With the rise in
pornography, sex has got a whole lot dirtier. Going at it while being rough and animalistic is more popular than ever, but sometimes you want the sesh to be sensitive, right? All of those classic novels describe
sex as an intimate act, undertaken by two lovers that is slow and passionate, but the reality is much different.
But if you're are after a bit more emotion in your banging, these little tips will help bring back the passion to your boudoir.
Take it slow
While it can be tempting to go at it like a pair of rabbits, taking it slow can make the interaction much more intimate and bring the pair of you emotionally closer. If you're taking your time and enjoying every moment, you will feel more connected to one another.
Look into the eyes, not around the eyes
While it may seem cringe, looking into your partner's eyes will create a connection between you both and fully immerse you in the experience. Our minds are prone to wandering off during sex and gazing into each other's eyes means that you are both 100 percent in the zone.
Go back to basics
Making out is something that is widely associated with drank teenagers at a party, but a game of tonsil tennis can have big payoffs when it comes to intimacy. Kissing makes the sex less goal-focused, meaning you're not just trying to get off.
Go rogue
During intercourse, we tend to hone in on the obvious parts of the body, like the boobs, bum, and the crotch area. Take some time out for the o-zones and caress and kiss other parts of the body - it will make you feel much closer afterwards.
Breathe
Matching your breathing with your partner's ensures that your focus remains on each other. Place your hands on their chest and let your breathing naturally synchronize with theirs. Also, make sure that you are taking deep breaths, not only does it calm you down, but it leads to more satisfying sex.
Mix it up
Certain positions will naturally feel more intimate than others. Spoon-style sex is the ultimate position for intimacy, not only is it skin-on-skin but you can get wrapped up each other as well.
Sweeten it up
Dirty talk is a natural part of sex, but switching it up to sweet whispers can bring the two of you much closer together. Telling your partner who good they taste or smell is incredibly personal, and who knows, maybe even drop in an "I love you so much" in there.
We all love a bit of dirty sex every now and then, and that's fine. But, sometimes it feels like an impossible mission to drop some intimacy in there. These seven tips should help you on your way to a more emotional and intimate sesh - happy love making!
