Judging by the most Googled sex questions, it seems like plenty of us are still pretty confused when it comes to getting down to a spot of love-making. While there are copious amounts of websites, articles and books about how to have the "perfect" sex, it's mainly down to personal preference, as everyone is different in what they like/dislike. However, if you were seeking advice on how to get down and dirty in the best way possible, a former porn star is probably a good person to ask.
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Mia Khalifa is now known as a sports presenter on Complex, but her past as a highly controversial pornstar has stood her in good stead to dish out some advice. Speaking to Men's Health, Khalifa answered some of the most popular questions to do with sex. So get your pen and paper at the ready, and prepare to get a lot more clued up about sex!
"Your G-spot is on the top wall of the vagina halfway between the opening and the cervix—so if you're fingering someone, it's up and under, I would say. You know you're touching it when it feels like you're touching a slightly rougher surface, like the surface of a nut."
That said, Mia says it's not all about G-spot stimulation.
"I reach orgasm externally, not too much from just intercourse," she told MH. "So I prefer clitoral stimulation or G-spot stimulation. But every girl is different."
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2. How to make a woman orgasm
"It’s about a bunch of different factors, like kissing and taking your time and being tender, or being rough, depending on what the girl wants. There’s no required time to spend on foreplay — you just have to feel the vibe."
Mia advises that noises are a key way of telling whether your partner
is enjoying it.
"If she’s moaning, she’s enjoying it. If her body starts shaking, or if she looks like she’s having an exorcism performed on her, she’s getting close. That’s usually a good sign."
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3. How to get a bigger penis manually (does size matter?)
"I don’t think size matters at all," she told MH. "The best sex I ever had was definitely not with the most well-endowed man I’ve ever been with. It’s really all about the way you treat a girl and the way she feels about you."
"If you’re small, you can put a pillow under the small of her back helps with angles. And if she goes down on you a lot, she’ll be able to deep-throat you easier and you’ll feel like a rock star."
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4. How long does sex last?
"I think a quickie is usually about 5-7 minutes, and something more passionate is usually about 10-15 minutes. I get chafed and tired and Sportscenter is usually about to be on."
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"Yes. Yes, it does. It hurts a lot. The only time girls do anal sex is when they really, really, really, really like a guy."
However, it's not all pain, as Mia says that things do get better.
"I will say a lot of lube really helped, and it was enjoyable after the first two minutes, but even then, it was a different kind of enjoyable than I could ever describe."
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6. How can I last longer in bed
"Pull out and go back to foreplay if you feel yourself getting too close. She's not gonna get mad if you pull out and start going down on her. She won't even know that you're trying to not come. She'll think you're doing it because it's hot, and it'll turn her on more."
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7. Why won't my girlfriend have sex with me?
"Maybe you’re not listening enough to what she wants and you need to go slower, or be more gentle. Maybe the connection’s just not there. Do something romantic with just you two. You don’t have to whisk her off to Bora Bora — just do something small and intimate with the two of you, to reignite that flame."
"Above all else, if you two aren’t having sex anymore, you need to talk about it, or else it’s just not going to change. But tread very lightly. If my significant other came up to me and said, 'We never have sex,' I know I would get defensive."
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So there you go guys, sex tip from a former pornstar - you can't get better advice than that. Take Mia's advice and apply it to you life. Happy banging!
