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Published 18:15 17 Jul 2021 GMT
A woman has exposed a man who made an uncalled-for remark about her weight - despite matching with her on dating app Bumble.
Taking to TikTok, Emma, who uses the handle @dilemma.rec, shared the unfortunate encounter with her followers.
Shaming the man, she initially included a link to his Facebook and LinkedIn profiles in the comments, before deleting them when the video began to blow up.
This is the moment she exposes him for cruelly fat-shaming her despite matching with her on Bumble:In the video, Emma shared screenshots of the man's account on Bumble as well as his other online profiles.
She also included screengrabs of their short and not-so-sweet message exchange on the dating app.
On Bumble, only women can initiate an exchange after an initial match so Emma sent the man a cute reference to a detail he had mentioned in his bio. (He had mentioned that he was looking for a plus one for a wedding he'd been invited to.)
So, Emma kicked off the conversation by saying: "So when are we going to the wedding?"
The man responded: "Nah, only chicks that weigh less than me."
Not one to take insults lying down, Emma replied: "Dude ur a gem. Whoever ends up [with] you is so lucky."
He then said to her: "Thanks fam hit the gym and use the weight watchers app."
Emma hit back again: "Actually I do hit the gym fam every day lmao. But thx for the advice king. Maybe get the d*** out of your a** and be nicer to people, sorry your life sucks."
Unsurprisingly, the video garnered thousands of comments and nearly 700k views at the time of writing.
Many of the commenters were confused by the man's willingness to match with her on Bumble - only to insult her appearance afterward.
One wrote: "But HE MATCHED WITH YOU??? I don't understand."
Others admitted to having matched with him on the app themselves.
A TikTok commenter shared: "Byeeee he's been on bumble for years I saw him on there like 2 years ago."
Another chimed in: "OMG I've matched him on Bumble. Whoever is 'lucky' enough to go with him to that wedding will NEED the open bar."
All in all, with the exception of a few, Emma had the backing of the commenters after sharing the unpleasant encounter.
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Published 16:10 07 Jun 2021 GMT
A man tracked a woman down on Instagram to complain that she didn't match him on the dating app Bumble.
Last month, Natalia Antonova took to Twitter to share screenshots, which show how the overzealous man slid into her DMs only to insult her for “harshly judging” him.
She captioned the screengrabs: “Happy anniversary to this great moment in incel history.”
The first screenshot initially starts off well, with Natalia telling the man, who had just slid into her Instagram DMs, that she is “impressed” with his opinion on soup.
But the conversation soon takes a turn as the unnamed man admits that he had tried to match her on Bumble.
“You never swiped back though, so I wondered if you’d respond if I found you on Instagram,” he wrote. “I’m not offended. Just think it’s a little shallow of you.”
“Excuse me?” she asks.
“You harshly judged my Bumble profile, but the second you saw that I’m funny and I can cook, you let me talk to you,” he replied.
“Harshly judged?” she said. “I honestly don’t remember ever coming across you on Bumble. So whatever it is you’ve just assumed, it’s weird and wrong.”
It then escalates even further when the man asks her, “Is this your way of implying that you get so many matches on Bumble that you don’t remember me? Scandalous!”
Natalia tells the stranger that she gets “plenty” of matches on the app as she refutes the claim that being popular on Bumble is somehow "scandalous".
“Way to make a guy feel good about himself,” he says in response.
“It’s not my job to flatter you,” Antonova retorts. “Especially after you called me shallow. Piece of advice: Acting insecure and rudely demanding validation is not how you get girls.”
The man then resorts to saying: “You’re just an ageing single mom anyway, whatever.”
Evidently, not one to take insults lying down, Natalia claps back: “Sure am! That’s why you got upset with me on Bumble, tracked me down on Instagram, came up with a clever response to me, got into my DMs, blew it by being a douchebag, and are now mad about it. Cool life.”
The man then tries to "apologize" for his remarks and bizarrely asks her to dinner. Needless to say, Natalia completely shuts him down.
Her tweet has since garnered a huge response on Twitter, with many criticizing the man's audacity to insult a woman for no good reason.
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Published 11:08 30 May 2021 GMT
A man's attempt at fat-shaming a woman on Tinder has backfired spectacularly after she shared his messages online.
Despite being created to help people find love, dating apps can often lead to both men and women receiving unwanted and inappropriate messages. These can stem from mildly cretinous chat-up lines to unsolicited d*** pics and vile insults.
However, when dance teacher Emily Langston found herself on the receiving end of one man's disgusting comments, she decided to take action.
After matching with a guy called Matt on Tinder, Langston, from Essex in England, probably knew she hadn't found "the one" when he opened with the cheesy chat-up line: "I'm jealous of your heart. It's pumping inside you and I'm not".
As you've already figured out, Matt was not the creative inspiration behind all those romantic Disney movies we watched as kids.
Unable to properly comprehend the disastrous chat-up line, Emily responded by saying: "Well that was different".
Sadly, Matt's ego was so frail that he couldn't handle the fact his chat-up line had gone down like lead balloon and unjustifiably responded by calling Emily a "s**g".
You'd think that would have been the end of this love story, but - for some unknown reason - Matt was not deterred and blamed the vile insult on his "teddy".
Matt then asked for clarification on who Emily was out of a picture of her friendship group, and when she responded saying that she was the one with blue hair, the lothario asked: "What the fat one [sic]".
When an unimpressed Emily feigned intrigue and called Matt "a delight", he responded by saying: "Bet you like angel delight you fat c***".
(Just in case you didn't know, Angel Delight is a mousse-like dessert that is much nicer than a conversation with Matt.)
After enduring the disgusting tirade, Emily decided to take revenge and share screenshots of Matt's messages to Twitter, along with the caption: "Get yourself a boy off Tinder who talks to you like this. Oh Matt, you're cancelled x"
The post soon went viral, amassing over 5,000 retweets and 37,000 'likes', with many Twitter users being quick to criticize Matt:
Some guys even felt the need to apologize on behalf of all men:
Whereas others felt the need to apologize for all Matts:
Some Twitter users were quick to jump to Emily's defense:
And others were quick to jump to the defense of Angel Delight:
There's absolutely no need for this sort of behavior on any social media platform. But at least Emily has been able to spare somebody else the torment of having to endure another of Matt's chat-up lines.
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Published 17:28 04 Jan 2021 GMT
It's no secret that online dating is a minefield. Even with the best will in the world, you can end up insulted and feeling downright bad about the human race.
But sometimes, you can turn the tide in your favor with the perfect response.
Case in point, this man's reaction to being fat-shamed on Tinder.
Despite matching with the man on the dating app, the woman known only as "Becca" messaged him to say: "You're very fat. I don't like fat people. I accidentally liked you. I'm sorry."
However, despite sending this extremely rude message, the woman didn't stop there, and continued: "Please don't kill yourself. Someone will love you and your husky one day. Just not me. Cus I like normal-sized people. Which you are not. So Bye."
Now, in response to this, the man would arguably be well within his rights to get angry, however, he decided to simply calmly reply, writing: "Wait I'm fat?! When did that happen?"
He continued: "But I promise I won't kill myself. Thanks for the opinion/facts about me. I'll try to work on it. I'm not really into c***s anyway."
In response to this, the woman wrote "Listen here f***o", and that is where the conversation ended.
The exchange was subsequently posted to Bored Panda where the man was praised for his calm response to the woman.
This woman was called a "pig" after "politely" rejecting a man on Tinder:
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One Bored Panda user wrote: "Anyone can diet and fix a weight problem. There isn't really a cure to being an a**hole though."
Another was more shocked by the husky statement, writing: "She must be a terrible person since she doesn't like huskies! Who hates puppers?!"
Meanwhile, a third wrote a sentiment we can all agree with: "I suddenly feel much better about myself. At least I'm not her."
This comes after people hit back at CNN's news anchor Anderson Cooper has divided people on social media after "fat-shaming" President Trump on-air.
Sadly, this sort of thing happens more often than you may think.
For example, a man's attempt to cruelly fat-shame a woman on Tinder backfired after she shared his messages with the world.
Emily Langston. Langston, from Essex in England, probably instantly regretted swiping right on a guy called Matt after he opened with the chat-up line: "I'm jealous of your heart. It's pumping inside you and I'm not".
As you can probably already tell, Matt is not the kind of guy depicted in Disney movies.
After Emily responded by saying "Well that was different", Matt - clearly annoyed that Emily hadn't been swept off her feet by his romantic comment - responded by calling her a "sl*g".
But Matt was not deterred, and blamed the sexist insult on his "teddy".
Matt then asked for clarification on who Emily was out of a picture of her friendship group, and when she responded saying that she was the one with blue hair, he asked: "What the fat one [sic]".
When an unimpressed Emily feigned intrigue and called Matt "a delight", he responded by saying: "Bet you like angel delight you fat c***".
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Following their surreal conversation, Emily shared screenshots of Matt's messaged to Twitter, along with the caption: "Get yourself a boy off Tinder who talks to you like this. Oh Matt, you're cancelled x"
The post soon went viral, and Twitter users were quick to criticize Matt:
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Some guys felt the need to apologize on behalf of all men:
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Whereas others felt the need to apologize for all Matts:
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Some Twitter users were quick to jump to Emily's defense:
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And others were quick to jump to the defense of Angel Delight
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But at least now everybody on Tinder knows to swipe left when Matt's profile pops up.
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Published 17:36 23 Mar 2022 GMT
A woman has taken to TikTok to call out the discourteous behavior of a guy who had been pursuing her.
In her initial video, posted on February 23, TikTok user Samantha Burroughs shares two screenshots containing text message exchanges between herself and a man she had matched with on the dating app Bumble.
In the first screenshot, her apparently charming Bumble date, Jake, sends Samantha a series of gushing messages, telling her that she's "beautiful" and that he "can't wait" to meet her.
The pair arrange to meet, with Jake telling Samantha that he's a "lucky guy", considering he gets to take her out.
In the next screenshot, however, it becomes evident that Jake was being completely disingenuous - he wasn't the nice guy he was painting himself out to be.
Check out the video below:In a message he had meant to send to a friend, but accidentally sent to Samantha herself, he shared a picture of the TikToker, branding her a "solid 4".
Jake wrote in the message: "No bro she's a solid 4 and would for sure keep it on the low but desperate times call for desperate measures and [beggars] can't be choosers. All I saw was t**s and an easy lay."
Realizing his mistake, he wrote in a follow-up message: "Damn I'm sorry I didn't mean to send that to you... I was talking about someone else and clicked your picture on accident. My bad."
In another video posted later that day, Samantha revealed that she hadn't responded to the degrading message and that she does not intend to go out with him after his appalling behavior.
In a third post, Samantha reveals that Jake messaged her after coming across her viral TikTok video.
He complains that she didn't show up to their pre-arranged date, refusing to acknowledge his demeaning message about her.
Despite no provocation from her, Jake then continues to belittle her: "It was a joke but I should [have] picked up that you were crazy when you said you foster kids. You can't get a man so you get a bunch of broken little kids to fill that void."
He then sends a screenshot of Samantha's Instagram grid, which contains selfies of her heavily made-up, prompting Jake to accuse her of being a catfish.
Jake persistently insults her in another message screenshot, with Samantha concluding that she has unmatched him on Bumble.
As you can probably imagine, Samantha has been overwhelmed with support from fellow TikTok users:
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Published 11:05 26 Apr 2022 GMT
A body-positive content creator has gone viral after sharing screenshots of a man fat-shaming her when she rejected him.
Shelby Goodrich Eckard is known as @pcossupportgirl on TikTok, where she has almost 170,000 followers and nearly 8 million likes. She is also a PCOS advocate, fitness nutrition, and weight loss specialist (NASM).
Earlier this month, Eckard posted a video featuring screenshots of a man's direct messages to her on Instagram, saying she was "literally perfect" and that he "would do anything" to get to know her.
She then replied: "That's very kind! But I am not interested or available at the moment. Have a good day!"
Check out the video here:
However, he ignored her shutting him down and proceeded to say: "I'd treat you real nice." Eckard then clarified again that she was not interested or available.
Not taking the rejection well, the man immediately resorted to fat-shaming her and hurled insults, writing: "Ur lucky someone like me would even think about touching ur b***h a**. [sic]"
Eckard shot back: “K. I am most certainly a b***h....but you will not be touching any part of me – including my a**. Also, upon further review, I think your FIANCEE probably would like to weigh in on this."
The man then responded: "F*** u fat b**** no need to get others involved."
After sharing the video on the platform, the post soon blew up with almost 260,000 views and people asking for a follow-up story of Eckard sending the screenshots to the man's fiancée.
She posted the follow-up video in the comment section:
The content creator's follow-up video quickly racked up nearly 350,000 views at the time of writing, with many eagerly discussing the situation in the comments section.
One user said: "ooo I hope she dumps him immediately. I wonder if he is going to send u angry messages now. if he does plz post them. I hope she keeps u updated."
Another commented: "Yesssss!!!!!! Good job!!!! I’m glad she took it so well."
"She seems like a fun girls girl she needs to leave him forever," a third user commented.
Whilst users thought that the fiancée took it well, Eckard commented under the video on April 17 that both the man who body-shamed her and his fiancée blocked her on Instagram.
Speaking to Bored Panda, Eckard said: “He didn’t understand the meaning of ‘no,’ and my ‘not interested’ didn’t stop him from continuing to harass me."
She also stated that men need to learn that women "don't owe them kindness or their attention."
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