joints, especially the lower back and knees, potentially causing discomfort or pain for extended periods."

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“What was it like?” is one of the go-to questions asked during a sexual debrief amongst nosy friends. The answer to such an intrusive inquiry frequently serves as a revealing precursor to whether the person being quizzed will see their recent lover again, but there is one big mistake men often make, claims OnlyFans star and escort Jade Blair.

In the instance of heterosexual or lesbian couples, there is one key factor that is especially vital to not just a woman’s sexual enjoyment, but their sexual health.

In a candid video shared on TikTok, sex worker and OnlyFans star Blair addresses the matter of vaginal hygiene, delving into the dos and don’ts when encountering a woman’s intimate region.

What does the OnlyFans star discuss?

The Australian adult star posts regular advice, tips, and sex stories to her 285,000 TikTok followers in a bid to normalise taboo sexual topics and dispel common misconceptions around sex.

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“It’s scary how many men don’t know the basics about getting down with a lady,” Blair said. She added that things we associate with cleanliness can actually cause harm: “If you’re in the shower, do not be getting soap anywhere near her vaginal canal.

"It should not be going up in there. It actually shouldn’t be going anywhere near her vulva unless her doctor has specifically recommended it.

“Likewise, don’t really eat or drink anything other than water, or even use mouthwash seconds before going down on her, you’re just going to throw off her PH and give her either a yeast or a BV infection, or heaven forbid you leave a crumb inside of there,” she added.

Blair provides a surprising view on oral sex for women

While announcing that leaving leftovers in the vaginal introitus is ill-advised, the OnlyFans model also delivered perhaps a more surprising revelation about the receipt of oral sex for women: “Just don’t stick your tongue in there. It actually doesn’t feel that good for most women, and it is just going to push a whole lot of bacteria into a vagina that just doesn’t need it.”

She continued, “Also what is going to feel good to her, is likely going to depend on her body that day. The cervix will actually push up into the body or push down, shortening the canal, depending on the time of month.

"So, some positions may feel really good one day, and then terrible the next. She’s not lying about it. Her sensitivity can change as well, so you may need to use more or less pressure.”

In addition, Blair also discussed the menstrual cycle, and its unpredictability, and warned men not to be surprised if their partner’s period starts unexpectedly: “Also her period could start at any time. They are not always super regular, and I have actually had one start while a client was, you know.”

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Sex workers often find themselves in unique positions of trust, acting as accidental confidants for their clients.

For Jade Blair, a sex worker and adult content creator on OnlyFans, this dynamic has led to some deeply unsettling conversations. Through her social media presence, Blair frequently shares insights into her profession, but a recent video highlighted a much darker side of the intimacy people buy.

Blair took to TikTok to open up about the most disturbing admissions she has received during her work. She noted that the combination of a financial transaction and physical vulnerability creates an environment where men feel unusually comfortable sharing their darkest secrets.

The nature of her job means clients expect a judgment-free zone, which sometimes opens the floodgates for unexpected honesty.

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In her video, Blair analyzed why these men choose to share such heavy secrets with her. She explained that men tend to feel "safe" when they're "paying for an experience" as they know she will not be rude to them.

She also noted that when they've been intimate, clients often feel like they can open up in other ways, including mentally and emotionally.

In any case, this unique psychological comfort level has led to disturbing admissions, as Blair revealed, "I've had a lot of men confess murder."

Confessions from men in the military

The majority of these chilling admissions came from individuals with ties to the armed forces. Blair recounted that these clients "typically were army or ex-army people who were overseas in a developing country that was quite corrupt."

Due to the corrupt nature of these countries, there were essentially "no repercussions" for their actions.

These men detailed instances where taking a life was entirely outside the scope of their official responsibilities, often describing situations that fell into "a very gray area" where they should not have acted. Blair explained that superiors often chose to ignore the behavior.

Clients told her stories about how "their sergeant or their captain found out" and "turned a blind eye" to avoid dealing with the "paperwork."

Blair said that some ex-military clients transitioned into private security roles for wealthy families abroad, where they would kill people who were attempting to steal without facing any local legal ramifications.

When healthcare workers cross the line

Military personnel were not the only clients sharing dark secrets in these private spaces. Blair also recalled encounters with individuals working in the healthcare sector.

She heard accounts from people who were doctors or nurses who admitted to taking matters into their own hands regarding end-of-life care.

These medical professionals would deliberately give their patients an excessive amount of pain medication to end their suffering or at least hasten their death.

While Blair acknowledged that in the medical cases, "their heart was in the right place," the ethical ramifications remain deeply disturbing.

Ultimately, Blair clarified that she does not have enough specific details, such as names or exact locations, "where this information would be at all helpful to the police."

Because these killings took place decades ago in corrupt regions, legal action is highly unlikely, leaving Blair with the alarming realization that murderers are walking among us.

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A 73-year-old escort has revealed the odd response she has received from several men when they ask her to perform a breastfeeding kink for them.

Caroline Vee has made a lucrative career from sex work after previously having been celibate for 40 years, and it's safe to say she's seen it all when it comes to clients and their unusual requests.

Sharing her advice on Four Nine's OnlyGrans Hotline, Caroline revealed that some clients come to see her with a breastfeeding or adult baby kink, and are actually stunned that she can not produce milk.

She explained: "I have been asked by guys and one has to question their mentality, because I’m 73 so I’m certainly not producing milk any more, obviously.

"But also, I’ve got inverted nipples, so it’s a physical impossibility! So I always explain that to them. I don’t have nipples that you could suck anyway."

Caroline Vee revealed the misconception men often have about the breastfeeding fetish. Credit: Four Nine/Tea At Four

Caroline revealed that having inverted nipples doesn't put men off, as most have told her: "No problem, can I just suck on your breasts?"

She also has catered for adult babies in the past, explaining: "I have been asked to do adult baby [roleplay] and I have done that once, which was interesting because he didn’t do anything like [breastfeeding].

"It was more about dressing him up as a baby - so putting him in nappies and wearing a little hat, and a dummy. This particular guy also brought a blow-up doll."

Sharing her advice for the caller, whose boyfriend wanted to explore the fetish, she suggested: "If you’ve never thought about it, which I think the majority of women probably haven’t, it would come as a shock. My first question to him would be ‘why?’

"From what I have read, the experts say a lot of it does go back to how their relationship was with their mother when they were young.

"So I would suggest if they need some help of some kind, some counseling or whatever, to investigate where that started and then you might be ok to oblige."

Caroline shared her sex advice for callers. Credit: Four Nine/Tea At Four

As for her own experiences with clients that want to explore a breastfeeding kink, Caroline revealed that a concerning number do not realize that she can't actually produce milk on cue at 73 years old.

She joked: "I worry what goes on in men’s minds!”

While lactation typically occurs in pregnancy and beyond while feeding a baby, it is a hormonal response and is possible - though rare - outside of pregnancy, per the Cleveland Clinic.

Catch the rest of Caroline V's advice to callers on Tea At Four's OnlyGrans Hotline on YouTube now.

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An Australian escort who says she has slept with thousands of clients has opened up about whether size really matters in the bedroom.

Jade Blair, who posts on X under the handle JadeBlairxox, has built a following of 69.5K followers where she regularly talks about her experiences working in the adult industry.

According to Daily Mail, the Queensland native began her career after deciding that university wasn’t the right path for her. She spent three years working with an established company to learn the industry, and then later went independent.

Over the years, she says she has been with several clients, giving her a unique perspective on intimacy and what actually makes encounters enjoyable.

Escort Shares Candid Opinion On Size

In a recent video shared on her X profile, Blair addressed a question she says comes up constantly: whether size really matters.

"I sleep with men for money. I've been with thousands of men, and I definitely have a favorite size and shape. I'm going to be honest, so please don't cancel me," she said.

She explained that she isn’t particularly fond of the "super bent one," explaining: "It's totally normal and actually kind of weird when you see a completely straight one. I'm not talking about like a little to the side or a little bit like this. That's normal. I'm talking like this."

Blair also said extremely large sizes can actually make intimacy uncomfortable.

"Look, I am small. I am four foot eleven. There's just not that much room down there," she said. "And even for like an average-sized lady, they usually only have three to five inches, maybe a tiny bit more if they're like super excited in the bedroom before you're just gonna hit a wall."

"And yes, I know some women really love having that wall pushed and stretched, but I'm just not one of them. If you have a super, long one, you're just going to have to accept we're not gonna get it all the way without causing me immense pain. And I do not want to be punched in the cervix."

"So sorry, I just, I don't like it. Don't understand the love of the super, big ones. I have taken them that are longer than my forearm and thicker than my wrist," she added. "These guys were professionals, though; they knew what they were doing. They knew how to get me really excited before we went at it."

"So it wasn't too bad, but I can't say they're my favorite."

Why She Says Smaller Can Actually Be Better

Blair said that from her experience, smaller sizes can often lead to better results because it allows for more precise movement.

"But honestly, I'm a sucker for just using your hands or mouth," she concluded.

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