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A man has been reunited with his family after thirty years thanks to a viral video, The Guardian reports.
Li Jingwei was just four years old when a neighbor abducted him from his home village in China's Yunnan province and sold him into a child trafficking ring.
Now, after thirty-three years of separation, Li has found his family by drawing a map of the village and sharing it on a popular social media platform.
In a clip shared to Douyin (known outside China as TikTok), Li shows followers the map of his home. Unable to recall the name of the hamlet, his reconstruction includes the layout of key features such as a school, a bamboo forest and a pond.
"I’m a child who’s looking for his home," he says in the video, which he shared on December 24.
In an interview with Chinese media outlet the Paper, Li explained that "I knew the trees, stones, cows and even which roads turn and where the water flows."
Incredibly, Li's plea for help worked. His map was seen by police who matched it to a Yunnan village, where there lived a woman whose son had disappeared.
Through DNA tests, Li was able to confirm that she was his mother.
The pair shared an emotional reunion on Sunday. In video footage, Li can be seen removing his mother's face mask in order to get a better look at her. He then breaks down in tears and hugs her.
"My mother cried as soon as I got on the phone. After the video call, I recognized her at a glance. My mother and I have the same lips, even my teeth," he said.
After being abducted in 1989, Li was sold to a family in Lankao over 1,100 miles away. Child abductions are fairly common in China, where most families seek male children.
He was inspired to look for his biological family by two other cases of abductees finding their birth parents, which were widely shared in Chinese media.
In a statement posted to his Douyin profile just before the reunion, Li wrote: "Thirty-three years of waiting, countless nights of yearning, and finally a map hand-drawn from memory, this is the moment of perfect release after 13 days.
"Thank you everyone who has helped me reunite with my family."
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At some point in life, many of us will go through the horrible experience of losing a parent. A person you love dearly, who raised you, who has been there since day one, is suddenly gone forever. If you're an adult, you have a lifetime of memories to fall back on and buttress the loss. But if you're a child, you're robbed of that bittersweet comfort, and are forced to reckon with death at an age far too young.
Thankfully, the world contains good samaritans who do heartwarming acts of kindness for strangers. In 2014, a family in Bathgate, Scotland, suffered a tragic loss. The father, James Copland, suddenly died at the age of 28. Four years later, the youngest child, Jase, asked the postman to deliver a birthday card to his father in heaven. On the envelope, the seven-year-old boy wrote, "Mr Postman can you take this to heaven for my dad's birthday thanks."
Shortly afterward, Sam Milligan, the assistant delivery office manager for Royal Mail, wrote Jase back. His touching letter informs the boy that there were some galactic obstacles, but the card made it to heaven safely.
"While we've been delivering your post, we became aware of some concerns. So I just wanted to take the opportunity to contact you about how we succeeded in the delivery of your letter to your dad in heaven. This was a difficult challenge avoiding stars and other galactic objects en route to heaven.
"However please be assured that this particular important item of mail has been delivered. Royal Mail's priority is to get out customers' mail delivered safely. I know how how important your mail is to you. I will continue to do all I can to ensure delivery to heaven safely."
The mother, Teri Copland, who has another child, 10-year-old Nieve, thanked the postman for his letter on Facebook. "I actually cannot state how emotional [Jase] is knowing his dad got his card," she wrote. "You didn’t have to make the effort to do this you could have just ignored it but the fact that yous have made the effort for a little boy you’ve never met is such a lovely thing to do Royal Mail you’ve just restored my faith in humanity and thank you it honestly means the world to him please share this so all the staff at Royal Mail know just how grateful we are."
The emotional post went viral, getting more than 325,000 likes. In the comments, people expressed how touched they were by the "angel on Earth's" kind act. "Above and beyond the call of duty," wrote one person, while another added, "I am in tears reading this." But perhaps this comment says it all: "God bless this man and may God continue to surround this child with people as this man."
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When someone passes away, it can be hard to accept that they're gone. For adults, it's difficult to deal with the grief in all its forms. However, it can be even harder for young children to understand when a loved one is lost.
Jase's father passed away in May 2014, and ever since then, he's upheld a tradition. The seven-year-old, from West Lothian, Scotland, and his 10-year-old sister Neive, celebrate the occasion of their father's birthday every year since his death. This year, Jase decided to send a birthday card, adding a note for the postman to deliver it to his father.
"Mr postman, can you take this to Heaven for my dad's birthday, thanks," he wrote on the envelope.
The story was sweet enough, but the response from Royal Mail made the story even more heartwarming. Not only did they confirm that they had received his letter, but they responded to tell him that it had been delivered safely after a difficult journey.
"I actually cannot state how emotional he is knowing his dad got his card," his mother, Teri, said. "You didn't have to make the effort to do this, you could have just ignored it, but the fact that you have made the effort for a little boy you've never met is such a lovely thing to do."
"Royal Mail you've just restored my faith in humanity."
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Teri shared photos of the letter her son sent, along with the reply, from Royal Mail's Sean Milligan - which read:
"While we've been delivering your post, we became aware of some concerns. So I just wanted to take this opportunity to contact you about how we succeeded in the delivery of your letter, to your dad in heaven.
"This was a difficult challenge avoiding stars and other galactic objects on route to heaven. However, please be assured that this particular important item of mail has been delivered.
"Royal Mail's priority is to get our customers' mail delivered safely, I know how important your mail is to you. I will continue to do all I can to ensure delivery to heaven safely."
Royal Mail also re-posted her initial Facebook post, helping the lovely story to go viral, with thousands of people sharing it with others.
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Following the news that the letter had been delivered, Jase's mother explained how wonderful her son felt:
"He was overwhelmed and kept saying 'my dad really got my letter mum'... I've always told Neive and Jase even if you can't get anyone a present it's always nice to make sure you send a card at Christmas and birthdays.
"I want people to realise that a small gesture of kindness can have such a fantastic impact on someone's life... Royal Mail actually took part and that gives me so much comfort."
It just goes to show that even a small token of kindness can go a long way.
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A social experiment in Australia revealed just how little people care about children, when just seven people offered to help.
Six-year-old Adien was left for 45 minutes in a busy shopping area, clearly without adult supervision. It was done in a bid to see how many adults would give up their time to help a child who was clearly lost and distressed.
Unfortunately, instead of being a "people are good at heart" story, what happened next makes for extremely grim reading.
This is how the public reacted to the lost six-year-old:
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It reflected particularly badly on men too. Of the seven people who stopped to see if the boy was okay, six of them were women.
In an interview with The Today Show on Australia's 9 News, Adien's mom said: "I was actually really concerned and shocked at how many people didn't [stop]."
One of the people who stopped was a mother with her young daughter, she asked if she should help Adien get to a police station. When he said "no", she replied: "Are you sure? Look I'm a mummy too, your mummy and daddy will be very worried about you."
Luckily, for Adien, his parents were standing just yards away.
Afterward, she was told that Adien had been part of a social experiment to see how many strangers would stop to help a distressed and lost child. The woman said: "If my child was lost, I'd hope that someone would help them."
Brainchild of the children's agency, Key Assets, the experiment was designed to show how vulnerable young people can be in society.
Rob Ryan, the CEO of Key Assets, said: "I think we're so busy in our lives today that children are often not seen and they're not heard, so it's everyone's responsibility to protect children."
"Not a lot of men stop. So it's important that men, if they're worried about stopping for children or young people to help them, find somebody who's nearby and say, 'hey, do you want to come and help me with this young person?'"