A 73-year-old escort has opened up about one of the main reasons why married men seek out her services - and what their wives should be doing instead.

Caroline Vee, a former Christian who had been celibate for 40 years from the age of 17 after turning to religion, first entered the world of sex work when she was 57 and has fast made a name for herself with those that prefer a more mature lady.

She has since made a lucrative career in sex work, and is now sharing her best X-rated advice for callers on Tea at Four's OnlyGrans hotline.

One caller asked her: "My boyfriend is considering breaking up with me after learning about my past sexual kinks. Just because I had a few wild years exploring my BDSM kink, he thinks we’re no longer compatible. What should I do?"

Caroline joked: "Just going to put you on hold and I’ll come back shortly - after I’ve killed him."

She then added: "I mean the fact that she’s admitted to it is good, because she’s being honest. If he doesn’t like it, then ditch!

"I mean, have a conversation by all means, but maybe try to find out why he doesn’t like it. Has he got a problem with it or are you hoping that he will participate and join in with it? Or is it something that you’ve done, experimented with it and you’re done with that now and want to move on. There’s all kinds of reasons why somebody would feel insecure about it.”

If he agrees to give some light BDSM a try, Caroline advised: "Find out what he likes and maybe try one of those, because he’s the one that’s insecure.

"And communicate and ask if they enjoyed it. If they say no then maybe you’re not compatible and shouldn’t be together."

Caroline also revealed that unfulfilled fantasies and kinks are one of the main reasons her married clientele seek out her services, as they are unable to explore their proclivities with their partners.

She confirmed: "Very common. And unfortunately, it’s the other way around - it’s the men that want to explore, but the women don’t want to. The women are stuck with missionary - they don’t want to do any other positions.

“I’ll never forget when I mentioned to my sister about a 69, and she’d never heard of it. And I’m thinking ‘but you’ve been married for 40 years, have you only done missionary?! Isn’t it boring to keep doing the same position night after night, week after week?'"

Caroline also advised that communication with your lover is key, to find out what works for each individual - and that likely won't be the same with every partner.

She explained: "You've got to find what works for you. Guys say to me, 'what's your favorite position?' And I don't really have one because it depends on the shape of the man and his penis. Because different positions work differently on those two factors."

If you have a burning sex question you'd like Caroline's advice on, you can reach out via the Tea at Four Instagram or email us on [email protected].

Catch the full episode of OnlyGrans hotline with Caroline Vee on YouTube now.

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Caroline V, a 73-year-old escort, has answered all the questions everyone has been desperate to know about her unconventional career.

The senior sex worker joined Tea at Four hosts Billy and Lauren for an unfiltered look behind the curtain of her unconventional career - including the weirdest requests she's ever been asked to do.

Caroline, a former Christian who had been celibate for 40 years from the age of 17 after turning to religion, first entered the world of sex work when she was 57.

She began with swingers parties before some of her partners suggested she take it on as a career, and with mounting pressure from her mortgage company threatening to repossess her home, she decided to give it a try.

What began as a hobby soon turned into a lucrative career, and after a brief stint in adult videos and OnlyFans, she discovered she preferred the thrill of escorting instead.

And while most of her clients - which range in age from 20 years old to 90 - are pleasant and respectful, there have been a few who stick out for all the wrong reasons.

When asked what the weirdest requests were, Caroline told Tea at Four: "[One was] wearing a guy's mother's nightie and him wearing one as well - and to make it even worse, wearing his dead mother's nightie!

"And he was a perfectly respectable businessman, travels the world, the least likely person you would think would ask for that, but he did. And they were those old, static, polyester material that just clung to your skin. Vile."

However, the other anecdote she shared made that one look pretty tame...

Caroline revealed: "The other one is feeding a guy a poo sandwich. I have been asked to do hard sports quite a few times, and I always have to say 'I can't do it on cue.' I mean, who can?

"Because he was traveling up from the Isle of Wight and it's quite a distance, I said 'I'd have normally done my poo that morning' and he said 'could you prepare it for me?'"

So, not wanting to disappoint a paying client, Caroline had to get a bit creative.

"But on that particular day, the day before, it was a bit loose. Not seriously [loose], but a little bit soft. So I made it into sausages. Two sausages," she admitted.

"I had to get it ready, so I got it - obviously with gloves on - so I scooped it up and rolled it into two sausages.

"Then, because it wasn't solid, I wrapped it in cling film, then wrapped it in foil, and then put it in the freezer overnight."

When her client turned up the next day, she realized he was "not a nice guy" - and he did not actually end up eating the s**t sandwich she'd made him (though he did lick the "residue" off a sex toy instead) - and later shared the bizarre reasoning for leaving it.

"So the next day he messaged me, and he said 'the reason I wouldn't eat them was because I didn't think they were yours,'" she explained, joking: "Like you would ask your friend to pop round and do a poo for you!"

When asked whether she gets any pleasure out of these weirder requests, Caroline revealed it's "only the pleasure of humiliating them" rather than a kink for her.

While Caroline was making around £3,000 ($4,000) a month when she first started - which included video work as well - since she managed to get into a good financial position, she has cut down on some of her work.

Caroline also revealed that escorting has helped her to feel sexy after decades where she didn't feel confident with this side of herself, and is unapologetic with her life choice, despite it causing some tensions within her family.

Catch the full episode with Caroline V on the Tea at Four podcast on Spotify and YouTube now.

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Caroline Vee, a 73-year-old escort who previously spent 40 years celibate, has opened up about her bodycount.

The swinging septuagenarian is Four Nine's resident Only Grans agony aunt, and shared her thoughts on how many sexual partners is acceptable during a recent call-in.

After a 25-year-old caller asked her what the acceptable number of partners is for someone in their mid-twenties, Caroline revealed her own experiences.

The escort, who was celibate for four decades from her late teens after turning to religion, rediscovered her sexual side later in life after getting involved in the swinging scene.

This then ended up pivoting to a lucrative career in sex work, beginning with on-camera work before taking up escorting at the age of 64.

Addressing the caller, Caroline joked: "When I was young - many years ago - if you even went out with two, you’d be regarded as a w**re."

She called out the double standards of men being praised for having as mant notches on their bedpost as possible, while women are still often vilified for having a high number of sexual partners.

Caroline revealed: "It’s always been the same, which is totally unfair, in my opinion. I probably did have maybe as much as 10 different boyfriends from 16 to 17. That’s quite a few really, isn’t it?"

As for what her current bodycount is, Caroline confessed: "I haven’t got a clue [what my bodycount is].

"I worked it out from when I was a swinger after someone made a comment that ‘she seems to have slept with every man’, and I thought ‘I only had 164, and that was in five years!’ You spread that out over the five years, and it’s actually not a lot."

As for the "acceptable" amount, Caroline added: "There shouldn’t be [a limit], but again, what does it come down to - discussing. As soon as you get into any kind of relationship, just be open."

She advised that if your partner is upset by how many - or how few - people you've slept with, or vice versa, then it's probably best to call it a day on the relationship altogether.

Elsewhere during the episode, Caroline was asked if she ever falls for any of her clients who come to see her for sex.

She revealed: "The vast majority, I’m not attracted to. And the ones that I meet regularly that are single, they’re the ones I fancy, but not to want a relationship with them. I just look forward to their visits."

You know what they say - if you enjoy what you do, you never work a day in your life.

Check out the full Only Grans episode on YouTube now.

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A senior sex worker has revealed the heartbreaking reason she was celibate for 40 years before discovering her love for swinging and escorting.

Caroline V, 73, has made a name for herself as the 'OAP Bonnie Blue' after finding she was very much in demand as an escort in her twilight years.

However, despite her saucy seventies, she was not always indulging in a fruitful sex life - in fact, she was celibate for 40 years from the age of 17 until she was 57.

Speaking on the Tea at Four podcast, Caroline revealed the devastating reason why she went without sex for four decades after also turning to religion.

Addressing her previous celibacy, Caroline admitted: "How it originally started was, I'd had sex before when I was really young, when I was 16, 17, but I didn't enjoy it, because the guys were not good [people], and I was gang raped on one occasion by six guys, so if you want major traumas, that's certainly the biggest one I've ever had.

"So I didn't miss it. So when I became a Christian and we couldn't have sex, it was like well I didn't enjoy it anyway, so it's not going to be any loss."

She added: "So that was how I managed to go through the 40 years, partly obviously because not only was it not allowed in the church but also because I didn't have any interest in it, I didn't feel sexy.

"I didn't start acknowledging that guys found me sexy until I joined the first dating site."

Her sexual discovery coincided with a decision to leave the church, though the two were not connected.

She explained: "I became a born again Christian [at 17] and in the church I was attending, it was no sex outside of marriage.

"I left the church because I was completely disillusioned, because having been there for 40 years - and I'd had mental health issues throughout my life, and suicidal a few times - and the only way they thought they could help was offering to pray for me."

Caroline joked: "I must have had thousands and thousands of prayers over the years and not one of them was ever answered. So my conclusion was, if there is a God, I can kind of understand why he's not answering mine, but he doesn't seem to be answering anyone else's either.

"So actually, is there a God? And if there is, he doesn't give a stuff about me."

A flirtation with a 27-year-old rugby player she met through work when she was 57 led her to realize she was desired by younger men, and she joined a dating site where she found she was being messaged by men as young as 18 that were interested in her.

She drew the line at meeting with men "young enough to be her grandson", but soon went on a date with a man closer to her age, with whom she experienced oral sex for the first time.

An encounter with another man she'd met on the dating site sparked a conversation in which he suggested she visit a swingers club he'd been attending, which introduced her to that way of life.

"I had started the swinging while I was still going to church, which obviously nobody knew about - I can't imagine the frowns I would have got!", she shared.

One of her lovers had suggested that she look into escorting as a way to combine her newfound interest with earning some money.

Caroline decided to look into it, and ended up charging for sex alongside working two other jobs as a florist and in a supermarket "just to pay my mortgage."

She revealed: "That was the main reason why I started escorting, because I wasn't earning enough to pay the mortgage."

Thankfully, it soon turned to a lucrative career for her and allowed her to get on top of her financial situation, and she shared that she was making up to £3,000 ($4,000) a month at the peak.

In the wide-reaching conversation, Caroline also revealed the weirdest requests that clients have asked of her, and it's safe to say it's not something you want to watch while enjoying your lunch...

Catch the full episode with Caroline V on the Tea at Four podcast on Spotify and YouTube now.

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In this weird 21st century world we live in, relationships have taken a decidedly odd turn. We've already heard stories about people shacking up with sex robots, couples inviting an extra person to the party (making a "throuple"), and gamers snubbing real human partners in favor of video game avatars. By comparison, then, 36-year-old Jennifer Mulford's decision to quit her job in order to breastfeed her boyfriend seems almost normal. Jennifer, a bartender from Atlanta, took time out of her employment for Brad Leeson, who is also 36, so that the pair could have a stronger "bond" through breastfeeding. The couple are far from alone in their desire to engage in breastfeeding as part of a romantic relationship, though. An adult breastfeeding relationship (ABR) is just one of many fetishes that have become more easily accessible through the internet, with websites such as Craigslist (or even dating apps like Tinder or Grindr) acting as a facility for like-minded individuals to find one another. “When I read about the bond breastfeeding could create between two people, I was envious," said Jennifer. “I have always enjoyed my breasts being touched during sex more than anything else, so I knew I would enjoy it.” The only problem was, Jennifer wasn't in a relationship at the time, so she had nobody to share the experience with. “When I read about the pure joy it brought others, I was desperate to seek out a partner to share an emotional bond with," she explained. “I used dating sites, put messages on ABR forums and even put an advert on Craigslist, but I drew a blank. I started to think I’d never get to try adult breastfeeding.” Fortunately for her, she found Brad. The pair had actually been in a relationship years ago when they were at school together, but had since developed a platonic relationship. However, when Jennifer brought up the subject of ABR, Brad sounded keen to try it out. “We were talking and Brad told me he had a thing for big-breasted women, and that size had always been a factor in his relationships," she said. “I thought it was the perfect time to bring up adult breastfeeding — and see if he’d be interested." And, sure enough, he had the response that Jennifer had been looking for. “It was like a light switch flicked in his head. I could tell from his voice that he was curious and excited.” She continued: “At that moment I knew that I had a partner for life. “We both wanted the same thing out of the relationship — a magical bond that only breastfeeding can achieve.” However, as Jennifer had not given birth recently, her body was not able to naturally produce milk. This is why she had to take some time out of work, as she needed to "dry feed" Brad every two hours. The act convinced her body that she had a child who needed feeding, and therefore encouraged it to produce milk. As far as being treated like a baby goes, though, this is where the similarity ends for Brad. "We don’t play the role play where I dress up in diapers or bibs or pacifiers… none of that," he said. Well, as far as fetishes go, there are almost certainly stranger ones out there. And, if they're happy, who are we to judge?