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A girl whose mom died when she was eight years old opened up to her dad about their daughter-father relationship, and his reaction hasn't gone down well online.
Losing a parent is one of the toughest things that anyone will ever go through, and it also means that somebody has lost their soul mate.
In these times of hardship, the remaining parent and their child should come together and support each other - or so you'd hope.
One woman has taken to Reddit where she has opened up about losing her mother at eight years old, and the impact this had on her relationship with her dad.
Taking to the Am I The A**hole forum, she wrote: "I was 8 when I lost my mom and we were as close as ever but I needed him more. Then when I was 11 he remarried and he became a stepdad to a girl who was 10 at the time. Now, this is where full honesty comes in. I was jealous as hell that my dad was trying to bond with her and that he called her his daughter and us 'his girls' right away."
The Redditor was very candid about her jealousy, noting that she "felt sick" whenever her dad spent time with his stepdaughter, but she noticed that he would eventually start spending more time with his new family than with her.
She recounted an incident where she overheard him speaking: "I was 13 my dad said how much he preferred hanging out with her over me because they had similar interests. He said he couldn't spend enough time with his stepdaughter and he was hoping I would hit the teen phase of not wanting my parents around me that much."
She continued: "Then he admitted he also resented me for not wanting his wife the way her daughter wanted him. He wanted us to be the perfect little family and we looked like a stepfamily where the step is always used because I didn't really want his wife for stuff."
She gave her dad his space and he didn't seem to mind, but when his stepdaughter turned 16 and wanted her own space, he appeared to be crushed by it.
Years later her dad approached her about why she didn't call him to help her move into her new place, and she revealed everything from her jealousy to what he had overheard him saying.
She notes that he seemed "offended" by what she had said and that he said she was "disgusting" for wanting him to not spend time with his stepdaughter.
She concluded: "He also told me he should be allowed to have interests in common with someone other than me. I told him he was. But I was also a kid who lost my mom and clung to my sole living parent.
"He then accused me of manipulating him by saying all that and I told him that he shouldn't have asked a question if he wasn't prepared for an honest answer. He told me I could f*** right off with that attitude and told me to grow up."
People in the comments were not happy with the dad, as one person wrote: "Unfortunately your dad will never understand your side of things. It’s best to walk away to avoid your heart being broken over and over."
A second said: "He clearly didn’t provide you with enough love and reassurance and just expected you to accept them. I could see his position partially up until the point where you share your recent call with him and he just denied it and accuse you of manipulation. He clearly failed to provide enough stability, reassurance and emotional empathy to you."
A third concluded: "Now that you are no longer close, he wants to whine to you about how hurt his feelings are, but he still wants to take zero accountability for his failures as a father. He needs to grow up himself."
What are your thoughts?
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A man has reunited with his biological dad after reaching out with a text message.
Cameron shared the heartwarming reunion on Twitter, where he is known to his 21,000 followers as @CamDiggz.
After finding out about his biological dad when he was 18, Cameron didn't feel immediately ready to reach out. It was only recently - after eight years of knowing - that he took the plunge and sent his dad a text. He shared a screenshot of that first text message on Twitter, which you can see below:
"I don't really know how to do this. I'm just wondering and hoping you and I could have a conversation," he added.
The response from his Dad said simply: "About what?"
Cameron replied: "The possibility of you being my biological father."
His dad then asked: "Wow! How old are you?" From there, their conversation - and their relationship - clearly flourished, as alongside the screenshot Cameron shared a photo of the two arm in arm.
"How it started vs. How it's going," he captioned the tweet, which has since gone viral, racking up over 421,000 likes.
Responding to his own tweet, Cameron said he hoped his story could inspire people in a similar situation.
"I now have two fathers. My father that raised me is still in my life," he wrote.
He also reassured people not to feel rushed into reaching out if they weren't ready, saying: "I found out about my biological dad when I was 18. I didn't actually do a DNA test until I was 26."
"Take your time and move at your own pace. Do what you need to do when YOU'RE ready not when you feel like everyone thinks you should be. It can be scary af. You're human [though] so embrace it," he added.
Many people responded to Cameron's post with their own touching stories of being reunited with lost parents.
"Same thing happened to me. His only child and now his very own mini me," wrote one woman alongside a photo of her and her dad.
"I had a similar experience and connected with my dad on Facebook in 2013. Now we’re like 2 peas in a pod," shared another with a selfie of her and her old man.
"This post did a LOT. Y’all’s stories are inspiring and beautiful. Thanks to each and every one of you for sharing," Cameron replied.
"Also for the ones whose stories didn’t end as you expected, your story isn’t over. Keep your head up and always remember how far you’ve come," he added.
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We all wish there was a way to communicate with loved ones who have passed away. But one family is convinced that they've managed to receive a message from their mom after she died.
Not only that - but they also believe that they captured the moment in a TikTok.
Daughter Kim Vincent (who uses the handle @girlygirl607) took to the social media platform to share the haunting but heartfelt message with her followers - but not everyone is convinced.
In the clip, Kim and her family can be seen honoring her mom's final wish - to be taken back to the pond where she grew up.
Check out the emotional moment below:"My [mom's] wish was to spread some of her ashes in the pond where she grew up," the TikToker explained in a follow-up video.
But as they lay their beloved mom to rest by scattering her ashes in the water, Kim and her family noticed that mysterious shapes were emerging on the surface of the pond. As the ashes were grouped together, they seemed to spell out a four-letter word.
"Look," cried someone behind the camera. "She’s saying something! 'Love'! 'L-O-V-E'!"
Kim and her family were ecstatic when they saw what they believed was their mom's final message. "She told us she LOVE us! Wow," Kim captioned the video.
Meanwhile, they weren't the only ones who saw the word floating in the water. Thousands took to the comments section saying that they saw the word too and express their condolences for Kim's family.
"At first I saw 'I [heart] U,' but afterward, 'love' appeared. That’s awesome," wrote one user, while another commented that they saw "LOVE as clear as day," and a third agreed Kim's mom was "still letting you know that she loves you."
"This gave me chills. Beautiful," a fourth user added.
However, some people weren't convinced that the ashes had arranged themselves into the word 'love'. They argued that the only reason the letters had appeared at all was the way they were thrown into the pond.
"It don’t say nothing," one user commented, while another wrote: "It's legit just the way they threw it in," and a third agreed: "She didn't say love it's just his pouring skills."
Regardless of what people may think, nobody can deny that this was an incredible moment for the family to capture on camera.