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After leaving her husband and the company they built together aged 35, Kaly Miller became a sex surrogate.
While she has coached virgins, sex addicts and people who have experienced sexual trauma, one of the most rewarding clients she ever helped was a young autistic man who was encouraged to start sessions by his parents.
The needs of clients Miller, 50, sees at her clinic, The Naked Room, vary hugely. She told The Sun: “Men came to see me to overcome issues including being unable to get an erection, premature ejaculation, fear of intimacy and body dysmorphia.”
However, women also go to see the Brazilian-born sex surrogate to receive help overcoming trauma after giving birth, learn how to orgasm, or face their fear of penetration.
One of the most rewarding parts of her unconventional career path is being able to help people, and one of the most memorable was a young man with autism whom she helped lose his virginity and, in turn, build his confidence.
According to Miller, his parents, who brought him to her sessions, were “so grateful,” and his dad even said to her: “Thank you for making him experience life as a man outside of his challenges.”
Before Miller meets up with a new client, she assesses them on a Zoom call to find out why they want to see a sex therapist and also observe their body language, which could give her an inkling as to how the sessions may run.
However, sadly this is also a necessary step because she has had people try and take advantage of her unconventional career choice and have tried to turn up and have sex with her. The screening process is not always foolproof, though.
Miller said: “A man was naked. I turned off my camera and told him that’s not what I’m here for.”
Once a client has completed the paperwork and provided a clean STI test, then they may start sessions at £250 ($334) for an hour or £1,250 ($1,668) for a day session of five hours.
Although Miller is adamant that a client must have at least three sessions in order to make proper progress, she caps them at 10 to prevent them from forming a romantic attachment.
The mom-of-four also shared that it is an important part of her job to take care of her physical appearance.
She said: “Before meeting a client, I prepare by going to the gym or doing yoga, and I meditate on my commute.
“Since I turned 50, I’m conscious I need look my best, so I see a dermatologist, and of course I regularly do kegel exercises to keep my pelvic floor muscles tight.”
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A sex therapist has revealed how a man reacted after he lost his virginity to her.
Kaly Miller, 52, is a mom-of-four who has been a sex surrogate for 15 years and has seen it all during her time in the industry.
Speaking to The Sun, she claimed that she'd even helped a Hollywood actor overcome his sex addiction and coached polyamorous couples.
After making the move from being a masseuse to being a surrogate partner, the mother said that she made the decision so she could earn enough to give her children the life they deserved.
After sleeping with between 300 and 400 people, it's fair to say that she is an expert on the topic, and within three months, she had sexual relations with her first client, a single man in his 60s.
He was a virgin, and after a month of working with him, they made love, and he would go on to have a relationship, as she started to understand the impact of her job.
Kaly explained that she insists on clients having a minimum of three sessions and a maximum of 10 to make sure that no romantic attachment is formed to her.
She usually goes to the gym or does yoga before seeing a client, admitting that since she has turned 50, she has to look her best.
"I see a dermatologist, and of course I regularly do Kegel exercises to keep my pelvic floor muscles tight," she told the publication.
Reflecting on one of her more memorable moments, she remembered when a virgin client saw her vagina, the first he had ever seen.
He said: “It’s marvellous!”
"I love the color and the texture," he added, but she admitted to thinking: “I’ve had sex for 30 years and not once has a partner admired me the way this guy has.”
Other wholesome moments also included the time she helped a man with autism have sex for the first time, after his parents used to bring him to sessions.
“Thank you for making him experience life as a man outside of his challenges,” she remembered his father saying to her.
Kaly explained: "My job has also helped me realize that sex can be incredibly powerful, rather than shallow or mediocre."
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She meets potential clients on Zoom to find out why they want to see her, also analyzing body language to "spot unsuitable people who think they can just turn up and have sex with me."
Kaly horrifyingly claimed: "One time, a man was naked. I turned off my camera and told him that’s not what I’m here for."
After they complete a consent form and paperwork, prices start from £250 ($330) for an in-person session which lasts an hour, or £1,250 ($1,700) for a day session of five hours.
She stated: "If a client is a virgin, the ultimate aim is for us to have sex."
"If they’re female, I can pass them on to a trusted male sex surrogate when they’re ready," Kaly said.
Clients must also provide a recent STD test and use condoms - she also clarified that she does not work with couples when she touches them, focusing on coaching them how to touch each other.
Published 12:54 30 Jan 2026 GMT
Kaly Miller, a sex surrogate and therapist, recently opened up about her role and experiences in an interview on the British TV show This Morning.
Having worked with over 400 men, Miller's profession goes beyond physical intimacy, focusing on the psychological and emotional needs of her clients.
While sex surrogates may engage in physical acts, their primary role is to support and guide individuals who struggle with intimacy or other related issues. This work, Miller says, is deeply fulfilling and something she feels she was destined to do.
Miller’s journey into this field was not planned. Originally a remedial sports massage therapist, she became increasingly aware of her own understanding of intimacy and sexuality, which led her to study psychosexuality.
It was through this exploration that she stumbled upon the profession of sex surrogacy. She recalls seeing an ad for "open-minded body workers" and, after some initial hesitation, decided to take the plunge. It was her first client, however, who truly helped her see the significance of this work.
During her time working as a sex surrogate, one particular client left a profound emotional mark on Miller. The client, a man in his mid-60s, had lived a life full of loneliness and self-doubt, never quite experiencing intimacy or love.
When asked why he sought out Miller’s services, he shared a painful admission: “I don’t want to die without knowing what love feels like.”
The depth of his response struck Miller deeply. She recalled vividly how the moment affected her, saying, “My heart literally goes up, because I not only the moment, I know the voice, I know the person, I know the feeling of them, I know their journey, what it looked like.”
Miller further revealed that this client, who had never been able to connect with anyone romantically, was so starved for human touch that he would only use coins to pay at the corner store, as it was the only time he felt physical contact. This story, Miller says, made her realize that she was in the right profession, one that she was truly meant to do.
While Miller has had partners during her career, she emphasizes that her work is integral to who she is. She describes it as something she cannot separate from her identity. In addition to her professional life, Miller is also a mother, and her children, along with her parents, are her biggest supporters. Despite the complexities of her work, Miller feels deeply validated by her family’s unconditional support.
Though her profession involves intimate and emotional experiences with clients, Miller maintains that she has a strong sense of balance in her life. Her connection with her family is her anchor, and it helps her navigate the unique challenges of her role as a sex surrogate.
Published 17:37 28 Jan 2026 GMT
A sex therapist who has been intimate with over 400 clients has shared the details of her controversial career and the surprising reaction of her partner to her work.
Kaly Miller calls herself a "surrogate partner," which means she helps clients navigate their intimacy issues by teaching them about love and sexuality, and even engaging in sexual activities to facilitate this process.
The 52-year-old initially worked as a remedial sports massage therapist before discovering her calling in intimacy therapy.
After seeing an advertisement for "open-minded body workers," she learned that becoming a surrogate partner was her true path.
"I was not expecting it," she said.
"I don’t think anyone sits at home and says, ‘I’m going to be a surrogate partner.’ I think everyone is taken on a journey."
Miller's journey began when she worked with a client in his 60s who had spent his life struggling with intimacy.
"I don’t want to die without knowing what love feels like," he told her, a moment that solidified her decision to pursue this unique career.
"At that point, [the client] liked going round to the corner shop to pay with coins because the only touch they ever had was when they paid the cashier and brushed hands," she said.
"He used to look out of the window, and this woman that passed by, and he would imagine [being in love] but never quite ever having the experience, or the confidence, or the experience to move forward," she said.
"Then are there, I felt I am in the right space... everyone has a karma or something to fulfil, but this is my thing," she added.
She worked with him for a year, helping him overcome decades of shame and embarrassment about intimacy. By the end of their sessions, he was able to form a long-term, intimate relationship.
In 2014, Miller took a significant step by enrolling in a three-year university degree in Erotology, the study of human sexual love and desire.
She also studied under Vena Blanchard, president of the International Professional Surrogates Association (IPSA), to deepen her knowledge and skill in the field.
For the past seven years, she has run her own practice, The Naked Room, working independently without supervision.
She estimates that she has worked with approximately 400 clients. Miller charges £250 ($344) for an hour-long session, with prices escalating up to £1,250 ($1,700) for a five-hour session.
She starts her process with a free “exploratory” Zoom call with potential clients to ensure they understand what they are asking for and that she feels comfortable working with them.
She stresses the importance of safety and professionalism, always meeting clients at a hotel of her choice, where they are required to pay for all travel and accommodation.
She also insists that clients provide recent STI tests and sign consent forms before engaging in any physical intimacy.
"My safety is paramount: I have a tracking device on my phone and always check in with a friend or family member when I get home," she added.
Despite the controversial nature of her work, Miller revealed that her loved ones are extremely supportive of her career.
“My kids and my parents are my number one fans,” she shared.
“My mum’s reaction when I explained to them what I was working as was, ‘I think I would be a really good surrogate partner!’”
She also surprisingly revealed that she had a partner when she started the job.
Whilst many would expect there to be jealousy, she said that they understood her work, adding that "they cannot question what I’m doing" because "my journey is their journey".
As the sex therapist continues her work, she remains dedicated to providing a safe and transformative experience for her clients. "This is what I was born for," she concluded.
Published 14:50 28 Jan 2026 GMT
A sex therapist who has been intimate with 400 of her own clients reveals the cost of spending an hour with her.
Kaly Miller, a sex therapist known for her candidness about sleeping with over 400 clients, recently appeared on This Morning to discuss her unconventional and controversial career.
The 52-year-old first became interested in intimacy therapy while working as a massage therapist.
After spotting an advertisement for open-minded body therapists, she realized that her true calling lay in helping people connect with their own sexuality.
“I was not expecting it,” she said, recalling her first experience with a client, “I don’t think anyone sits at home and says, ‘I’m going to be a surrogate partner.’”
Her journey began with a client in his 60s, who had spent his life struggling with intimacy. "He told me, 'I don’t want to die without knowing what love feels like,'" Kaly shared.
This profound moment solidified her decision to pursue a surrogate partnership. "I felt I am in the right space, this is what I was born for - everyone has a karma or something to fulfil, but this is my thing," she shared.
She worked with the man for a year, helping him overcome decades of shame and embarrassment about intimacy. By the end of their sessions, he was able to engage in a long-term, intimate relationship.
"It was very [interesting] because of the age gap, he was telling me stories about his upbringing, which is once upon a time," Kaly said. “There was no VHS, no devices, if you wanted to have access to naughty things, you went to [the shop] and hid it in your jacket, hoping nobody would see you.|
Kaly's career took off after she enrolled in a three-year university degree in Erotology, the study of human sexual love and desire, in 2014.
She went on to study under Vena Blanchard, the president of the International Professional Surrogates Association (IPSA).
Today, Kaly runs her own practice, The Naked Room, where she continues to work as a surrogate partner without supervision.
She estimates that she has worked with up to 400 clients over the years. “I don’t keep a tally, but that’s my guess,” she explained.
For her services, Kaly charges £250 ($344) for an hour-long session, which can increase to £1,250 ($1,700) for a five-hour session.
She starts her process with a free "exploratory" Zoom call with clients to ensure they understand what they are asking for and that she is comfortable working with them.
"There is no guarantee I will agree to take on a client and I have turned people away, including a man who joined the Zoom call naked," she told Daily Mail. "Once I have agreed to work with someone, the progress is based on the individual, though I like to have a minimum of three Zoom calls before meeting in person."
"I always meet clients at a hotel. They pay for all travel and accommodation, but I choose the venue, one that feels safe and professional. I always use condoms, everyone must provide a recent, clear STI test and complete consent forms."
"My safety is paramount: I have a tracking device on my phone and always check in with a friend or family member when I get home," she added.
Despite the unusual nature of her work, Kaly says her family is incredibly supportive.
"My kids and my parents are my number one fans," she shared. “My mum’s reaction when I explained to them what I was working as was, ‘I think I would be a really good surrogate partner!’”
Kaly has also been open about the fact that she had a partner when she started this career, and despite the challenges of her job, there is no jealousy in her relationship. She said, "They cannot question what I’m doing" because "my journey is their journey".
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