Kaly Miller, a sex surrogate and therapist, recently opened up about her role and experiences in an interview on the British TV show This Morning.

Having worked with over 400 men, Miller's profession goes beyond physical intimacy, focusing on the psychological and emotional needs of her clients.

While sex surrogates may engage in physical acts, their primary role is to support and guide individuals who struggle with intimacy or other related issues. This work, Miller says, is deeply fulfilling and something she feels she was destined to do.

Miller’s journey into this field was not planned. Originally a remedial sports massage therapist, she became increasingly aware of her own understanding of intimacy and sexuality, which led her to study psychosexuality.

It was through this exploration that she stumbled upon the profession of sex surrogacy. She recalls seeing an ad for "open-minded body workers" and, after some initial hesitation, decided to take the plunge. It was her first client, however, who truly helped her see the significance of this work.

Kaly Miller is a sex surrogate. Credit: ITV

The heartbreaking story that left a lasting impact

During her time working as a sex surrogate, one particular client left a profound emotional mark on Miller. The client, a man in his mid-60s, had lived a life full of loneliness and self-doubt, never quite experiencing intimacy or love.

When asked why he sought out Miller’s services, he shared a painful admission: “I don’t want to die without knowing what love feels like.”

The depth of his response struck Miller deeply. She recalled vividly how the moment affected her, saying, “My heart literally goes up, because I not only the moment, I know the voice, I know the person, I know the feeling of them, I know their journey, what it looked like.”

Miller further revealed that this client, who had never been able to connect with anyone romantically, was so starved for human touch that he would only use coins to pay at the corner store, as it was the only time he felt physical contact. This story, Miller says, made her realize that she was in the right profession, one that she was truly meant to do.

How the job shapes Miller’s life and family

While Miller has had partners during her career, she emphasizes that her work is integral to who she is. She describes it as something she cannot separate from her identity. In addition to her professional life, Miller is also a mother, and her children, along with her parents, are her biggest supporters. Despite the complexities of her work, Miller feels deeply validated by her family’s unconditional support.

Though her profession involves intimate and emotional experiences with clients, Miller maintains that she has a strong sense of balance in her life. Her connection with her family is her anchor, and it helps her navigate the unique challenges of her role as a sex surrogate.

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A sex therapist who has been intimate with over 400 clients has shared the details of her controversial career and the surprising reaction of her partner to her work.

Kaly Miller calls herself a "surrogate partner," which means she helps clients navigate their intimacy issues by teaching them about love and sexuality, and even engaging in sexual activities to facilitate this process.

Miller's Journey

The 52-year-old initially worked as a remedial sports massage therapist before discovering her calling in intimacy therapy.

After seeing an advertisement for "open-minded body workers," she learned that becoming a surrogate partner was her true path.

"I was not expecting it," she said.

"I don’t think anyone sits at home and says, ‘I’m going to be a surrogate partner.’ I think everyone is taken on a journey."

Miller's journey began when she worked with a client in his 60s who had spent his life struggling with intimacy.

"I don’t want to die without knowing what love feels like," he told her, a moment that solidified her decision to pursue this unique career.

"At that point, [the client] liked going round to the corner shop to pay with coins because the only touch they ever had was when they paid the cashier and brushed hands," she said.

"He used to look out of the window, and this woman that passed by, and he would imagine [being in love] but never quite ever having the experience, or the confidence, or the experience to move forward," she said.

"Then are there, I felt I am in the right space... everyone has a karma or something to fulfil, but this is my thing," she added.

She worked with him for a year, helping him overcome decades of shame and embarrassment about intimacy. By the end of their sessions, he was able to form a long-term, intimate relationship.

Miller began her journey as a massage therapist. Credit: Ultramarinfoto/Getty

Her Career and the Price of an Hour with Miller

In 2014, Miller took a significant step by enrolling in a three-year university degree in Erotology, the study of human sexual love and desire.

She also studied under Vena Blanchard, president of the International Professional Surrogates Association (IPSA), to deepen her knowledge and skill in the field.

For the past seven years, she has run her own practice, The Naked Room, working independently without supervision.

She estimates that she has worked with approximately 400 clients. Miller charges £250 ($344) for an hour-long session, with prices escalating up to £1,250 ($1,700) for a five-hour session.

She starts her process with a free “exploratory” Zoom call with potential clients to ensure they understand what they are asking for and that she feels comfortable working with them.

She stresses the importance of safety and professionalism, always meeting clients at a hotel of her choice, where they are required to pay for all travel and accommodation.

She also insists that clients provide recent STI tests and sign consent forms before engaging in any physical intimacy.

"My safety is paramount: I have a tracking device on my phone and always check in with a friend or family member when I get home," she added.

Partner's Support and Family Reaction

Despite the controversial nature of her work, Miller revealed that her loved ones are extremely supportive of her career.

“My kids and my parents are my number one fans,” she shared.

“My mum’s reaction when I explained to them what I was working as was, ‘I think I would be a really good surrogate partner!’”

She also surprisingly revealed that she had a partner when she started the job.

Whilst many would expect there to be jealousy, she said that they understood her work, adding that "they cannot question what I’m doing" because "my journey is their journey".

As the sex therapist continues her work, she remains dedicated to providing a safe and transformative experience for her clients. "This is what I was born for," she concluded.

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A sex therapist who has been intimate with 400 of her own clients reveals the cost of spending an hour with her.

Kaly Miller, a sex therapist known for her candidness about sleeping with over 400 clients, recently appeared on This Morning to discuss her unconventional and controversial career.

A woman who calls herself a "sex therapist" slept with almost 400 of her clients. Credit: Frank and Helena / Getty

From Massage Therapy to Surrogate Partner

The 52-year-old first became interested in intimacy therapy while working as a massage therapist.

After spotting an advertisement for open-minded body therapists, she realized that her true calling lay in helping people connect with their own sexuality.

“I was not expecting it,” she said, recalling her first experience with a client, “I don’t think anyone sits at home and says, ‘I’m going to be a surrogate partner.’”

Her journey began with a client in his 60s, who had spent his life struggling with intimacy. "He told me, 'I don’t want to die without knowing what love feels like,'" Kaly shared.

This profound moment solidified her decision to pursue a surrogate partnership. "I felt I am in the right space, this is what I was born for - everyone has a karma or something to fulfil, but this is my thing," she shared.

She worked with the man for a year, helping him overcome decades of shame and embarrassment about intimacy. By the end of their sessions, he was able to engage in a long-term, intimate relationship.

"It was very [interesting] because of the age gap, he was telling me stories about his upbringing, which is once upon a time," Kaly said. “There was no VHS, no devices, if you wanted to have access to naughty things, you went to [the shop] and hid it in your jacket, hoping nobody would see you.|

Her Career and the Price of an Hour with Kaly

Kaly's career took off after she enrolled in a three-year university degree in Erotology, the study of human sexual love and desire, in 2014.

She went on to study under Vena Blanchard, the president of the International Professional Surrogates Association (IPSA).

Today, Kaly runs her own practice, The Naked Room, where she continues to work as a surrogate partner without supervision.

She estimates that she has worked with up to 400 clients over the years. “I don’t keep a tally, but that’s my guess,” she explained.

For her services, Kaly charges £250 ($344) for an hour-long session, which can increase to £1,250 ($1,700) for a five-hour session.

She starts her process with a free "exploratory" Zoom call with clients to ensure they understand what they are asking for and that she is comfortable working with them.

"There is no guarantee I will agree to take on a client and I have turned people away, including a man who joined the Zoom call naked," she told Daily Mail. "Once I have agreed to work with someone, the progress is based on the individual, though I like to have a minimum of three Zoom calls before meeting in person."

"I always meet clients at a hotel. They pay for all travel and accommodation, but I choose the venue, one that feels safe and professional. I always use condoms, everyone must provide a recent, clear STI test and complete consent forms."

"My safety is paramount: I have a tracking device on my phone and always check in with a friend or family member when I get home," she added.

Support from Family and Personal Life

Despite the unusual nature of her work, Kaly says her family is incredibly supportive.

"My kids and my parents are my number one fans," she shared. “My mum’s reaction when I explained to them what I was working as was, ‘I think I would be a really good surrogate partner!’”

Kaly has also been open about the fact that she had a partner when she started this career, and despite the challenges of her job, there is no jealousy in her relationship. She said, "They cannot question what I’m doing" because "my journey is their journey".

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A Florida woman has finally lost her virginity at the age of 32 after being cured of a rare condition that meant she couldn't have penetrative sex without feeling like she was "hitting a brick wall".

Karen Buono 35, from Wesley Chapel, Florida, has spent most of her life struggling to have sex due to a painful condition called Vaginismus, which causes the vaginal wall to constrict involuntarily. After struggling to have sex for years, Karen was cured after four months of physical therapy.

According to Karen, she realised something was wrong when she tried to have sex at 16.

"I knew something was wrong with me after I tried to have sex with my boyfriend for the first time when I was 16," she recalled.

"But no matter what we did, he just couldn't get it in.

"I thought it might have just been because it was our first time. So we waited a bit and tried again.

"He said it was like hitting a brick wall and there was just no way he could get it in."

Karen claims to have had the same experience with other boyfriends, but some of them reacted in a hostile manner.

"Some of them just yelled at me to relax. I used to get really drunk to try and relax my muscles.

"But nothing worked. I was so depressed. I desperately wanted to have sex. I was dying for it. But I couldn't.

"So I just told every partner I had that I wanted to wait for marriage. But that wasn't true at all."

According to Karen, two doctors failed to diagnose the condition when she was 25, despite the fact that she spent over $4,000 on medical assistance. She said it was only at the age of 31 that she was diagnosed with vaginismus. "I heard the word vaginismus thrown around, but never really knew what it was," she said.

"It wasn't until I went to see a pelvic floor specialist at 31 that she officially diagnosed me with it.

"After just four months of therapy with her, I was cured. I could finally have sex for the first at 32 years old.

"It was one of the best days of my life. I was so happy to finally lose my virginity and have sex with the man I love."

Karen went through intensive therapy and was sceptical at the start. However, she kept at it and finally got the end result that she was after.

"After four months, she told me I was ready to try.

"I waited a few more weeks to make sure I was 100 per cent ready. And then one night my husband and I were making out on the couch. I looked at him and said 'Do you want to try?'

"It worked. I finally had sex. I couldn't believe it. I rang my doctor straight afterwards to tell her what had happened."

Describing how she felt afterwards, Karen added:

"I felt so proud. I felt like I'd just won a race of something that I'd been training for. It wasn't romantic at all. But it meant the world to me.

"Over time, we did it more and more. It took about a year for us to really get into the groove of things.

"Now we're doing it around four times a week because we're trying to have a baby."

Karen says that therapy has been life-changing: "I really value sex. It's incredible. I was without it for so long, so I'd never take it for granted."

Karen and Joe got married last year and the teacher invited her doctor to the ceremony. Speaking about their bond, she said: "I invited my doctor to the wedding because none of it would have been possible without her."

"My whole life has completely changed. I never thought I'd be able to experience the joy of sex but now I'm with the man of my dreams doing it all the time.

"We're trying to have a baby, which is something I never thought I'd be able to do I always wanted to be a mother, so this is like a dream for me.

"There are women out there suffering from vaginismus in silence. You can never give up. There is hope.

"It's not all in your head. The condition is real, and it can be cured. I'm happier than I've ever been in my entire life."

Conditions such as vaginismus remain an unknown quantity, so the more people like Karen discussing them, the better.

A 73-year-old escort has revealed the odd response she has received from several men when they ask her to perform a breastfeeding kink for them.

Caroline Vee has made a lucrative career from sex work after previously having been celibate for 40 years, and it's safe to say she's seen it all when it comes to clients and their unusual requests.

Sharing her advice on Four Nine's OnlyGrans Hotline, Caroline revealed that some clients come to see her with a breastfeeding or adult baby kink, and are actually stunned that she can not produce milk.

She explained: "I have been asked by guys and one has to question their mentality, because I’m 73 so I’m certainly not producing milk any more, obviously.

"But also, I’ve got inverted nipples, so it’s a physical impossibility! So I always explain that to them. I don’t have nipples that you could suck anyway."

Caroline Vee revealed the misconception men often have about the breastfeeding fetish. Credit: Four Nine/Tea At Four

Caroline revealed that having inverted nipples doesn't put men off, as most have told her: "No problem, can I just suck on your breasts?"

She also has catered for adult babies in the past, explaining: "I have been asked to do adult baby [roleplay] and I have done that once, which was interesting because he didn’t do anything like [breastfeeding].

"It was more about dressing him up as a baby - so putting him in nappies and wearing a little hat, and a dummy. This particular guy also brought a blow-up doll."

Sharing her advice for the caller, whose boyfriend wanted to explore the fetish, she suggested: "If you’ve never thought about it, which I think the majority of women probably haven’t, it would come as a shock. My first question to him would be ‘why?’

"From what I have read, the experts say a lot of it does go back to how their relationship was with their mother when they were young.

"So I would suggest if they need some help of some kind, some counseling or whatever, to investigate where that started and then you might be ok to oblige."

Caroline shared her sex advice for callers. Credit: Four Nine/Tea At Four

As for her own experiences with clients that want to explore a breastfeeding kink, Caroline revealed that a concerning number do not realize that she can't actually produce milk on cue at 73 years old.

She joked: "I worry what goes on in men’s minds!”

While lactation typically occurs in pregnancy and beyond while feeding a baby, it is a hormonal response and is possible - though rare - outside of pregnancy, per the Cleveland Clinic.

Catch the rest of Caroline V's advice to callers on Tea At Four's OnlyGrans Hotline on YouTube now.

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