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Published 13:01 01 Jul 2026 GMT
A sex therapist has revealed how a man reacted after he lost his virginity to her.
Kaly Miller, 52, is a mom-of-four who has been a sex surrogate for 15 years and has seen it all during her time in the industry.
Speaking to The Sun, she claimed that she'd even helped a Hollywood actor overcome his sex addiction and coached polyamorous couples.
After making the move from being a masseuse to being a surrogate partner, the mother said that she made the decision so she could earn enough to give her children the life they deserved.
After sleeping with between 300 and 400 people, it's fair to say that she is an expert on the topic, and within three months, she had sexual relations with her first client, a single man in his 60s.
He was a virgin, and after a month of working with him, they made love, and he would go on to have a relationship, as she started to understand the impact of her job.
Kaly explained that she insists on clients having a minimum of three sessions and a maximum of 10 to make sure that no romantic attachment is formed to her.
She usually goes to the gym or does yoga before seeing a client, admitting that since she has turned 50, she has to look her best.
"I see a dermatologist, and of course I regularly do Kegel exercises to keep my pelvic floor muscles tight," she told the publication.
Reflecting on one of her more memorable moments, she remembered when a virgin client saw her vagina, the first he had ever seen.
He said: “It’s marvellous!”
"I love the color and the texture," he added, but she admitted to thinking: “I’ve had sex for 30 years and not once has a partner admired me the way this guy has.”
Other wholesome moments also included the time she helped a man with autism have sex for the first time, after his parents used to bring him to sessions.
“Thank you for making him experience life as a man outside of his challenges,” she remembered his father saying to her.
Kaly explained: "My job has also helped me realize that sex can be incredibly powerful, rather than shallow or mediocre."
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She meets potential clients on Zoom to find out why they want to see her, also analyzing body language to "spot unsuitable people who think they can just turn up and have sex with me."
Kaly horrifyingly claimed: "One time, a man was naked. I turned off my camera and told him that’s not what I’m here for."
After they complete a consent form and paperwork, prices start from £250 ($330) for an in-person session which lasts an hour, or £1,250 ($1,700) for a day session of five hours.
She stated: "If a client is a virgin, the ultimate aim is for us to have sex."
"If they’re female, I can pass them on to a trusted male sex surrogate when they’re ready," Kaly said.
Clients must also provide a recent STD test and use condoms - she also clarified that she does not work with couples when she touches them, focusing on coaching them how to touch each other.
