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A once-niche messy bedroom fetish is making a comeback, with "sploshing" seeing a resurgence after being referenced in the latest season of Euphoria starring Sydney Sweeney.
The bizarre term, which was coined during the 1980s, refers to a fetish involving food or other messy substances being poured, spread, or played with on the body for sexual enjoyment.
While it has long existed within fetish communities, relationship experts say growing conversations around sexual exploration in mainstream television and pop culture have made it more appealing to a wider audience.
The latest revival appears to have been fuelled by Euphoria, with Sydney Sweeney's character once again pushing boundaries on screen and sparking conversation online.
The latest series has caused online searches for "sploshing" and other unconventional kinks to surge as curious viewers look to understand the meaning behind them and perhaps try it for themselves.
Unlike some fetishes, sploshing does not necessarily involve intercourse.
Instead, it involves using substances such as whipped cream, chocolate sauce, custard, cake mixture, or other foods as a part of foreplay.
Some enthusiasts enjoy the textures and taste of the often sticky ingredients, while others are drawn to seeing their partner or themselves covered in mess.
Sex and relationship experts say the appeal often lies in the sensory experience rather than just physical intimacy. For many couples, introducing novelty into the bedroom can strengthen communication, as long as both partners are enthusiastic and consent.
As with any sexual activity, hygiene and safety remain important, so experts advise avoiding products that may irritate the skin or cause infections, particularly around intimate areas. Sugary foods can increase the risk of irritation, while some oils and ingredients may damage condoms or sex toys.
For obvious reasons, cleaning up quickly afterwards and discussing boundaries beforehand are also recommended.
While sploshing certainly isn't for everyone, therapists stress that unusual fetishes are not inherently unhealthy if they involve informed consent, mutual respect and do not cause harm. The growing curiosity surrounding the trend reflects a broader shift towards couples exploring different ways of expressing intimacy rather than following traditional expectations.
Only time will tell whether the revival of sploshing will bring it into the mainstream or if it is just another viral fad.
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Sploshing, a term that might sound unusual to some, refers to a particular fetish involving the use of food and drink in intimate settings.
While erotic fantasies and kinks come in many forms, sploshing falls under the category of “wet and messy fetishism,” where couples incorporate this one odd thing into their activities for pleasure.
The practice is far from new, having gained recognition in the late 1980s through the now-defunct adults’ magazine Splosh!, which ran until 2001 and dedicated entire issues to exploring the fetish.
Though the publication is long gone, interest in sploshing continues, especially on platforms like Reddit and TikTok, where it’s often openly discussed.
The idea of combining sex with food may seem impractical, particularly when considering the aftermath of cleaning sticky or staining foods from bedding and furniture. Yet, for many who engage in it, the appeal outweighs the inconvenience.
Certified sexologist and kink specialist Tiffany K. Chan told PopSugar that there are psychological explanations for why sploshing resonates with so many people. One theory, known as “messy play theory,” suggests the kink may have roots in childhood joy from tactile, messy activities, with those pleasurable sensations later evolving into a sexual context.
Another explanation, Dr. Chan noted, involves an element of rebellion. In societies that prize cleanliness, order, and restraint, deliberately embracing disorder in an intimate setting can feel thrilling and transgressive. It’s not just about the mess, but about the liberation from rules and the permission to engage in something “naughty.” This sense of play and defiance can add an extra layer of excitement for participants.
Ayesha Hussain, co-creator of Pass The Porn and founder of The Violet, offered a complementary perspective, highlighting the natural sensuality of the mouth.
She pointed out that the mouth is a moist, opening vessel that changes during arousal, becoming more lubricated and responsive. In sploshing, food and drink can heighten this intimacy, combining taste, scent, and texture in a deeply sensual way.
For couples curious about trying sploshing, Hussain stressed its accessibility. There’s no strict rulebook; it could involve anything from spaghetti to chocolate, cucumbers, whipped cream, or even beverages.
The key, she said, is to focus on the sensory experience: watch every movement, savour every taste and smell, and build intimacy from there. The practice can be as playful or as erotic as participants wish, depending on their comfort levels.
While sploshing won’t appeal to everyone, for those who enjoy sensory play and breaking away from conventional norms, it offers a unique and immersive way to explore intimacy.
Just remember, after indulging in the experience, it’s probably wise to have the washing machine ready; passion may be fleeting, but stains can linger.
If you're looking for a way to spice up your relationship in the bedroom, have you ever considered sploshing?
It's not as gross as it sounds... I think.
Nobody is here to kink shame anybody else, and what people get up to behind closed doors is completely up to them.
... As long as it's consensual and doesn't break the law.
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So if you want to take things up a notch, and maybe stop your stomach from rumbling at the same time, then sploshing might be for you.
For those unfamiliar with the term, sploshing is exactly what it sounds like: a fetish involving sexual pleasure derived from getting covered in wet and messy substances, per Men's Health.
But we're not talking a simple drizzle of whipped cream. Think much messier - baths of jelly, showers of syrup, and yes, even entire cakes.
This wet and messy fetish (also known as WAM - Wet and Messy) is rapidly gaining popularity.
Videos show women pouring spaghetti sauce over themselves, sitting in pools of cake, or showering in coffee, and the trend is causing quite a stir.
Sex psychotherapist Gigi Engle, who works with SexToys.co.uk, explains that sploshing is fundamentally about the experience of being covered in something gooey and tactile, per the Metro.
“Sploshing is a sexual kink or fetish that involves sitting in or spreading around jelly-like or viscous substances,” she says. “But it can encompass absolutely any substance that gets messy.”
Cake sitting, in particular, is one of the most popular forms of sploshing. In fact, it has become a mainstay on platforms like OnlyFans, where content creators make a spectacle of sitting in or smashing cakes for their audiences.
“It’s very messy and there’s destruction which can feed into the erotica of it,” says Engle. She notes that the sensory experience - feeling the squishiness of a cake or slime - is a huge part of its appeal.
You might be wondering what actually makes this fetish so alluring. After all, wouldn’t you rather eat that chocolate bar than have it poured over you?
Engle explains that part of the attraction comes from sensory stimulation.
“There’s a really big auditory element to it, the sound of the substance squishing. There’s a tactile element to it where you could like the feel of it on your fingers or body. The messiness and wetness can also be a big draw - it’s a very sensory experience.”
Dominatrix Countess Diamond, a practitioner deeply embedded in the world of BDSM, adds that sploshing’s connection to the fetish scene goes way back.
“When ‘sploshing’ first occurred in our history I don’t know for sure,” she said. “But the earliest records showing grapes being crushed under feet for wine was in 7000 BC, and I have a feeling someone would have been watching those women with a semi in their pants.”
Diamond suggests that the modern fascination with sploshing likely has roots in childhood TV shows from the 80s, particularly those involving “gunge” tanks, where kids or celebrities were doused in sticky slime.
“It was always women who received the shower of slime, and squealed as the cold load landed on their skin.”
If you want to splosh, then there's no shame - just maybe put down a few towels first.
If you're looking for a way to spice up your relationship in the bedroom, have you ever considered sploshing?
It's not as gross as it sounds... I think.
Nobody is here to kink-shame anybody else, and what people get up to behind closed doors is completely up to them.
... As long as it's consensual and doesn't break the law.
So if you want to take things up a notch, and maybe stop your stomach from rumbling at the same time, then sploshing might be for you.
For those unfamiliar with the term, sploshing is exactly what it sounds like: a fetish involving sexual pleasure derived from getting covered in wet and messy substances, per Men's Health.
Credit: Jamie Grill/Getty Images.
But we're not talking a simple drizzle of whipped cream. Think much messier - baths of jelly, showers of syrup, and yes, even entire cakes.
This wet and messy fetish (also known as WAM - Wet and Messy) is rapidly gaining popularity.
Videos show women pouring spaghetti sauce over themselves, sitting in pools of cake, or showering in coffee, and the trend is causing quite a stir.
Sex psychotherapist Gigi Engle, who works with SexToys.co.uk, explains that sploshing is fundamentally about the experience of being covered in something gooey and tactile, per the Metro.
“Sploshing is a sexual kink or fetish that involves sitting in or spreading around jelly-like or viscous substances,” she says. “But it can encompass absolutely any substance that gets messy.”
Cake sitting, in particular, is one of the most popular forms of sploshing. In fact, it has become a mainstay on platforms like OnlyFans, where content creators make a spectacle of sitting in or smashing cakes for their audiences.
“It’s very messy and there’s destruction which can feed into the erotica of it,” says Engle. She notes that the sensory experience - feeling the squishiness of a cake or slime - is a huge part of its appeal.
You might be wondering what actually makes this fetish so alluring. After all, wouldn’t you prefer to eat that chocolate, rather than have it poured over you?
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Engle explains that part of the attraction comes from sensory stimulation.
“There’s a really big auditory element to it, the sound of the substance squishing,” she says.
“There’s a tactile element to it where you could like the feel of it on your fingers or body. The messiness and wetness can also be a big draw - it’s a very sensory experience.”
Dominatrix Countess Diamond, a practitioner deeply embedded in the world of BDSM, adds that sploshing’s connection to the fetish scene goes way back.
“When ‘sploshing’ first occurred in our history I don’t know for sure,” she said. “But the earliest records showing grapes being crushed under feet for wine was in 7000 BC, and I have a feeling someone would have been watching those women with a semi in their pants.”
Diamond suggests that the modern fascination with sploshing likely has roots in childhood TV shows from the 80s, particularly those involving “gunge” tanks, where kids or celebrities were doused in sticky slime.
“It was always women who received the shower of slime,“ she says, “and squealed as the cold load landed on their skin.”
If you want to splosh, then there's no shame - just maybe put down a few towels first.
The sex trend known as "sitophilia" is reportedly gaining traction as couples explore new ways to spice things up in the bedroom.
According to Metro, a recent survey conducted by online supermarket Ocado revealed that 34% of respondents were considering incorporating food into their intimate lives this year.
Sitophilia, also known as food play or sploshing, involves integrating food and drinks into sexual activities.
While there are many variations, the most common form of the trend sees couples using non-bodily fluids, such as sauces, creams, or syrups, to create a sensory experience. Psychologist and author Mark Griffiths also noted that food play could also be intense, such as throwing fruits or other items at specific body parts for sexual humiliation.
According to Ocado's survey, some of the most popular food items used in the bedroom are whipped cream (49%), chocolate (36%), and ice cubes (34%). Other items like strawberries (28%) and bananas (27%) also made the list.
Interestingly, the supermarket reported that sales data show a significant rise in the popularity of food items commonly linked to the fetish.
For example, ridge cucumbers, which have a unique texture, saw a 178% increase, while honey and whipped cream saw increases of 509% and 24%, respectively.
Food play is not a new phenomenon. Sexual therapist Courtney Boyer explained that the connection between food and eroticism dates back thousands of years, with ancient cultures such as the Greeks and Romans intertwining feasting, pleasure, and sexuality.
"Indulgence was sensory and communal. Look at the evidence in art: reclining bodies, grapes, wine, honey. While 'food play' was never a named historical kink, the pairing of taste, touch, and desire demonstrates that humans have long eroticized what nourishes us," she said.
"Taste, smell, texture, anticipation, gratification - it’s primal," she continued. "Feeding and being fed can feel intimate, nurturing, even power-infused depending on the dynamic."
Boyer added: "Throw in taboo (food 'not meant' for sex), messiness, and sensory overload, and it can heighten vulnerability and presence in the body," making it a more stimulating experience for some couples.
Despite its growing popularity, food play is not without its risks.
Sexual health expert Karin O’Sullivan warned that introducing food into the genital area can lead to potential health problems.
She stressed that anything inserted into the vagina must be able to be removed intact, as leaving food behind can lead to infections or require medical intervention.
"It’s a bad idea to put any food, especially sweets, inside your vagina. Your vagina has a natural healthy balance which can be upset by the introduction of foreign objects," she said. "When it comes to food, hygiene can be an issue, with the introduction of new bacteria into your vagina.
"Sugary foods and sweets can upset the PH balance of your vagina, and serve as a food source for bacteria and yeast which can cause infection such as thrush or bacterial vaginosis," she added.
O’Sullivan advised couples to keep food play focused on the vulva area or above the waist to reduce risks.
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If you thought sex trends were weird already, then "hamstering" could take things to the next level.
I'll be honest, it seems like every week people are coming up with bizarre new ways to spice up their love life.
Some of them seem to have some logic to them, while others are just incredibly bizarre, and it makes you wonder who came up with the idea.
Before we get into the description, have a think about what "hamstering" might mean... and the clue is that you need a car for it to work.
The trend first gained traction on TikTok under hashtags like #hamstering and #thirstyhamster, with millions of curious views.
And yes, it’s exactly what it sounds like.
The term comes from the way a hamster drinks water through a spout, except in this case, the “spout” is a penis sticking through the sunroof of a car, per VICE.
One partner climbs onto the roof, positions themselves over the open sunroof, and the other partner remains inside to perform oral sex from below.
On paper, it sounds simple. In practice, not so much. Not only does it require a willing partner and a car with a functioning sunroof, but also some serious acrobatics.
As one TikTok creator put it while testing out the logistics: “I don’t know how I’m supposed to reach that.”
Others have pointed out the obvious risks: sunroofs were never designed for this, and accidentally hitting the close button could turn a kinky moment into a bloody nightmare.
Creator @Jen_nnifer attempted to demonstrate a PG version of the position, ultimately suggesting that the person on the roof should stand upright with their legs inside the car rather than lying flat across the metal.
“That would be more discreet anyway,” she noted - though how discreet “hamstering” could ever be is debatable.
Even Tesla drivers got in on the conversation. Content creator Jeremy Judkins joked that his high-tech car was blocking him from joining in on the trend.
“It’s not fair. My Tesla is stopping me from doing internet trends,” he laughed, adding that while some Tesla models do have sunroofs, the brand’s own safety guidelines explicitly warn against sticking body parts through them due to the risk of “flying debris” or “tree branches.”
Of course, it’s unclear how many people are actually trying “hamstering” versus simply poking fun at the ridiculous concept.
Still, like other infamous internet curiosities - sploshing, “shallowing,” or even giantess fetishes - it has secured its place in the ever-expanding lexicon of weird sex trends.
As one commenter summed it up: “I think people are having fun becoming more liberated with sexuality etc but the logistics just don't work for me.”
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